The manic Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Just now, sanemax said: Lets not get into a disagreement about what words mean , a bargirl is a person who sells sex for money , which makes her a prostitute . Freelancers are prostitutes that you dont have to pay a barfine for Indeed you dont pay them bar fines because unlike the bar girls they dont work there..they just frequent the place. I am not arguing with you. Just giving you accurate information and a quick language lesson into the meaning of the verb to frequent.? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DILLIGAD Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Are we not all ‘freelancers’?Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanemax Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 3 minutes ago, The manic said: Indeed you dont pay them bar fines because unlike the bar girls they dont work there..they just frequent the place. I am not arguing with you. Just giving you accurate information and a quick language lesson into the meaning of the verb to frequent.? "Frequent means to go to a place often , and going to the same place everyday is regarded as going there often , frequently Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 5 hours ago, The manic said: She works there as service staff. Exactly , boys or girls , barboy , bargirl , I am talking about staff who works in a bar , not prostitutes. Somehow many foreigners thinks that every Thai is for sale in Thailand , any person as long as you have money . That might have been true years ago when Thailand were a poor country . I doubt any handsome girl working in a bar wants to have sex with an older fat farang , even for 3000 baht . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Small Joke Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 On 7/18/2018 at 8:23 PM, sanemax said: 8000 Baht for the night . 2000 Baht barfine 10 drinks at 200 Baht each . Sorry , I dont believe you I inow one guy who pays 4 grand. We were quite old wing mates back in the motherland, and actually fell out over it. I called him a <deleted> idiot to his face. Frndship over. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 On 7/26/2018 at 8:57 PM, Dick Crank said: of course its a scam. they are tourist traps. never figured out why some guys frequent them regularly other then a first time been there done that visit. cant be the women or drinking, there are easier, more affordable and better options all over. the only reason ive found is the voyeur aspect. specifically, being seen by other guys with a nice looking lady, or wanting to watch other guys with ladies. specifically, a homo aspect thats not at all obvious to a casual observer. think about it Back before Thaksin when the scene was great, the gogos put on shows, and the places were hoppin with expats. It was the best entertainment that I ever experienced. The present scene is just a pale shadow of what it used to be. Sadly, I find little to keep me sitting these days, and I get bored pretty fast. Nana has some good looking ladies, but that's it. The shows, if there are any, are not a patch on what used to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 6 hours ago, balo said: Exactly , boys or girls , barboy , bargirl , I am talking about staff who works in a bar , not prostitutes. Somehow many foreigners thinks that every Thai is for sale in Thailand , any person as long as you have money . That might have been true years ago when Thailand were a poor country . I doubt any handsome girl working in a bar wants to have sex with an older fat farang , even for 3000 baht . 5555555555555555 If you think service staff don't go with customer, you are mistaken. Any girl in a gogo will go with anyone if the price is right, except ( maybe ) coyotes. It's just a job to them, and they ain't looking for lurve. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 10 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: Back before Thaksin when the scene was great, the gogos put on shows, and the places were hoppin with expats. It was the best entertainment that I ever experienced. The present scene is just a pale shadow of what it used to be. Sadly, I find little to keep me sitting these days, and I get bored pretty fast. Nana has some good looking ladies, but that's it. The shows, if there are any, are not a patch on what used to be. Absolutely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 5 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: 5555555555555555 If you think service staff don't go with customer, you are mistaken. Any girl in a gogo will go with anyone if the price is right, except ( maybe ) coyotes. It's just a job to them, and they ain't looking for lurve. I barfined a coyote may times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 15 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: 5555555555555555 If you think service staff don't go with customer, you are mistaken. Any girl in a gogo will go with anyone if the price is right, except ( maybe ) coyotes. It's just a job to them, and they ain't looking for lurve. Whenever somebody calls the sex workers 'prostitutes ' they are being pejorative, judgmental and are ill informed hypocrites who marry and pay dowry and pay their wives money to run the house. They are also trying to equate the dreary western model of the worst types of exploitation of women with Thai model which is more akin to empowerment and liberation and sexual freedom. It is this freedom which is the threat to Christian Puritanism and other sections of our culture