You are wrong, Hummin hit the nail on the head with
"you can choose to be fair and square play the p4p, or pick girls for fun, convince them you are a good guy, and dump them whenever you feel for it!
What is worse in your opinion morally ? "
If you are some kind of prude you won't be able to admit it, or if you have never done anything mommy wouldn't approve of you won't really understand it.
But he is right.