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British man in Pattaya killed himself after amassing huge debts supporting Thai wife

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17 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

As evidenced by Thaivisa.com on an almost daily basis, there are a lot of stupid people who think it is their job to give Thai girls a lot of their money.  I think it is pertinent to challenge this because it isn't logical.

 

Not sure where alpha male and attention seeking come into it.  We need to challenge this alpha male thing because that's what killed the guy in the OP.  He saw himself as the provider to a whore and then killed himself when he could no longer provide.  This should have been nipped in the bud at the outset but it wasn't and that's partly because of people like you who whinge on about respect and other such intangible nonsense, instead of talking frankly and openly.

Captain Saveaho, is white knight syndrome not alpha behaviour.

Most of them decided on this line of work because they are lazy/like sex/party/booze/drugs.

 

As for the suicide, 68 ain't a bad age, I'd be happy with another 6 years too.

Many of my pals have died well before that age.

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4 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

Captain Saveaho, is white knight syndrome not alpha behaviour.

Most of them decided on this line of work because they are lazy/like sex/party/booze/drugs.

 

As for the suicide, 68 ain't a bad age, I'd be happy with another 6 years too.

Many of my pals have died well before that age.

I already got 30 year of bonus, and still kicking. So every day is a wonderful day. 

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A number of troll  posts from the same person have been removed, You need to stop now.

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Being married to a Thai bar girl is like being divorced from an American woman.

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1 minute ago, Mac98 said:

Being married to a Thai bar girl is like being divorced from an American woman.

Personal experience? 

 

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9 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

How about a picture of the wife?

 

9 hours ago, sanemax said:

How about clicking on the link in the O.P ?

I did and I would rather jump than stay with her!!!!:sorry:

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34 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

sad to see posts being removed for 'trolling' when there was no trolling, only open and honest discourse.  The problem is the people who are offended by reality, not the people for presenting reality to them.

 

 

I think you will will find your latest post will go as well on the grounds of questioning moderation... ?

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12 hours ago, hyku1147 said:

Depression is a killer. RIP:sad:

 

"When the Reaper confronts you - kick him in the balls. Then he may say 'just testing kid!'."

It's not like he didn't have a good reason for being depressed. Being 68, broke and in debt was the reason... It makes me depressed even thinking about it.

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1 minute ago, tropo said:

It's not like he didn't have a good reason for being depressed. Being 68, broke and in debt was the reason... It makes me depressed even thinking about it.

But the last two were his own fault for giving way too much money to a worthless whore.  He had a decent pension anyway.

 

68 is better than being dead.  You can do lots of fun things when you are 68.  Like play chess.  And watch football.  And he had a new, better missus by the sounds of it.  Lots to live for.

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1 hour ago, MaeJoMTB said:

Captain Saveaho, is white knight syndrome not alpha behaviour.

 

 

 

I have pondered this over the years - and, yes, I have the Captain Saveaho T shirt.......

 

From my very first day in Thailand I had this overwhelming desire to improve the lives of the poor young wenches, who had been driven into a life  of serving the needs of aging western gentlemen. 

 

I believed, and still do, that every 1,000 Baht expended is doing some good and provides me with a warm, charitable feeling. A generous 10% tip on top - and another 100 Baht for the girl’s bastard child - just adds to that sense of ‘doing good’. 

 

It is therefore natural that that we then progress to adopting one of our choosing (some Expats go as far as marrying). Saving them from their former life of servitude is often recognized with a reciprocation of warmth and caring - sometimes with loyalty and gratitude.

 

Occasionaly, there will be a ‘bad un’ that does not come up to scratch and repays your generosity with greed and loathing - these need to be weeded out at an early stage and replaced with one who can conform.

 

As long as that cycle can continue there should never be a need to contemplate suicide - being able to walk away from, or turn your back on,  something that you have committed most of your time, money and heart to is a necessary skill for longevity in Thailand. 

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2 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

But the last two were his own fault for giving way too much money to a worthless whore.  He had a decent pension anyway.

 

68 is better than being dead.  You can do lots of fun things when you are 68.  Like play chess.  And watch football.  And he had a new, better missus by the sounds of it.  Lots to live for.

 

 

69 Is definitely better than being dead......

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It's a cute post but why give them money.  Let them make their own.  Thailand is not that poor.  They can make 500 baht a day quite easily and live on half of that.  If they choose to give the rest to their family, well that's their business.  They're not going to be homeless or destitute.  Better to find a girl who can support herself, plenty out there.

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Sounds to me like she was a bar girl Why in gods name marry

a bar girl You know what you are going to get

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49 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

But the last two were his own fault for giving way too much money to a worthless whore.  He had a decent pension anyway.

 

68 is better than being dead.  You can do lots of fun things when you are 68.  Like play chess.  And watch football.  And he had a new, better missus by the sounds of it.  Lots to live for.

What's the point of saying his problems were his own fault? That changes nothing.

 

Watching football and playing chess after 68... to live for... Now I'm even more depressed. :sad:

 

 

 

 

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To blow ones life savings on a "Lady" is one thing, but to borrow 50'000£ from family and friends and then make a fast exit? He was fully aware, that he would never be able to repay the loans.
Something like this I call despicable behaviour.


Surely, his creditors will join in the RIP chorus, but from their point of view the RIP probably stands for
"Rot In Purgatory".
Cheers.

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