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Married to Thai girl, found out she's cheating while USA green card/visa is in process

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7 minutes ago, puukao said:

Send screen shots of something that gives credibility.

I can give screen shot of anything you want. Wedding invitation? My flight? Credit card transactions? Wedding cert from last year? Of course, I will be blacking out personal info.

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10 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:

Not lying, but simplified to get help with the language translation to make it short. Yes, I am having a 2nd marriage reception for my USA friends/family in a month. 

By now, you should probably know that my problem is that I don't know how to BS with women and don't know how to tell sweet little lies.

I opened the 2nd one, after getting the help on the language translation and after confirming the cheating happened.

Being unable to BS women? I think you'll find being able to BS TV posters a whole lot harder.

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  • Continue on as you are already married. Your friends and family coming will have a blast and this is exciting for them to have a chance and reason to travel. If it does fall apart in the future then so what. But it may not and you are fine. You have really nothing to lose except money. Face?, who cares s USA is the capital of divorce. If you do divorce then get back up in the saddle and feel alive again.
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  • GO FO IT! 

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So, is she now single?

 

Lots of guys on TV want her Facebook page...... LOLOLOLOL

 

Of course this is a TROLL post:

 

Nobody with half a clue would go to TV and ask advice on their marriage, and then make up their mind in 4 pages.

 

Come on..... next post:  My Thai wife is living with 100 guys who don't speak Thai, should I be worried?  

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which is/was the 'official' wedding?   

 - the one in LOS was one at the Amphur? or was one at the temple with the monk and family?

 - if the LOS one done official (Amphur), then the US one is not a 2nd wedding, but just a keep the US family happy to be included one.

 - and so, the US one is not going to have any relevance to Green Card actions... 

 

the hazy answer to whether are you actually married yet or not, depends on the above

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10 minutes ago, kevin612 said:

you can forgive her if she stays in america only. She will cheat on you again if she stays in thailand.

The National Visa Processing Center approval email came yesterday and she should be able to come in 1-2 months if all of the interview goes smoothly. However, I am given many advice on this forum to drop her in my life. However, I will give her a chance to talk in about 3-4 hours.

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10 minutes ago, biggerpill said:

I am 64 years old and from USA.. had at least 30 girlfriends before I met my wife..

30? Had more than that before I was 25. You yanks do lead sheltered lives!

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16 minutes ago, SuperTed said:


Disagree - age difference is no more an issue for farang as it is for wealthy Thai men.

I’m 49 and diligently banging my 26 y.o. gf every night. I drop her off and pick her up from work six days a week and keep her dutifully by my side on Sunday. I don’t drink much, and she doesn’t either. (If you don’t want to be played by a bar girl, don’t stay with a bar girl.) We both love to hike.

I have given her money before to take her friends out. And then shown up to say hello, or sent my Thai friends to do the same. The same way a Thai man does.

I honestly think about it a bit like I do minding children, tweens. They SAY they hate being told what to do and monitored, but actually they crave it and it makes them feel loved. The response from her friends when I showed up to check on her was positive, if not jealous.

What Thai men have that farang don’t is extended family to keep an eye out. Too bad there are so few farang men I would trust with my gf, otherwise we could keep an eye out for each other!


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3 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:

The National Visa Processing Center approval email came yesterday and she should be able to come in 1-2 months if all of the interview goes smoothly. However, I am given many advice on this forum to drop her in my life. However, I will give her a chance to talk in about 3-4 hours.

my advice is to marry her, have 100 kids, and honor her family and your commitment.  in sickness and in health. in cheating or not, you will be with her until your final days!!!!  at least give her 10 chances, and be there for her.  she is crying out for help, and you were not there for her.   

 

even if she cheat with 1000 guys, you must stay.  

 

6 billion people on the planet.  never-ending comedy.  

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6 minutes ago, puukao said:

Come on..... next post:  My Thai wife is living with 100 guys who don't speak Thai, should I be worried?  

Or, "I have just discovered that my Thai wife has a full set of wedding tackle. Should I be worried?"

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3 minutes ago, tifino said:

 

which is/was the 'official' wedding?   

 - the one in LOS was one at the Amphur? or was one at the temple with the monk and family?

 - if the LOS one done official (Amphur), then the US one is not a 2nd wedding, but just a keep the US family happy to be included one.

 - and so, the US one is not going to have any relevance to Green Card actions... 

 

the hazy answer to whether are you actually married yet or not, depends on the above

On 2/23/2018 was the official at the amphur. A day after that was the wedding reception with just her side of family and friends. Green card applications were sent in 4/2018. Notice of action received around 10/2018. Approval to proceed received yesterday. 2nd wedding reception to occur on 2/23/2019 (1 year after marriage registration at amphur)

 

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3 minutes ago, HighPriority said:

Can you live stream it on FB for us ?

No, then you will know my identify and probably defame me or something.

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Wow, lucky you to have 30 friends and family members who would take the trip from the Usa. I would enjoy that fact, and just move on 😉 

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