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Hello. I'm an older gentleman with a young heart and would be interested in meeting with more mature Thai women around 35-45 yrs old.

I do enjoy being with young women but do prefer someone a little older,wiser and more mature for something a bit more serious. I have often had success at the Bamboo Bar nr Walking street.

Any suggestions for dating sites or ways to meet a more serious Thai lady for companions. I am sure there is someone out there who would be suitable.

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12 hours ago, mikesensei said:

BTW are you a fan of Sir Richard Burton?

I'm told I have a resemblance. ;)

 

Believe it or not, there are women who are interested in the sort of relationship you're after. You just have to figure out where they go when they are trying to find you.

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Hello. I'm an older gentleman with a young heart and would be interested in meeting with more mature Thai women around 35-45 yrs old.
I do enjoy being with young women but do prefer someone a little older,wiser and more mature for something a bit more serious. I have often had success at the Bamboo Bar nr Walking street.
Any suggestions for dating sites or ways to meet a more serious Thai lady for companions. I am sure there is someone out there who would be suitable.

Bamboo bar? Every time I've been there it's mostly 45-55 yr olds I would say but I get where you are coming from. I think there are many ladies who are sick of the usual scene and would like to settle with a more sure gent. Can't suggest a dating site as never used any bit there are many threads on here discussing them so have a dig about.
Best of luck.


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Why is it when people go to a new country they somehow leave there social skills behind. 

Talking to or looking for a girl fiend is the same the world over. See someone you are attracted to engage in polite conversation as you would do in home countries as i suspect everyone who was married or living together has done. Unless you really are a social retard.

Yet when it comes to finding the love of your life in Thailand suddenly you feel the need to:

A. Frequent beer bars

B. Join a dating site.

WHY.

Loads of good decent normal bars to go to or other social events. Where its quite possible to meet a lass. Away from the sexpat areas of course.

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Wiser, mature? You're having a laugh... I've dated Thai girls aged from 17 to 40. All immature and jealous and stupid and silly and completely unlike farang women. That's why I love em!!!

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get a hotel room in kuta beach, bali. hang out at local restaurants and shopping areas in the daytime. easy to meet japanese women and also taiwan women. imo quality way above the average thai woman you meet unless in professional circles. and (make sure you are sitting) they dont need your money nor ask for it or hint for it or tell you stories about sick family members.

 

thai dating sites imo are largely women looking for serious aka financial support

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5 minutes ago, atyclb said:

they dont need your money nor ask for it or hint for it or tell you stories about sick family members.

Funny im married to a Thai lady and have never heard those stories or been asked for money or been hinted at for money.

But hey dont let the truth get in the way of a good story.

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Next time your at the doctors office or hospital ask out a nurse or doctor.   At a restaurant ask out the waitress or cashier. At mall or stores  ask out employees.     

I dated TV reporter, journalist, Realtor , model; sales ladies, waitresses etc

 

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18 minutes ago, jeab1980 said:

Funny im married to a Thai lady and have never heard those stories or been asked for money or been hinted at for money.

But hey dont let the truth get in the way of a good story.

 

i also know and have dated gals that dont look for money or come up with the stories but the reality is they are all way too abundant. congratulations for announcing you have one of the exceptions amongst the farang seeking community. your truth is not necessarily representative for that of the majority

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9 minutes ago, bri1guy said:

Next time your at the doctors office or hospital ask out a nurse or doctor.   At a restaurant ask out the waitress or cashier. At mall or stores  ask out employees.     

I dated TV reporter, journalist, Realtor , model; sales ladies, waitresses etc

 

cool.  be forewarned that here on tv posting statements like that (despite being true) will not win you any popularity contests LOL

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On 9/13/2017 at 10:52 AM, mikesensei said:

Thanks for reply. I understand the problem. I'm just a bit fed up with short timers,escorts and massage parlours. I did have a great 3 day GFE last week and would love to repeat it sometime.

Mike

Yes Mike , but the percentage is awfully small / minuscule in Pattaya.

better make a trip to the backroads of Isaan Region .

I found a winner years ago - but Lord Buddha took her away from me

- through CANCER  !!  and I have seen the inside track of the medical

& hospital " business "   

The bottom line is : MONEY   !!

You have it , then all is smooth , you DON'T have it : Good Luck  !!

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24 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 

i also know and have dated gals that dont look for money or come up with the stories but the reality is they are all way too abundant. congratulations for announcing you have one of the exceptions amongst the farang seeking community. your truth is not necessarily representative for that of the majority

All the guys i know married or living with a thai have come to the same conclusions as me, so maybe not quite the exeption as you seem to think  or as this forum would have us belive. By the majority i presume you mean TV forum members? As i said dont let the facts get in the way of a good story..