including certain individuals who are exteralanising their own moral weakness by judging others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 12 hours ago, sanemax said: "Frequent means to go to a place often , and going to the same place everyday is regarded as going there often , frequently No. You are confusing the noun 'Frequency' which BTW has multiple meanings with the concept of Adverbs of frequency which includes a chain of Adverbs ranging from Always to never with sometime being in the middle of the chain then 'often' followed by 'frequently '. But in its verb form it significance pertains to going to a place but not for work purposes as in being formally employed staff. It's idiomatic not literal English and does not reflect quantity of visit i.e. (frequency) . It the quality visiting a place. Of being in a particular place. On your first visit to a bar if somebody called you and asked about your whereabouts and activities you response could be' Im currently frequenting X bar. The worker would say I'm currently working at X bar. Big difference. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 45 minutes ago, The manic said: I barfined a coyote may times. She take all your baht? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Just now, bkk6060 said: She take all your baht? No. Broke my heart! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 58 minutes ago, The manic said: I barfined a coyote may times. Which is why I added "maybe". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 53 minutes ago, The manic said: Whenever somebody calls the sex workers 'prostitutes ' they are being pejorative, judgmental and are ill informed hypocrites who marry and pay dowry and pay their wives money to run the house. They are also trying to equate the dreary western model of the worst types of exploitation of women with Thai model which is more akin to empowerment and liberation and sexual freedom. It is this freedom which is the threat to Christian Puritanism and other sections of our culture including certain individuals who are exteralanising their own moral weakness by judging others. Back in my western home country, I knew many sex workers. Lovely girls they were, absolute stunners in the looks department and really nice people, but they definitely were prostitutes. BTW, they were NOT dreary western model of the worst types of exploitation of women. They were just women that chose to make a living by having sex with men they didn't know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kadilo Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 2 hours ago, The manic said: I barfined a coyote may times. .....and I’ve been with “service girls”. Once they get pissed the real them comes out. Some have dumb sponsors and use their service girl position to pacify them into thinking they are good girls who just want to carry on working. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanemax Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 2 hours ago, The manic said: No. You are confusing the noun 'Frequency' which BTW has multiple meanings with the concept of Adverbs of frequency which includes a chain of Adverbs ranging from Always to never with sometime being in the middle of the chain then 'often' followed by 'frequently '. But in its verb form it significance pertains to going to a place but not for work purposes as in being formally employed staff. It's idiomatic not literal English and does not reflect quantity of visit i.e. (frequency) . It the quality visiting a place. Of being in a particular place. On your first visit to a bar if somebody called you and asked about your whereabouts and activities you response could be' Im currently frequenting X bar. The worker would say I'm currently working at X bar. Big difference. You are complicating the issue , its quite simple : People who sell sex are prostitutes . You could view them as attractive young ladies who desire your attractive body and company who have sex with you because they want to and for free and that you just generously give them money because they are hungry . Facts are that they have sex for your money , not through choice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psimbo Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 I haven't bothered with LK Metro for a number of years. I was in a wine related place one night and a fight broke out. One guy down on the floor and a group of baldy tattooed Brits kicking the bejesus out of him. THEN one of them got CS spray out and it got in the aircon system oh how we laughed (well actually we cried). Once the guy was barely moving cue high fives, jangly jewellery and 'Orl roight my san's' all round. I decided this 'geezer bar' was not for me. It's not the type of element I choose to socialise with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 52 minutes ago, Psimbo said: I haven't bothered with LK Metro for a number of years. I was in a wine related place one night and a fight broke out. One guy down on the floor and a group of baldy tattooed Brits kicking the bejesus out of him. THEN one of them got CS spray out and it got in the aircon system oh how we laughed (well actually we cried). Once the guy was barely moving cue high fives, jangly jewellery and 'Orl roight my san's' all round. I decided this 'geezer bar' was not for me. It's not the type of element I choose to socialise with. One fight and you are gone? It adds some character to a place I think. I would probably go there a lot, get a seat in the corner, and hope to watch some more carnage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kadilo Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 56 minutes ago, Psimbo said: I haven't bothered with LK Metro for a number of years. I was in a wine related place one night and a fight broke out. One guy down on the floor and a group of baldy tattooed Brits kicking the bejesus out of him. THEN one of them got CS spray out and it got in the aircon system oh how we laughed (well actually we cried). Once the guy was barely moving cue high fives, jangly jewellery and 'Orl roight my san's' all round. I decided this 'geezer bar' was not for me. It's not the type of element I choose to socialise with. Wine related place in LK Metro? