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It is safe to say I have disappointed a SE Asian female or two. Whether I've "broken their hearts" would be impossible for me to say. Only they would know to what extent their hearts were in it to begin with.

It's basically the Philippines but with better Western food.

Many expats in Thailand, who are seeking a long-term relationship, find a partner in the Philippines and bring her back to LOS. Some might say the best of both worlds.

If you live in a tourist haven, plan a trip to an Isaan city. Go online a few days in advance and line up dates. Show up and enjoy yourself.

Growing up, mom and dad taught me that virtually everyone I meet is superior to me in some way.

So, my great grandkids will have the details on how (and with whom) I spent my time?

100 years from now, will it make any difference with whom you spent your time and what her occupation was at the time you first met her?

The term "rent" and "renting" is used quite often in these forums. Are we talking about the girlfriend who receives a monthly allowance? If so, is it still considered renting when they get married and he is still providing her with financial support/salary?

A Filipina is not one of the options. Some expats believe that the secret to relationship success is to find a sweet Filipina and bring her to Thailand.

It’s a fact that my friends who don’t get too wrapped up in a lady’s feelings seem to be infinitely happier and carefree than those who get carried away with her emotional state and are keen on ensuring her feelings don’t get hurt.

I do 2 or 3 24-hour fasts per week. Just water and coffee. The first 3 or 4 times you do it, you feel hungry and you’ll maybe have a slight headache. After that, it’s smooth sailing.

I’m a bit surprised that no one has mentioned the Honda Jazz as an alternative.

Yes, I tend to think that daughters are much easier. They don’t feel like they are competing with you.

For those who have direct experience with the Suzuki line, what are the pros and cons for each? Also, is it just me or are these cars geared towards the female market? (I don’t think I know a male farang who owns either model.)

Pre-COVID, some guys found a lady there and brought her back to Thailand. Best of both worlds.

Quality health care is a factor for older dudes like us. Some expats who have experiences in both countries, feel that Thailand is a better bet in that regard.

We are all a long way from home. Many of us try the “relationship thing” because we like the idea of someone on the ground here who seemingly cares about us and complements our lives. Of course, whether she really cares (or not) could be the subject of another thread.

So, travelers to Malaysia need at least 1 booster?

Some become fearful she will get away so they take the plunge. They forget they live in SE Asia where finding another one is a piece of cake.

in 2019, they x-rayed one of my bags. Interestingly, it was not the big duffle bag but the smaller suitcase.

I don't lose much sleep over it but it amazes me that so many Western guys here in Thailand don't seem to realize this. I understand having a scarcity mindset back home but here?

"If you love me, you will buy me a house so that I will be ok after you are gone." Seen this a time or two with buddies.

Most of us make decisions based purely on fear.

After playing the field for a bit, I made the calculation....What do I have to lose in trying the "relationship thing". Being a long way from home, I will say it is kinda cool to have someone who is on your team and cares about you in the same way you care about them. In my case, so far so good.

In the West, most attractive girls in their 20's take time to enjoy their party years then, due to societal pressure and expectations from men, later gloss over their experiences. I have known many in this boat and often wondered, does her hubby have any idea what she did 15 years ago?