Can a massage gal (44) make a good partner?

[Elkski]

I'm asking for a friend of course.  He is wondering if his idea of keeping in touch with a massage gal for possible further investigation as a possible long term partner is crazy?

I guess he had a massage with her a week prior to leaving BKK.  They seemed to get along well.   He did travel to the province and then hua hin with some days at the same hotel and she always tried to get more business.  I guess the day before his last day he got another massage and inquired about a hotel appointment and happy ending.  She quoted  3000 and would not budge.  They met after her shift and they had a great night and fun half day the next day.   She told him she has rarely done this.  

Sounds fishy to me.  

[brewsterbudgen]

Why not?  Just don't send her any money. 

[Will27]

"Sounds fishy to me"

 

Probably smelt fishy as well.

[isaanbanhou]

if he doesn t mind that she is 44 and works as a thinly disguised hooker, why not?

[Elkski]

He said not fishy.  Lol.   She has no debt.  A simple house back in the province.   A 22 yr old son who is at trade school and has a job and place and mostly pays his way.   She has an online Bachelor degree in management.  She is about 15 years younger than him.  He doesn't have a young woman fetish. 

[BobbyL]

Of all the women here to choose from, a 44 year old 'massage' worker really shouldn't be considered by anyone. 

[MaeJoMTB]

Lets assume 8 happy endings a day since she was aged 20 .........

Then add approaching menopause.

 

That's a lot of baggage.

 

PS

3k for a happy ending? Normally +500bht on the massage fee

(and that's normally with someone under 30 years old)

[steven100]

your in a candy store and your looking at moldy bread

[connda]

Does she have assets?  A house?  Land?  Willing to give up the business?  3k THB for a 'handshake?"  How about other boyfriends?

To me it doesn't sound like it.  So my initial reaction would be: "Run".  Don't look back.

[jossthaifarang]

On the upside, he'll certainly get a lot of good massage's if they do shack up..

[MaeJoMTB]

11 minutes ago, jossthaifarang said:

On the upside, he'll certainly get a lot of good massage's if they do shack up..

Met someone living with a massage girl.

She still expected him to pay for a massage.

[Acemaker]

3 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

Lets assume 8 happy endings a day since she was aged 20 .........

Then add approaching menopause.

 

That's a lot of baggage.

 

PS

3k for a happy ending? Normally +500bht on the massage fee

(and that's normally with someone under 30 years old)

Ahhh, the voice of experience.    

[MaeJoMTB]

33 minutes ago, Acemaker said:

Ahhh, the voice of experience.    

Yep, I never have anything to do with massage girls, they all have way too much mileage.

Bar girls the same age generally have less then 1/4 the use.

Not that I would look at any woman older than 30.

[VocalNeal]

5 hours ago, Elkski said:

He said not fishy.  Lol.   She has no debt.  A simple house back in the province.   A 22 yr old son who is at trade school and has a job and place and mostly pays his way.   She has an online Bachelor degree in management.  She is about 15 years younger than him.  He doesn't have a young woman fetish. 

if she makes him laugh and he makes here laugh and he has enough money for a quiet life in her house in the countryside, then why not.  One farang married a porn star. You lot are thinking the grass is greener... it maybe but it is just as hard to cut.

However he certainly shouldn't sent her a salary so she can stop working. 

[Proboscis]

5 hours ago, Elkski said:

He said not fishy.  Lol.   She has no debt.  A simple house back in the province.   A 22 yr old son who is at trade school and has a job and place and mostly pays his way.   She has an online Bachelor degree in management.  She is about 15 years younger than him.  He doesn't have a young woman fetish. 

And his basis for these assertions that she has no debt, simple house, good son studying in trade school with job etc? Let me guess, it is her.

 

Hmmmmm

[seancbk]

1 hour ago, jossthaifarang said:

On the upside, he'll certainly get a lot of good massage's if they do shack up..

 

She'll consider herself retired and never give another massage for as long as she lives.

[Suradit69]

5 hours ago, Elkski said:

He is wondering if his idea of keeping in touch with a massage gal for possible further investigation as a possible long term partner is crazy?

