Popular Post direction BANGKOK Posted March 21, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 21, 2019 'I feel an educated person who cares about quality and correctness would go absolutely insane dealing with many Thais if he didn't practice avoidance and detachment.' That is an interesting quote, I would say remove "Thais" and substitute in "humans" and you are really onto something. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justin case Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 20 hours ago, brokenbone said: i have only negative expectations after my last gf and so my expectations cant dip any lower. only thing difficult here is visum uncertainty visa elite, 5 or 20 years, only cost a lot of money Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrmicbkktxl Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 21 hours ago, laislica said: Yes me too. I married a Thai 6 years ago and promptly took her to live with me in Spain. We only visit Thailand for holidays so she can reconnect with her family and friends. Thailand is too expensive compared to Spain too. Spain has proper seasons and the language is so much easier than Thai. When in Thailand and out and about, my wife has to constantly remind me not to shout at stupid vehicle drivers, for my own safety/. Roads in Thailand are a nightmare and immigration rule changes make those expats who live here full time, live under The Sword of Damocles! Can I ask you what is more expensive in Thailand and what is more expensive in Spain? Rent?Food?Gasoline? Where did you move to in Spain?Sorry if to intrusive I'm just curious because Spain would be ok for me too 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 I practice an attached/detachment... about everything... a bit of distance... "it's life and life only." Dylan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gunderhill Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 11 hours ago, Thongkorn said: I Practice detachment in Thailand. Its called Emirates. Good luck with that I've found some Emirates crews very detached. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ctkong Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 18 hours ago, Thaidream said: It's hard living in Thailand if everything you do or think is compared to the Western world. You have to at least understand nothing you do will really make a difference except the way you conduct yourself. You cannot change the Government; you cannot make people drive safely; you cannot change the education system and you can't change the Immigration rules. It used to bother me when I first came decades ago but since then I have adapted- some of the unpleasantness I don't even see anymore. Resistance is futile. That philosophy is also part of the Buddhist teachings. As you cultivate more and more, you learn to accept the changes you made to adapt the the situation. Adaptation of the mind comes from inside you. When you adapted, problems that used to irk you disappears. Karma is a good philosophy. It acts as a safety valve attributing all wrongs done to you resulting from your past deeds and with the promise of a better future rebirth for your present good deeds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bert bloggs Posted March 22, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 22, 2019 Just accept that if most Thai drivers had another brain cell they would be a plant and you cannot go wrong . 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCC1701A Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 22 hours ago, davidst01 said: 'I feel an educated person who cares about quality and correctness would go absolutely insane dealing with many Thais if he didn't practice avoidance and detachment.' I am Mr. Spock. Works for me commander. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laza 45 Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 Serenity Prayer... God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,Courage to change the things I can,And wisdom to know the difference. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wake Up Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 22 hours ago, laislica said: Yes me too. I married a Thai 6 years ago and promptly took her to live with me in Spain. We only visit Thailand for holidays so she can reconnect with her family and friends. Thailand is too expensive compared to Spain too. Spain has proper seasons and the language is so much easier than Thai. When in Thailand and out and about, my wife has to constantly remind me not to shout at stupid vehicle drivers, for my own safety/. Roads in Thailand are a nightmare and immigration rule changes make those expats who live here full time, live under The Sword of Damocles! FYI. No one cares. Enjoy Spain and finds something to do rather than criticize Thailand and decisions of other people. Every country has good and bad and we are all not alike. If Spain was utopia then it would be the most expensive place on earth. So enjoy your Eutopia my friend and forget the places you don’t enjoy ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anagami Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 The Sedona Method by Hale Dwoskin is a helpful modality for that.... and not just for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KKr Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 22 hours ago, Nyezhov said: Dude, all I have IS Thai TV (except for BEIN) and let me tell you, the Soap Operas are great. And I dont speak Thai. Chicks in Sarongs with black teeth poisoning each other and screetching and howling and waving choppers and evil stares! Killer. I had this girl over one night and she walked right to the TV and flipped it on and just stared for like an hour. be careful man, maybe she is getting ideas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post malibukid Posted March 22, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 22, 2019 (edited) do not hook up with a Thai. friendly people but should keep at a distance. you will never understand them and they you. just strictly business. laundry, food, hotel staff. but do not get involved. don't expect that the supermarket will keep you favorites items in stock. hoard is the ticket. believe half of what a Thai will tells you and do not expect the truth. do not expect things to be done or ready when they are promised, this will only cause frustration. do not complain, this will get you nowhere. do not ask to talk to supervisor or boss man, this will only produce a look of utter bewilderment and get you nowhere. don't expect the stop lights to function or the drivers to obey them when crossing the streets. keep your guard up and you will be just fine. Edited March 22, 2019 by malibukid 4 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murraynz Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 20 hours ago, CGW said: Add in escaping the taxman and covers most........... how do you escape the taxman ??????