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Mike Hong Park - are you Korean American mate? As an Asian male, it should be MUCH easier for you to understand the mindset of women out here. So many are used-to-death by men. If given the opportunity, why would she not use a man the way society uses women?

100% move on. You have obviously done well for yourself. There are many attractive women with bachelor’s degrees from good schools (you owe it to yourself to learn the schools and rankings) who are available to someone like you. Just be tougher in your selection process.

This is a business transaction, just hopefully one which results in love. Never put false time pressure on yourself in any business negotiation, and of course avoid women who have their biological clock ticking, thus putting time pressure on the relationship.

For the entertainment of the group - how did you prove she was cheating?


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41 minutes ago, simon43 said:

Since you're legally married, according to Thai law, you are also entitled to monetary compensation from the Thai guy (I assume he's Thai?) who's been f**king your wife.  I'd inform her that you are contacting a lawyer to pursue that man for damages, as well as your divorce of course.

The cheating wife did not reveal to the Thai guy that she was married, but lied that she was engaged. I wonder if I am still entitled to compensation from the Thai guy as I will be losing all of the deposit for the 2nd wedding reception next month.

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2 minutes ago, puukao said:

It's always 100% over if someone cheats.  I'm sure there are more, or many more times than you think.  maybe all-day, all-night, all-day, all-night...yea, put that in your mind.  it's horrible.

 

Wow - some real religious or victorian values from a man here. Some thai women and even one farang man I saw post here - accept that their partners want to be intimate with others from time to time.  I've had bar girls that I welcome in my bed whenever they can - and of course I know they have been with many other men.  How can that be "horrible"  -  Obviously you and the OP have traditional values - yet it is the 21st century and statistically 56% of men and women "married" in thailand do enjoy the company of others while married

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7 minutes ago, RicUSA said:

Am confused - if you have been married 11 months and have not gotten her pregnant by now  ?! How is having another wedding ceremony going to expedite having a child?!?  When the kid is 16 and you are 62 - yes you will be a grandpa in some ways - just my opinion

 

 

 

 

He’s old enough to be her grandpa, let alone the prospective kid...

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2 minutes ago, SuperTed said:

For the entertainment of the group - how did you prove she was cheating?

I had another thread on this forum on help with translating the chat transcript between wife and boyfriend. 90% stated that she's cheating and 1 stated to use fiverr for translation service, which I complied. The translator immediately contacted me and gave me a verbal run down stating "You're not going to like this". Thereafter, next time I talked to wife, I told her that I know so just tell me the whole truth. She did not admit it until I finally said that I have her chat transcript. 

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1 minute ago, RicUSA said:

Wow - some real religious or victorian values from a man here. Some thai women and even one farang man I saw post here - accept that their partners want to be intimate with others from time to time.  I've had bar girls that I welcome in my bed whenever they can - and of course I know they have been with many other men.  How can that be "horrible"  -  Obviously you and the OP have traditional values - yet it is the 21st century and statistically 56% of men and women "married" in thailand do enjoy the company of others while married

i think you MUST include my entire post, not just parts.

 

if you want to have a zillion partners, don't get married.  marry more than one, get arrested in some countries.  

 

one word: virtue

 

traditional values?  you must be joking.  56%?  you make up stuff.  just because you have no morals, not my problem.  

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3 minutes ago, RicUSA said:

Obviously you and the OP have traditional values - yet it is the 21st century and statistically 56% of men and women "married" in thailand do enjoy the company of others while married

Those are thinkings of a millenial. I just turned 48.

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1 minute ago, mikehongpark said:

Those are thinkings of a millenial. I just turned 48.

traditional values:  Respecting the woman, respecting the man. respecting their feelings, family, friends, etc...

 

anyone who cheats has no concern for the emotional damage to families, kids, etc....  

 

odds of them letting their friends know back home?  zero percent  why zero percent?  because they know everyone knows it's wrong.

 

can't argue anymore with people who can't think it through.  

 

 

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3 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:

Those are thinkings of a millenial. I just turned 48.

Just turned 48, with a mental age of 8.

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14 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:

The cheating wife did not reveal to the Thai guy that she was married, but lied that she was engaged. I wonder if I am still entitled to compensation from the Thai guy as I will be losing all of the deposit for the 2nd wedding reception next month.

Just like we are entitled to compensation for having to read this.

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You can’t buy love ,stop thinking with your dick and find someone nearer your own age..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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8 minutes ago, puukao said:

i think you MUST include my entire post, not just parts.

 

if you want to have a zillion partners, don't get married.  marry more than one, get arrested in some countries.  

 

one word: virtue

 

traditional values?  you must be joking.  56%?  you make up stuff.  just because you have no morals, not my problem.  

The 56% has been quoted here on TV many times - googled here:  https://asiancorrespondent.com/2015/02/thailand-ranked-most-adulterous-country-in-the-world/    Well morals would only be involved if you took a religious oath as in the christian vows  - hence religion.  No scientific evidence anywhere says monogamy is beneficial or necessary in human beings, just societal rules and religion, and yes I am agnostic, but not married anymore

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