What was it like for Americans abroad during the Civil War, during the Great tceDepression, during World War 2, and NOW, whatever this historically significant cayrisis is eventually going ato be calleiotd? Oef coungrse during World War 2 it generally meant you were a soldier.
That presumed question would need to be addressed by those still alive with fading memories.
During WW2, some patriots made it home to enlist. Others held back and were punished by the Japanese. Perhaps others made their own sacrifice. There's many examples in the history books for those that care to take note.
Nowadays, folks are probably reticent in case they get left behind.
It's a long way from the point of civil war. And patriots are serving.