If he refers to her as a "massage gal,"  he's probably twice her age and spent much of his life gal-less, especially if he considers a key element to ensuring the viability of a long term relationship hinges on  "possible further investigation."

 

Probably better for him and for her if he continues to purchase short term liaisons and keeps the fairy tale relationship as a daydream where reality is kept safely at bay.

 

7 minutes ago, seancbk said:

 

She'll consider herself retired and never give another massage for as long as she lives.

And he'll waddle from pillar to post holding her hand trying to convince everyone, including himself, that it's a match made in heaven.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[realenglish1]

Rarely? Ha  Thailand is known for massage parlor and happy endings I

[smotherb]

1 hour ago, MaeJoMTB said:

Met someone living with a massage girl.

She still expected him to pay for a massage.

Well, that sounds like you met a real dolt--unless of course she was equally sharing rent, utilities, daily expenses, food and drink.

[smotherb]

2 minutes ago, realenglish1 said:

Rarely? Ha  Thailand is known for massage parlor and happy endings I

Don't understand why so many like happy endings. I prefer a happy beginning.

[Toscano]

If you are thinking of marriage , or having her live in with you , I wouldn't recommend it ;

As long as you are not obsessively jealous , there would be no problem in remaining close friends .

A lot depends on the nature of the massage , some are strictly Thai with No Happy Endings ;

other masseurse go all the way and changing their lifestyle is not so likely to happen .

I know a strictly Thai masseurse who now in her fifties is happily married to a foreigner .

I think they go out for every meal , perhaps because neither of them knows how to cook .  

[tifino]

... a 'live happily ever after...'

 

 

 

[smotherb]

37 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

Yep, I never have anything to do with massage girls, they all have way too much mileage.

Bar girls the same age generally have less then 1/4 the use.

Not that I would look at any woman older than 30.

I've known many girls under 30 who had lots of miles. It's like cars, mileage does not depend upon age.

[Jip99]

4 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

Lets assume 8 happy endings a day since she was aged 20 .........

Then add approaching menopause.

 

That's a lot of baggage.

 

PS

3k for a happy ending? Normally +500bht on the massage fee

(and that's normally with someone under 30 years old)

 

 

The age makes no difference; had a 51 year old ask 2,000 Baht for a happy ending.

 

High season that will ask for more but quickly revert to 500/1,000 Baht when they know you are not  tourist.

 

 

For the record, a 42 year old massage lady was one of the best shags I have I had.

 

 

Wouldn't dream of a long-term relationship with her though.......sex is sex.. 

[KKr]

yes, why not.
When I lived in Europe I knew a few working girls and formerly working, married girls socially.
the ones I met were real nice persons and had an interesting view of things.
The married couple were happy as can be (after 20 plus years).
So, why not indeed.
Because of what other people think ? Grow up. 
 

[natway09]

In short Yes, it can work.

For the poster who said that over 30's over the hill I say you are the one who is missing out

[seancbk]

23 minutes ago, smotherb said:

I've known many girls under 30 who had lots of miles. It's like cars, mileage does not depend upon age.

 

And like cars its not about the miles, its about finding a top model that's a good ride.

I'd much rather a girl who likes shagging than some prude who won't get in the sack until the 3rd date.  

 

[Dukeleto]

2 hours ago, jossthaifarang said:

On the upside, he'll certainly get a lot of good massage's if they do shack up..

I think that’s exactly when they’ll stop!

[smotherb]

2 minutes ago, seancbk said:

 

And like cars its not about the miles, its about finding a top model that's a good ride.

I'd much rather a girl who likes shagging than some prude who won't get in the sack until the 3rd date.  

 

Well, I've always preferred a girl who shags only me; so it should take a little while to get into it.

[Jip99]

13 minutes ago, smotherb said:

Well, I've always preferred a girl who shags only me; so it should take a little while to get into it.

 

 

Not it sure that Thailand is the best place to achieve that objective - neither monogamy nor chastity feature highly.