atyclb Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 this is more of a fyi post than seeking advice. chatting with popular dating site girl for about 2 weeks. had one date prior to songkran. she made it a point to tell me she finished university, has a good job and is not a prostitute. next she asks if i can help her in a chat message. wants to borrow a few thousand baht imo not an appropriate request from someone i hardly know. i gracefully decline citing prior goodwill loans that went unpaid. no messages from her x 24 hours if i dont hear from her it will be more clear the plan was to fit me up as a money source Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jvs Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 You did well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 I am a disaster on dating sites. I always make clear that i am not a ATM. Still wondering why i don't get any dates Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunBENQ Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Must be the same girl that a mate told me about. What a coincidence Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted April 15, 2018 Author Share Posted April 15, 2018 5 minutes ago, KhunBENQ said: Must be the same girl that a mate told me about. What a coincidence or one of many ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F4UCorsair Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 OP did well......now you know the modus operandi OP, stick with the hard position, even if you know them for years. Wanting to borrow next year will be too fast, or next decade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatOngo Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
observer90210 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Women, either in Europe, UK, USA, Thailand or anywhere...when they are gold diggers, seem to have almost identical techniques to manipulate the male ego or try to play on jealousy, in order to meet their ends. Don't fall in for it....just dump her and pick up another one....enough of them around not to fall into any such pranks. But of course, easier said then done....especially if she's great in the kitchen and when playing on your fiddle !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Many girls are asking for money for debt, some are fake profiles. I guess some mugs send them money. Get them on videocall, at least you can see if its actually an LB wanting money Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 The LOS iPhone is the scourge of the leg-over farang... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janclaes47 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, atyclb said: chatting with popular dating site girl Let me correct this for you chatting with popular dating hooker site girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darrendsd Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, atyclb said: f i dont hear from her it will be more clear the plan was to fit me up as a money source This was very clear the moment she asked you to "help her" Delete her and move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darrendsd Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, mauGR1 said: I am a disaster on dating sites. I always make clear that i am not a ATM. Still wondering why i don't get any dates Haha I know what you mean, I make it clear in my profile I am not a ATM, surprisingly I don't get many messages Saying that over the years I have had lot's of free fun off plenty of girls from the dating sites, although as i'm getting older these are getting less and less Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Compensated dating? Why should a girl give you sex for free? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatOngo Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 21 minutes ago, The manic said: Compensated dating? Why should a girl give you sex for free? True love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsensam Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, observer90210 said: Women, either in Europe, UK, USA, Thailand or anywhere...when they are gold diggers, seem to have almost identical techniques to manipulate the male ego or try to play on jealousy, in order to meet their ends. Don't fall in for it....just dump her and pick up another one....enough of them around not to fall into any such pranks. But of course, easier said then done....especially if she's great in the kitchen and when playing on your fiddle !!! that may be your experience and and it's sad to hear as, happily, i have never dated a thai lady who wanted money from me. back home i dated scores of women, not one wanted my money. i've dated in japan, mongolia, china and france and not one wanted my money. maybe i have other things to offer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, janclaes47 said: Let me correct this for you chatting with popular dating hooker site girl Many Thai women that are known to be gold diggers and in-fact prostituting themselves to the highest bidders, do not consider themselves as prostitutes because they don`t work in a bar, I`m not a bargirl they will claim. They are incapable of equating gold diggers and bargirls. I scammed some old guy out of thousands of dollars on a dating site, but because I didn`t meet him in a bar, then that doesn`t label me as a prostitute. On most dating sites there comes a written warning; not to send women money under any circumstances. Those that don`t heed those warnings, well, more fool them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HiSoLowSoNoSo Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 minute ago, cyberfarang said: Many Thai women that are known to be gold diggers and in-fact prostituting themselves to the highest bidders, do not consider themselves as prostitutes because they don`t work in a bar, I`m not a bargirl they will claim. They are incapable of equating gold diggers and bargirls. I scammed some old guy out of thousands of dollars on a dating site, but because I didn`t meet him in a bar, then that doesn`t label me as a prostitute. On most dating sites there comes a written warning; not to send women money under any circumstances. Those that don`t heed those warnings, well, more fool them. Or as my friend said, all Thai ladies got a cash register between their legs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 16 minutes ago, samsensam said: that may be your experience and and it's sad to hear as, happily, i have never dated a thai lady who wanted money from me. back home i dated scores of women, not one wanted my money. i've dated in japan, mongolia, china and france and not one wanted my money. maybe i have other things to offer? Like what? Please tell us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 minute ago, HiSoLowSoNoSo said: Or as my friend said, all Thai ladies got a cash register between their legs. Surely somebody will come and say that it's not true and you should expand your circles, learn to speak Thai etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HiSoLowSoNoSo Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 2 minutes ago, mauGR1 said: Surely somebody will come and say that it's not true and you should expand your circles, learn to speak Thai etc I speak, read and write Thai, and it was my Nepalese friend who said it not me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted April 15, 2018 Author Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, The manic said: Compensated dating? Why should a girl give you sex for free? our time is valuable also Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatOngo Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 34 minutes ago, samsensam said: that may be your experience and and it's sad to hear as, happily, i have never dated a thai lady who wanted money from me. back home i dated scores of women, not one wanted my money. i've dated in japan, mongolia, china and france and not one wanted my money. maybe i have other things to offer? Bitcoins, stocks and bonds, gold chains? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 13 minutes ago, HiSoLowSoNoSo said: I speak, read and write Thai, and it was my Nepalese friend who said it not me. Well, i was being sarcastic, are you American ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted April 15, 2018 Author Share Posted April 15, 2018 16 minutes ago, mauGR1 said: 20 minutes ago, HiSoLowSoNoSo said: Or as my friend said, all Thai ladies got a cash register between their legs. Surely somebody will come and say that it's not true and you should expand your circles, learn to speak Thai etc Imo it is true to an extent, a much higher extent (%) on dating sites where they know foreighners are found. fyi I spoke to her mainly in Thai. but she can chat in English as it seems or use translate service. on date she complained about Thai men and they have too many girls. boring same tale. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CGW Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, The manic said: Compensated dating? Why should a girl give you sex for free? Exactly! & how can you ever have trust in your relationship if your not willing to start the process? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarteso Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Many girls are asking for money for debt, some are fake profiles. I guess some mugs send them money. Get them on videocall, at least you can see if its actually an LB wanting money...or Nigerian man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 25 minutes ago, mauGR1 said: Surely somebody will come and say that it's not true and you should expand your circles, learn to speak Thai etc Agree. That way when they ask for 20000 baht in Thai, we`ll know what they`re talking about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F4UCorsair Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 1 hour ago, The manic said: Compensated dating? Why should a girl give you sex for free? Why should you, a man, permit her to exploit you, violate your body, for her own gratification, at no cost? There's no such thing as a free lunch. Men have been underselling themselves for too long, so its time to take a stand and start charging women for sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HiSoLowSoNoSo Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 24 minutes ago, mauGR1 said: Well, i was being sarcastic, are you American ? No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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