Farang neighbor with a very young teen African transgender

[samsensam 5,376]

 

if you have genuine concern for the safety of a child there is excellent advice here:

 

https://www.unicef.org/thailand/what-we-do/child-protection

 

https://thailand.savethechildren.net/what-we-do/child-protection

 

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abuse/signs-symptoms-effects/what-if-suspect-abuse/

 

don't let anything stop you from protecting a child.

[tifino 4,245]

8 minutes ago, samsensam said:

 

if you have genuine concern for the safety of a child there is excellent advice here:

 

https://www.unicef.org/thailand/what-we-do/child-protection

 

https://thailand.savethechildren.net/what-we-do/child-protection

 

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abuse/signs-symptoms-effects/what-if-suspect-abuse/

 

don't let anything stop you from protecting a child.

 Meanwhile a possibly innocent couple - suicides!  ( - a point someone else has already brought up...) 

Stigma sticks... 

 

And then there is the payback, angry family payback 

[PhilippBKK 183]

My dear Soi stalking American friend, 

why not get to know this nice family over a drink and many of your questions might be answered.

 

[overherebc 15,558]

22 hours ago, robblok said:

Better make sure it is as you think it is. He might even have adopted the kid who knows. 

 

When I was out with my former stepdaughter I was also victim of people who assumed the worst. I can't say its fun. 

 

My wife's niece 13 years old, stayed for a few days and she loved swimming. We all went to the local hotel pool and my wife dropped us off to go shopping for an hour.

I have never been so relieved as I was when she came back to the pool. The looks and whispers among the expat local wives made me extremely uncomfortable.

[robblok 31,638]

4 minutes ago, overherebc said:

My wife's niece 13 years old, stayed for a few days and she loved swimming. We all went to the local hotel pool and my wife dropped us off to go shopping for an hour.

I have never been so relieved as I was when she came back to the pool. The looks and whispers among the expat local wives made me extremely uncomfortable.

I know the feeling that is why i said the guy better be sure about his suspicions. Sure kids need to be protected but at the same time people who are innocent should not get into problems because of nosy others. 

 

Its tough because if too lax kids could get hurt but if too strict innocent people could get hurt too. 

[bbi1 1,119]

"What would you do?" - Move out asap. I don't like to live next to Ladyboys or pedophiles

[bbi1 1,119]

On 1/22/2019 at 4:12 PM, Vacuum said:

What does her body mass/volume have anything to do with this? Just curious.

I think he's possibly worried that she'll accidently sit on the kid?

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[FritsSikkink 8,030]

On ‎1‎/‎22‎/‎2019 at 3:45 PM, soistalker said:

I guess I am being too nosy. And a middle aged man with a young transgender teen is normal.

Ever though they guy could have the kid from a relationship with an African woman?

What is it to you there is a bottle of whiskey on the table?

[FritsSikkink 8,030]

On ‎1‎/‎23‎/‎2019 at 8:41 AM, samsensam said:

 

if you have genuine concern for the safety of a child there is excellent advice here:

 

https://www.unicef.org/thailand/what-we-do/child-protection

 

https://thailand.savethechildren.net/what-we-do/child-protection

 

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abuse/signs-symptoms-effects/what-if-suspect-abuse/

 

don't let anything stop you from protecting a child.

You first need to know if the kid needs protecting, it could be his legal child. Get some proof before you interfere in others peoples life and not just because you THINK it is strange.

[NCC1701A 36,971]

any up dates? look through their window and tell us what you see.

[roo860 4,888]

 

Bout sums it up.

[NCC1701A 36,971]

On 1/22/2019 at 2:42 PM, soistalker said:

What would you do?

by the way, did you complete my Body Mass Index test and post your score?

 

thanks.

 

 

[dontoearth 318]

On 1/22/2019 at 7:45 AM, soistalker said:

Yes. So jealous about the homosexuality and casual immorality of society. 

   This tells us plenty!

[neeray 9,036]

On ‎1‎/‎22‎/‎2019 at 5:40 AM, soistalker said:

In the States, I could call the police and ask for a wellness check on the child. I'm not reporting any paedophilia; obviously it's not being done in the open. The child is as dark as the night, obviously not mixed. And he is a boy self identifying as a girl with a middle aged white guy. It doesn't sit well with me. It's not that easy to adopt an African transgender. And they don't live here full time, and it is time for children to go back to school. I just dont like this.

How can you be so certain that the dark skinned youth is transgender? Have you seen some proof?

Have you witnessed any interaction between the middle aged gentleman and the "transgender"?

Could this be a houseboy (hired help)?

I'm certain that we've all seen youth who look much younger than their age. In fact movie producers higher this type to keep them within certain laws.

Maybe the "transgender" does have a relationship with the "middle aged man" but the transgender is of a consenting age.

Posters here have tendered some good advice (and some good laughs). Best you learn more. But I'd skip the camera idea and the ladder.

Tread carefully for the sake of all, you included.