Why do i need to be congratulated for dispelling a myth and telling the truth by the way.

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6 hours ago, jeab1980 said:

Why is it when people go to a new country they somehow leave there social skills behind. 

Talking to or looking for a girl fiend is the same the world over. See someone you are attracted to engage in polite conversation as you would do in home countries as i suspect everyone who was married or living together has done. Unless you really are a social retard.

Yet when it comes to finding the love of your life in Thailand suddenly you feel the need to:

A. Frequent beer bars

B. Join a dating site.

WHY.

Loads of good decent normal bars to go to or other social events. Where its quite possible to meet a lass. Away from the sexpat areas of course.

Many never had any social skills to leave behind which is why they came to Thailand, unable to get a girl in their own country but if they have some money can probably get one here.

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49 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 

i also know and have dated gals that dont look for money or come up with the stories but the reality is they are all way too abundant. congratulations for announcing you have one of the exceptions amongst the farang seeking community. your truth is not necessarily representative for that of the majority

I suppose if you live in a toilet you occasionally will find a turd,

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1 hour ago, atyclb said:

get a hotel room in kuta beach, bali. hang out at local restaurants and shopping areas in the daytime. easy to meet japanese women and also taiwan women. imo quality way above the average thai woman you meet unless in professional circles. and (make sure you are sitting) they dont need your money nor ask for it or hint for it or tell you stories about sick family members.

 

thai dating sites imo are largely women looking for serious aka financial support

Kuta very popular with single Japanese women who have some spare cash.They are known for being cougars to Balinese men and will spend lavishly on them. Some even sponsor them to come to Japan.You are correct about their quality though. Mostly graduates and would have no interest in begging for money for financial support.One of my friends here wrote an academic paper on the subject.

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11 minutes ago, mikesensei said:

Kuta very popular with single Japanese women who have some spare cash.They are known for being cougars to Balinese men and will spend lavishly on them. Some even sponsor them to come to Japan.You are correct about their quality though. Mostly graduates and would have no interest in begging for money for financial support.One of my friends here wrote an academic paper on the subject.

 

i have met-known great japanese and taiwanese women from bali.  some visited me in another country. their first choice are not the balinese boys (by the way are actually usually poor beach boys from java, not bali.)  some of japanese gals that enlist the beach boys are not very attractive. bali is sort of the reverse of thailand. obese aussie gals like the beach boys also.  i have had best luck with japanese surfer or boogieboard girls because we have an instant unassuming friendship based on surfing.  but after a day of surfing all you want to do is eat, shower and sleep LOL

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1 hour ago, atyclb said:

 

i have met-known great japanese and taiwanese women from bali.  some visited me in another country. their first choice are not the balinese boys (by the way are actually usually poor beach boys from java, not bali.)  some of japanese gals that enlist the beach boys are not very attractive. bali is sort of the reverse of thailand. obese aussie gals like the beach boys also.

Yeah, like the obese English women chasing black guys in Gabon.

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3 hours ago, jeab1980 said:

Funny im married to a Thai lady and have never heard those stories or been asked for money or been hinted at for money.

But hey dont let the truth get in the way of a good story.

I'm betting that you are the exception, if you met a good thai lady without having to endure the throngs of thais who are only interested in money...your good fortune is surely the exception and not the norm...i've never even considered a relationship with a bar girl or prostitute...and out the 5 or so serious relationships with thais (i.e., lasting more than 6 months, with an expressed expectation of monogamy), i've only had one that did not lie, cheat, or steal...and the women i had relationships with here were teachers, govt workers, attorneys, bank employees, and factory workers...this isn't a criticism aimed exclusively at thai women...the women i dated in the usa were the same...very few "good ones"...so you are truly lucky and blessed...

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11 minutes ago, hdkane said:

I'm betting that you are the exception, if you met a good thai lady without having to endure the throngs of thais who are only interested in money...your good fortune is surely the exception and not the norm...i've never even considered a relationship with a bar girl or prostitute...and out the 5 or so serious relationships with thais (i.e., lasting more than 6 months, with an expressed expectation of monogamy), i've only had one that did not lie, cheat, or steal...and the women i had relationships with here were teachers, govt workers, attorneys, bank employees, and factory workers...this isn't a criticism aimed exclusively at thai women...the women i dated in the usa were the same...very few "good ones"...so you are truly lucky and blessed...

Well you daid it yourself andwered your own question. Im not an exeption to the rule there are many more like me than there are like you.

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