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My girlfriend she told me she would be starting a new job starting yesterday night and asked me to send her 50 peso to her paymaya so she can buy load It is currently flooding at her place, so she needed to call her employer and let them know its flooding and that she can't make it The problem is I can't send cash under I think $13 and she knows this.... When I told her I can buy her load online she refused it and wanted 50 peso instead(she was probably expecting the $13) The reason why I got suspicious was because she refused me buying her load online and she expected me to send her 50peso(she probably was expecting around probably $13) It all didn't seem right, I'm not trying to be a cheap skate but it all didn't add up She lives with her parents and her brother lives like 250 meters away with 2 children Her brother frequently(mostly always) drop of his kids over parents home to avoid expenses and a lot of the time barging in and going mad and asking money from parents and sister(she told me this) I'm no longer in ph, and I'm not even have much money so it gets really annoying when this happens If I give then I know where this would lead, she would probably always ask for money Should I just block her???

I have stayed im Philippines for about 4 months and noticed how awful the food is over there I have tried Jolibee, Pizza, and local food, but I really did not like the food, I remember going to dominos pizza and remembering how yucky the meat on the pizza was, I also remember going to the supermarket and seeing rotten expired meat I also have noticed that hotels are much much more expensive then in Philippines compared to Thailand??? Does Thailand have better quality food and is it more enjoyable??? I have noticed that usually a lot of the time Philippino are friendlier then Thai, but im interested in trying some delicious food Does thailand have better food and is it more enjoyable???

I have stayed in Pinas for quite a few months now and have come to a conculusion in beleiving that Western prison food is in higher quality then ordinary pinoy food I have tried various dishes and also have tried mang inasal but I did not enjoy the cuisine Im sure there should be people who have no issue with Pinas food but for me im just off that stuff..... I want to ship or stock my own yoghurt, meat, delicacies, and other food products/items but I assume it could get stopped by border force Is there a way that I can get a special pass to bring all those in???

I was told that a lot of people living in the Philippines dont even have the right to live like a very basic westerner If I have my own unit and don't have problems paying for unit fees and make a budget of 10000 peso a month for food Then what sort of food should I need to be buying or making??? Would I be struggling??? I am not a good cook and wont spend soo much money Should I use 10000 peso a month for the maid to get the ingredients and make food and for her to keep the left over money which is a couple of k???

I feel bad, but she was restricting me from having free time Where ever I go she holds my hand or grabs my arm and locks it with her and allways go when ever I walk out I have seen pinays hijack pinoys life and foreigners as well(I have seen Americans move baby prams of pinays), so I decided not to let that happen to me because I really dont want to have a baby as I would have no life and no money and no proper job(I have a new job aroud 4 times a year or more) I just left the aircon on and packed my important stuff and left the apartment while she was sleeping She is sending me messages asking me where I am, but if I go back to her then it would be harder for me to escape as she would just refuse to sleep and just keep her eyes on me all the time I feel happy I escaped but also feel bad, because she is sending messages asking where I am, but Idk what to tell her??? And I dont think I want to go back to her either and get restuck with super glue this time and end up like the other westerners moving a baby pram What should I tell her???

I have tried multiple Filipino dishes and have enjoyed a few(very tasty) but Filipino food is known to having a repuation of complaints for being not too great/having bad taste and etc Ofcourse, I had one of the tastiest foods served from a restaurant in Pinas such as mexican staek(very delicious) and thats why I beleive that they can have good cooks But generally it really is agreeable when someone makes a complaint about the cuisine for many reasons So from 0 to 10 what would your rating be???

Thank you

I have had the talk with her several time outlining that she is too old for me and me wanting her to leave. I had told her that im going to go out shopping and then I want her gone when I get back to my house but she still refused to leave A few day later the maid came up knocking on the door and giving food to me and when I told my girlfriend about the maid she got soo furious and it now feels like that she is sticking much more to me She now refuses to travel far distance convenience stores, when she gets something from a near by convenience store she tells me that the maid starts checking her out(but I think my girlfriend death stares at her because I know she can get violent) I have been tough and told her to leave previously but it did not work She allways tells me that she wants a baby and because she is 31yo and dosent want to get old alone not having a baby I have outlined to her numerous times that I am not that wealthy and change jobs around every 3 months per year and that it would make it incredibly difficult for me to fund the child When I get my visa extended she allways brings her own passport with her as well as if she is asking for me to get her a visa to my home country if i leave philippines Im planning to run because im having trouble getting her out??? I want to run, because I will have no life if I have a child with her Last post everyone told me to be tought, i did that but it did not work My girlfriend allways grabs my arms or hand while we are walking anywhere everywhere and she even has a cloth to wipe my back if it gets sweaty I just need alone time for my self so I can do what I like enjoying, I want to try joining classes or motorbike riding or talking to other girls and stuff like that It just feels like a woman is controlling my entire life and preventing me from talking to other girls Is the best choice to randomly leave??? And give her a note outlining why I left??? My last post/// Im living with my girlfriend right now for allmost 2 months, I have been talking to her for more then 6 months online from facebook she is 31 and I am 23 and its hard to get free time for my self because she just stays with me all the time and never leaves me thus making it really hard to get free time for my self I have tried to indirectly tell her that I want alone and free time for myself, but I think she did not understand it.... She has asked me to make a child with her, I know that if I made a baby with her I would have NO LIFE what so ever so I respectfully advised her of my financial situation by giving proof that I am not that wealthy and that I change jobs allmost somewhat every 3 months, but that did not stop her from continous asking There is no way I am willing to have a baby because I would have difficulty funding and no time formyself Maybe she wants to have a child with me to only get my visa, but i dont know or neither care.. I just want free time and want to enjoy myself and doing anything I can being a free person I just want some free time but I dont know how to tell her that???

