webfact Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 Danish man marries his Thai ladyboy sweetheart - but has never asked if she's a he! Thai Rath reported on a marriage ceremony in Thailand's south on Saturday in which the groom was a man from Denmark and the "bride" was a man from Trang. The couple married legally in Denmark two months ago and confirmed their vows in a ceremony for relatives followed by a slap up party at a local hotel. John Standskov, 54, a civil servant, was married twice before to women but these unions never worked out. Yingyong "Anne" Nokkaew, 49, who has lived in Denmark for thirty years himself, divorced five years ago. The couple met and mutual respect and love soon developed in a place Thai Rath called "the land of cow's milk". Anne said that John had never asked if he was a man or a woman. John said that Anne is a lovely woman. The couple have known each other for four years and said that this marriage is for keeps as it is true love. Source: Thai Rath -- © Copyright Thai Visa News 2018-12-03 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worgeordie Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 17 minutes ago, webfact said: John Standskov, 54, a civil servant, was married twice before to women but these unions never worked out. So this time he's trying it with a man ? regards Worgeordie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezzra Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 I'm sure that was a big surprise there..Seriously dude... didn't even occur to you to check what you're BEFORE marrying the other dude?... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dmaxdan Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 31 minutes ago, webfact said: Anne said that John had never asked if he was a man or a woman. I fairness this is not a question that people ask in normal life. If you've got any suspicions that things are not as they seem then there are more subtle ways of finding out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BestB Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 I get from OP that John does not mind what gender his love is. Just surprised it took him 54 years and 3 marriages to realize he was gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owl sees all Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 27 minutes ago, ezzra said: I'm sure that was a big surprise there..Seriously dude... didn't even occur to you to check what you're BEFORE marrying the other dude?... A bit hard-hitting that ezzra. How/why did the story even break? Not news for me; just a talking point over a beer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kieran00001 Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 28 minutes ago, BestB said: I get from OP that John does not mind what gender his love is. Just surprised it took him 54 years and 3 marriages to realize he was gay. What do you think a gay man would want with a ladyboy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
holy cow cm Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 So he likes to take it instead of giving it. He tried the other way with 2 wives and flopped. A bit odd though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeremy50 Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 26 minutes ago, Kieran00001 said: What do you think a gay man would want with a ladyboy? 555, you can tell these guys that a thousand times, but they never seem to get it. Or why would a ladyboy find a gay man attractive? They wouldn't, they would think it absurd. A lot of strait men like ladyboys because they find them more feminine that girls, and better and more responsive in bed than girls. Absolutely nothing to do with being gay. How can people live in Thailand for so many years and just not understand that gender and sexuality can be far more flexible than a lifetime of pub bigotry has led you to believe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HAKAPALITA Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 Well he is a Civil Servant.!.Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4MyEgo Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 After 4 years he should have found out if he likes whatever he gets. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enoon Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 33 minutes ago, sanemax said: If you preference is your partner having a penis , rather than a vagina , it probably means that you are gay Assuming your ladyboy (kathoey) wife is pre-op and retains one. I have just been told that, of course, "kathoey sometime make same p**** as lady" Why would she comment that he had never asked her? Why would he if the equipment was there? Or do you think that they kept it platonic until the wedding night? So is a man who marries a kathoey post-op, without "what all gays want",......gay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 2 hours ago, Jeremy50 said: A lot of strait men like ladyboys because they find them more feminine that girls, and better and more responsive in bed than girls. Absolutely nothing to do with being gay. Really? Where does your insight come from? I know two types of guys: a) straight guys who would never knowingly do something with a lady-boy b) straight guys who from time to time want a BJ or the backside and lady-boys seems to be good in these services. And then there are guys who go to lady-boys bars. I had a friend who had such a bar in Soi 33 a few years ago. I asked him once if they all had the operation. I thought that would help with business. But he corrected me that all his customers wanted the lady-boys full equipped so that the lady-boys could <deleted> the guys. I wouldn't say a guy who looks for a lady-boy to get <deleted> in the back would call such a lady-boy "more feminine than girls". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pete1980 Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 I wonder how much he paid out for sin sod? I tried out a ladyboy once. I don't recommend it. It hurt like buggery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enoon Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 39 minutes ago, Jeremy50 said: How can people live in Thailand for so many years and just not understand that gender and sexuality can be far more flexible than a lifetime of pub bigotry has led you to believe? Because "a lifetime of pub bigotry" is not conducive to intelligent, enlightened re-assessment of ones views and opinions. It's sort of....axiomatic. (From one who has worked on the other side of the bar). And spent more than enough time listening to "them". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BestB Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 1 hour ago, Kieran00001 said: What do you think a gay man would want with a ladyboy? Well a straight man sure as hell does not marry another man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 50 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: After 4 years he should have found out if he likes whatever he gets. A headache...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 13 minutes ago, BestB said: Well a straight man sure as hell does not marry another man True. But he's marrying a ladyboy, so it's irrelevant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vacuum Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 A guy get married and people get all worked up about it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterHongThong Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 I think the headlines is a bit deceiving. I think he knew immediately that she was a ladyboy, so didn't bother asking and she knew that he knew. The first time they slept together he would see whether she still had her penis or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LennyW Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 See the Transphobics are out in force again today!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEngBKK Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 I have seen a sex change operation... The result can be very convincing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BestB Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 25 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said: True. But he's marrying a ladyboy, so it's irrelevant. Having “ boy” makes it all very relevant Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quadperfect Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 Lola Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny1990 Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 2 hours ago, BestB said: I get from OP that John does not mind what gender his love is. Just surprised it took him 54 years and 3 marriages to realize he was gay. My ladyboys dates usually assuring me that i’m not a gay because they are like girls. ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 15 minutes ago, MasterHongThong said: I think the headlines is a bit deceiving. I think he knew immediately that she was a ladyboy, so didn't bother asking and she knew that he knew. The first time they slept together he would see whether she still had her penis or not. That's the theory. But it seems there are guys who just don't know. Maybe they have 0 experience what a women should look like or they don't look or whatever. I heard the story of this guy who was with his holiday bar girl for two weeks on an island and he was so happy that he found the perfect girl. He showed a picture to my friend who knew "her", except it wasn't a her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
car720 Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 I just want to know if there is a gay Valhalla? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
car720 Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 Wow, I didn't realize just how much he looks like the Australian Prime Minister. Now that explains it all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaifly88 Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 3 hours ago, worgeordie said: So this time he's trying it with a man ? regards Worgeordie he can't do any worse. At least he hasn't given up ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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