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said: Any girl in a gogo will go with anyone if the price is right, I am not talking about go go clubs. Just a normal bar for Buddha's sake! Where you will find bar staff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 35 minutes ago, balo said: I am not talking about go go clubs. Just a normal bar for Buddha's sake! Where you will find bar staff. Have you ever asked to confirm this? I have several times and been told most if not all the staff in a bar will go with customers. Unless they are short that evening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 10 minutes ago, bkk6060 said: I have several times and been told most if not all the staff in a bar will go with customers. I do not know which bars you frequent , but I am talking about any bars , anywhere . I am sure some people will claim they paid 1000 baht for a 7 eleven girl for sex and it happens , but do not think all Thais that are working here are up for sex with some random farang. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 22 minutes ago, balo said: but do not think all Thais that are working here are up for sex with some random farang. I totally agree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topt Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 8 hours ago, Kadilo said: Wine related place in LK Metro? There was an A/C glass fronted place closer to Soi Diana (just down from where Shooters is) that had a "wine" type name but it closed 5 years ago or more. From memory was good value as a G&T was only about 60 baht......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 15 hours ago, balo said: I do not know which bars you frequent , but I am talking about any bars , anywhere . I am sure some people will claim they paid 1000 baht for a 7 eleven girl for sex and it happens , but do not think all Thais that are working here are up for sex with some random farang. i think there all up for sex its just some are more choosier than other and some you dont have to pay. they all seem to enjoy sex and dont have any hang ups about sex on a first date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted July 31, 2018 Share Posted July 31, 2018 23 hours ago, balo said: I am not talking about go go clubs. Just a normal bar for Buddha's sake! Where you will find bar staff. Bar staff in a gogo too. However, any of them in any bar will go with customer if the price is right. They can make more in one night than a week as a service staff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted July 31, 2018 Share Posted July 31, 2018 8 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: Bar staff in a gogo too. However, any of them in any bar will go with customer if the price is right. They can make more in one night than a week as a service staff. There are also situations in these places where maybe a girl normally does not go. Like a girl who is there to empty the trash and clean toilets. This happened to me once in Nana. I asked the mamaasan about her because she was cute. The mamaasan told me: She not go, but if you want her I make her go. So, I guess you never know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanemax Posted July 31, 2018 Share Posted July 31, 2018 1 minute ago, bkk6060 said: There are also situations in these places where maybe a girl normally does not go. Like a girl who is there to empty the trash and clean toilets. This happened to me once in Nana. I asked the mamaasan about her because she was cute. The mamaasan told me: She not go, but if you want her I make her go. So, I guess you never know. We are talking about normal girls working in normal bars . Anything involving "Nana" doesnt count as being normal . Although you guys must be very attractive to females , every time that Ive ever asked a non prostitute girl out for a night , Ive always get refused . What am I doing wrong ? When I go to restaurants , all the freelancers/staff by day/prostitute by night often make themselves available , and the non prostitute girls keep well away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted July 31, 2018 Share Posted July 31, 2018 2 minutes ago, sanemax said: We are talking about normal girls working in normal bars . Anything involving "Nana" doesnt count as being normal . Although you guys must be very attractive to females , every time that Ive ever asked a non prostitute girl out for a night , Ive always get refused . What am I doing wrong ? When I go to restaurants , all the freelancers/staff by day/prostitute by night often make themselves available , and the non prostitute girls keep well away It is not always easy. Who knows the true answer to life, meeting the right person and relationships. All one can do is keep trying and hope for the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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