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BANGKOK 21 February 2019 16:48
Anca

I flew Thailand two times in 9 months!

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I wanne publish our story because I wanne warn others about the corrupt and crazy authority system in Krabi/Thailand and I wanne publish in hope that some other people with authority in Thailand can make the police stop blame victims and make them start help because much better for rumours of Thailand.

 

My daughter was raped in AoNang short time past midnight 12. February and after I take her to Krabi hospital for get injection, Dna test etc we reported to police and the same day we reported the staff from the bar the rape happened inside came to the hotel we stayed in and start threatening us... and we flew Thailand 1.5 day before court because this bad guys get worse, we found out police lying to us long story and you will find all details in another story. 

 

My husband and I thought we found a way for finally give my daughter justice when she still safe in Norway so we travel to Surat Thani in September and prepared together with the lawyer, and our lawyer told we will win the case for 100% and my husband and I travel happy back to Norway for think and discuss travel for stay in court or not. 

 

My husband and I had big trust in this lawyer and what he said so we booked flight + hotel and came back to krabi airport 8.november... guess what happened? 

 

After 1 night in hotel, date 9. November, my husband take his first steps outside hotel for buy chips/candy in SMart next to the hotel and a white pickup stop him and the driver, a Thai man, pointing a gun at my husband and tell him to take me out of Thailand that day if not he will kill me and him, if he tell security at hotel they will kill security too... 

 

This was Friday 9. November and I was going to witness and fight justice for my daughter in Krabi court 13. November... but this guys is so crazy and we know they mean it when they say they wanne kill me... and we don’t know how they knew we was back, how they knew what hotel we stayed in, how they knew my husband was outside hotel and in same minute the gunman show up... to much things suddenly not okay so we decided to escape/flew Thailand again... my second time flew Thailand a few days before court. 

 

My lawyer from Surat Thani that I already had paid and cleared out that could take case in court without both my daughter and me, change his mind and write messages to me and tell my daughter must come to court her self because she is the plaintiff in case... he already knew my daughter can’t come back to Thailand because she still suffering after rape, the threatening, our escape and hiding in Dubai in February. I had prepared all documents from Norway authorities and Thai embassy in Norway so this lawyer has 100% power of authority and can take my daughter case in court without her... he told me to fix this documents so he could take it all when we back in Norway and I did what he told me to do but monday 12. November he message me can not and when I ask why you change your rules he answer me “can not, this is Thailand”

 

Our embassy in Bangkok doesn’t help and I’m lost, sad and angry because I believe police in Krabi, the bad guys in AoNang and our lawyer from Surat Thani set me up... how can they do this way? Why they don’t protect and help??? A f...... local bartender raped my daughter and all his friends + polices day our lawyer only continue the crime against us! 

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But I got the gist, and would point out Thailand has always been a dangerous place for young women to get drunk and party.

It's not as if the papers and TV News don't publish multiple stories of rape and suspicious deaths of foreigners in Thailand every single year. The local criminal gangs are dangerous and often supported by local officials.

 

Why did she come here in view of the widely publicised risks?

Why didn't you as her parents stop her coming here in view of the widely publicised risks?

Why did you think your visits would be free of personal risks?

 

Be grateful your daughter survived to return to Norway, many daughters didn't.

 

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4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Text too small to read.

But I got the gist, and would point out Thailand has always been a dangerous place for young women to get drunk and party.

It's not as if the papers and TV News don't publish multiple stories of rape and suspicious deaths of foreigners in Thailand every single year. The local criminal gangs are dangerous and often supported by local officials.

 

Why did she come here in view of the widely publicised risks?

Why didn't you as her parents stop her coming here in view of the widely publicised risks?

Why did you think your visits would be free of personal risks?

 

I’m sorry about the size of the text and I don’t know how to make it bigger🙈😅 

 

Our family traveled to AoNang many times every year from 2011 and we never go out for partying in nightclubs when we was there. We had a volunteer project with help street dogs and cats, and we stayed with our local friends that’s not “party-dudes”!

 

In February I traveled alone with my daughter, she’s 19 year and we was on the way back from Krabi night market, we met some foreigners friends and she go to the bar together with them and I walked to the hotel. 50 minutes later she was raped, she was not drunk, she drink 3 cocktails in krabi and nothing in this bar. She asked the bartender how to find toilet because never being there before, the bartender take her downstairs for show her but push her into a room a raped her. 

 

YES, I never read Thai news like this forums etc before and I believed it was safe to let her go to a bar with 3 friends in a area we stayed many many times and months ealyere! 

 

Do do you have any else good questions or advice before you go to sleep? 

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9 minutes ago, Anca said:

Do do you have any else good questions or advice before you go to sleep? 

It's 8am here, I just got up.

As for other advice, since you asked, it's against the forum rules to post the same topic in more than one forum.

I have every sympathy for you and your family, this is a dangerous county for foreigners.

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8 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

It's 8am here, I just got up.

As for other advice, since you asked, it's against the forum rules to post the same topic in more than one forum.

I have every sympathy for you and your family, this is a dangerous county for foreigners.

Good morning 🙂

i didn’t know the rules about only post in 1 forum, and i tried to make it with bigger text but not success... haha. 

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9 minutes ago, Anca said:

Good morning 🙂

i didn’t know the rules about only post in 1 forum, and i tried to make it with bigger text but not success... haha. 

Well, good to see that your mood has changed for the better and you can see the funny sides of life as well as the sad and the unfortunate...

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3 hours ago, Slip said:

That is what he does.  On every thread of this nature.

You are free you offer your advice, but instead, choose only to slam me.

 

My advice is, and always will be, for people not to put themselves in danger.

Thailand is a dangerous place with no rule of law as we know it.

This family escaped with their lives, best not to encourage them to take further risks.

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20 minutes ago, HooHaa said:

i think its pretty sad to hand down such judgments from behind a keyboard.

So let's hear your advice?

PS, I don't believe I've blamed the victim, but feel free to point out where I did.

 

But here comes a bit of blame,

It's illegal for a 19-year-old to enter a Thai bar, age restriction for customers is 20.

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8 hours ago, BritManToo said:

You are free you offer your advice, but instead, choose only to slam me.

 

My advice is, and always will be, for people not to put themselves in danger.

Thailand is a dangerous place with no rule of law as we know it.

This family escaped with their lives, best not to encourage them to take further risks.

I didn't slam you, and I'm not trying to, but you do apparently have a perspective on matters such as this, and it always involves what I would call victim blaming.  I was just pointing that out to someone who commented on your post.

 

As to the first clause: Ad hoc advice to rape victims is a game I would rather not play.

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