Im thinking of that.... if I stetched out all of what I can do including being tough and doing what everyone advised me. If I got no choice at all then.....

She told me she is afraid of expiring, you are right... everyone told me to be tough and let it out and I dont want to be responsible for burning out her window... im having a talk to her and will try to get it sorted out all

Its like hard work for me

I can show proof im 23

Im 23 with and have id

I told her it would be a better option if she looked for a westerner her age and more wealthier in a respectful way, but she starts crying and asks for another chance

How? What do I do??

Does it work???

Im 23, and your right... oops

Im living with my girlfriend right now for allmost 2 months, I have been talking to her for more then 6 months online from facebook she is 31 and I am 23 and its hard to get free time for my self because she just stays with me all the time and never leaves me thus making it really hard to get free time for my self I have tried to indirectly tell her that I want alone and free time for myself, but I think she did not understand it.... She has asked me to make a child with her, I know that if I made a baby with her I would have NO LIFE what so ever so I respectfully advised her of my financial situation by giving proof that I am not that wealthy and that I change jobs allmost somewhat every 3 months, but that did not stop her from continous asking There is no way I am willing to have a baby because I would have difficulty funding and no time formyself Maybe she wants to have a child with me to only get my visa, but i dont know or neither care.. I just want free time and want to enjoy myself and doing anything I can being a free person I just want some free time but I dont know how to tell her that???

Why is it difficult living in the Phillipines??? Im not critisising the country, but as a foreigner its even difficult for me I get paid more then minimum around 30x more then a typical philippino, I dont expect mcdonalds and burger king to be 30 x cheaper, but when I was sitting at alpha mart we saw a person opening the fridge and saying it was expensive(translated from tagalog to english by my partner) when looking at drinks... When I was at KFC the chicken tasted salty and I double checked by asking my partner if it was salty... she even agreed it is salty Im not saying there is something wrong with the cuisine, but when i visited sm mall and entered the supermarket i was like: MY GOD. THE MEAT IS SOO BLACK, THE MEAT IS SUPER SUPER BLACK...... I dont know how they are allowed to sell the meat in the mall.... It feels like soo many philippinos want to try the best leaving the country to have a better life.... Im getting my partner to make me food since my diet is not compatiable with outside food.... It feels like i get treated highly special due to the the western appearence, wealth and nature of western superiority I remember speaking english and the woman moving backwards and just laughing and smiling IMHO other countries have better food, I remember purchasing over 1k Peso pizza from yellow cab, but the pizza still not tasting as good as western standards... One of the unfortunate curse being born in philippines is that the nature of the food/supply and variety of ingredients is not as equivillent to other countries... Im not trying to insult, but i remember even my western philippino neighbour addmitting a lot of stuff to me....

I want to purchase a condo unit, but i am not sure what companies for me to rely and trust, so im doing my research now..... Im interested in purchasing the unit and placing it into rent so i can have passive income, im interested in purchasing it from a reliable devleoper instead of physically bidding for pag ibig.... Does anyone know what companies/developers are reliable in giving informatiom or the most accurate??? I would be doing much much further research, is there anything I should be advised before purchasing the unit such as the laws ???

I want to stay longr in the Philippines as my schedule to go back to Aus is 21 march What place do I need to visit in order to get a visa to stay longer so I can explore the place??? Thank you

Yes, looks like I will be having to do something like that it seems....

Even the expensive food I buy has bad taste??? The 7-11 noodles taste better then the expensive food here... I visited 2 Thai restaurants, but even they dont know how to make pad thai from bothe 2 stores ??? Jolibee does not taste nice at all, mcdonalds served me cheesy burger(was'nt nice, meat was awful), kfc tastes strange??? Burger king is okay(but I cant eat that everyday) the 1 thousand peso pizza is 5/5 but can't eat pizza and burger king everyday, because ill get sick of it... When I visited the supermarket the meat from Australia was smelling off, and Chicken wasn't smelling well either??? I can not even find a proper variety of non-sweet yoghurt??? Vendor food and karendya(not sure how to spell it) does not look pleasing??? Food orders get mixed up so many times, i have to triple check my order??? I had cheap philippino noodles(I was expecting it to be better tasting, because i even though food was not tasting nice because i was spending a lot of money) I dont know where to get good food???

Hi I have waited a really long time, i will be travelling philippines at 19 feb, but I would be in need of gettin covid testing... What clinics do covid testing for me to enter philippines??? Thank you