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A Bar Girl Versus a Date – Is it really clear the best option?

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On 16/12/2017 at 8:16 PM, MaeJoMTB said:

Bar girls are a lot of fun, and good company.

Even if you don't take them home.

And if you get bored during a date it is more of a problem to cut it short and move on.  Unless you really intend to settle down soon you are not breaking any hearts or expectations with BG's.   I have had some interesting semi long term "friendships" that started as pay-for-play, both here and back home.  And at the end no one was hurt.  Lots of hurt feelings and recriminations in the dating/club/dancing scenes.

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On 12/17/2017 at 7:31 AM, Get Real said:

Just maybe it can have something to do with: feelings, humanity and moral.
You know, things that a car or a room ain´t equipped with. Just guessing, right?

Well, you see you are thinking like being involved instead of realizing it is business. I think that is the major reason so many farangs get hurt. They think they are establishing a relationship, with feelings, when they are just renting a brown spot; just like renting a room or a car.  Humanity and morals? You can be honorable and humane; simply pay her and don't mistreat her.

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2 minutes ago, smotherb said:

Well, you see you are thinking like being involved instead of realizing it is business. I think that is the major reason so many farangs get hurt. They think they are establishing a relationship, with feelings, when they are just renting a brown spot; just like renting a room or a car.  Humanity and morals? You can be honorable and humane; simply pay her and don't mistreat her.

I have 17 years experience of a totally different world, than the one you are describing. I guess it depends on how you are looking at a woman yourself. Doesn´t seem to be much feelings and moral in your description, does it?

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7 minutes ago, Get Real said:

I have 17 years experience of a totally different world, than the one you are describing. I guess it depends on how you are looking at a woman yourself. Doesn´t seem to be much feelings and moral in your description, does it?

You, my friend, appear to be confused. We are discussing prostitution; feelings and morals have nothing to do with it. And, you really don't want to get into a pissing match on how long you've been doing something--I got more than 17 years backing my Harley into a parking spot.

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20 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

You can't cure stupid!

And, it appears to highly contagious.

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19 hours ago, IAMHERE said:

I leave a damage deposit for the room and car; same with the bar girl?

Sure, but your deposit does not get returned.

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18 hours ago, timendres said:

There is some truth in all of those statements. However, as we are dealing with human beings and their relationships, all of those statements are greatly oversimplified. Understand yourself first (few really do), then understand your partner (even fewer), then you have a good chance at a happy relationship.

Anyone thinking they will establish a relationship with a bar girl are playing against the odds; but sometimes it works.

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17 hours ago, khunPer said:

You can't buy love, but you can buy something that feels and looks exactly like it...:whistling:

Are you sure you are not talking about sex? Love is not the same thing.

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14 minutes ago, smotherb said:

You, my friend, appear to be confused. We are discussing prostitution; feelings and morals have nothing to do with it. And, you really don't want to get into a pissing match on how long you've been doing something--I got more than 17 years backing my Harley into a parking spot.

First it was not anything of getting into a pissing spot about the extent of time. We already established that in another thread.
You, on the other hand, is the one that is confused. What this thread is discussing is prostitution and if it is possibly to live or have a normal and healthy marriage or relatrionship with a former bar girl.

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23 hours ago, Peterw42 said:

The difference between a "bargirl" and a "date" can be a very grey area sometimes. I have met BGs that never go with customers, they make lots of money doing lady drinks and tips etc, I have also met Girls that work in a bank during the day and go to the local nightclub, go home with a different guy every-night, for money.

It comes down to why they are doing what they do, for some its a genuine need to support a child, parents etc, for others they quit their job as a school teacher so they can buy a car and an iphone.

Why does it come down to why they do what they do? They do it to earn money and I think it does not matter how they spend that money.

If we ask what they will do with that money it might get complicated. Would we feel better if the girls go with us because they have to feed the baby? Or would be feel better if they want to buy the newest phone? Obviously we think the food for baby is more important. But that also means we use the service of someone who desperately needs the money for food. Keeping that in mind I guess I prefer the girls who do it because they want a new phone...

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50 minutes ago, smotherb said:

Sure, but your deposit does not get returned.

But it is more fun making that deposit.  If done with regard to W.H.O. recommendations you could even uplift your deposit and take it away with you after the transaction is complete.

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