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjbrownderby Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 Immersion works much better than detachment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ThaiBunny Posted March 22, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 22, 2019 2 hours ago, NCC1701A said: I am Mr. Spock. Works for me commander. "It's life, Jim, but not as we know it" is a pretty good attitude to have in Thailand 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robertson468 Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 (edited) On 3/21/2019 at 10:39 AM, laislica said: Yes me too. I married a Thai 6 years ago and promptly took her to live with me in Spain. We only visit Thailand for holidays so she can reconnect with her family and friends. Thailand is too expensive compared to Spain too. Spain has proper seasons and the language is so much easier than Thai. When in Thailand and out and about, my wife has to constantly remind me not to shout at stupid vehicle drivers, for my own safety/. Roads in Thailand are a nightmare and immigration rule changes make those expats who live here full time, live under The Sword of Damocles! Been to Southern Spain and it is in the main terrible with desolate developments all over the place. Looks like a scene out of "The end of days" in some places. As for prices, you clearly have a selective memory, or was eating in the wrong places in Thailand. By the way, I know what I am saying about Spain is true as I spent 4 years living on Gibraltar, touring both Spain and Portugal as potential retirement places. But, as the saying goes, "horses for courses". Edited March 22, 2019 by robertson468 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deli Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 I only need to look at my home country how it is going down the gutter, thanks to his is politicians. And I am happy to be here every single day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paradise Pete Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 22 hours ago, Sheryl said: Once here, they develop a new list of complaints and are sometimes outraged to find that Thailand, too, is not according to their specifications. I think this cuts to the heart of the matter. People who constantly complain about Thailand would be constantly complaining about something no matter where they were. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 5 minutes ago, Deli said: I only need to look at my home country how it is going down the gutter, thanks to his is politicians. And I am happy to be here every single day. Having a general rule by force of arms is so much better. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OzMan Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 I wish I could speak Thai and engage more with people here. The parts OP find difficult to deal with I just take as a laugh. Where else would you see a police motorcyclist riding in the wrong direction in Sukhumvit (against traffic). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connda Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 Does anyone else practice 'detachment' in order to keep sanity whilst living in LOS? Better off to practice "acceptance". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 2 hours ago, sjbrownderby said: Immersion works much better than detachment. I don't want to spend any time with Thai people, outside my family, apart from their young, slim and attractive women. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaiBunny Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 Just now, BritManToo said: I don't want to spend any time with Thai people, outside my family, apart from their young, slim and attractive women. Practising your oral skills or encouraging theirs? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyezhov Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 2 hours ago, murraynz said: how do you escape the taxman ??????? You die. Let your heirs deal with it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nausea Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 Detachment is the Buddhist ideal, which I doubt anyone really achieves. Personally, I find the Christian ideal a lot more practical - a lot of suffering, followed by - "Eli Eli lama sabachthani?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laislica Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 Been to Southern Spain and it is in the main terrible with desolate developments all over the place. Looks like a scene out of "The end of days" in some places. As for prices, you clearly have a selective memory, or was eating in the wrong places in Thailand. By the way, I know what I am saying about Spain is true as I spent 4 years living on Gibraltar, touring both Spain and Portugal as potential retirement places. But, as the saying goes, "horses for courses".Depends on your lifestyle, we manage happily on less than 1000 euros a month apart from holidays.Been back to Thailand almost a month and got through 200000 baht already lol, but this is a holiday. Sent from my SM-J610F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enoon Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 I find it works quite well back here in the UK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post timendres Posted March 22, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 22, 2019 6 hours ago, malibukid said: do not hook up with a Thai. friendly people but should keep at a distance. you will never understand them and they you. just strictly business. laundry, food, hotel staff. but do not get involved. don't expect that the supermarket will keep you favorites items in stock. hoard is the ticket. believe half of what a Thai will tells you and do not expect the truth. do not expect things to be done or ready when they are promised, this will only cause frustration. do not complain, this will get you nowhere. do not ask to talk to supervisor or boss man, this will only produce a look of utter bewilderment and get you nowhere. don't expect the stop lights to function or the drivers to obey them when crossing the streets. keep your guard up and you will be just fine. Why are you even here? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timendres Posted March 22, 2019 Share Posted March 22, 2019 Thai girls "detach" me from my money. Everyone is happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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