nausea Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 I haven't particularly thrived here, nor have I succumbed; just treading water, really. But some guys do seem to find their niche. What do you think are the qualities that make a Western guy (or gal) do better here than they would in their home country? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreaming Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 The ones that have enough money to go back home if the <deleted> hits the fan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreaming Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 If you are coming to thailand as a last resort due to lack of finances you will struggle big time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baansgr Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Ones that stay off the booze, keep away from relationships with the locals and generally keep life focused on their job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmen Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 3 minutes ago, dreaming said: The ones that have enough money to go back home if the <deleted> hits the fan Shit hit the fan has been threatened for decades , always around the corner, coming tomorrow except it actually never does. Maybe it will next month, everybody should have bag packed ready to run ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spidey Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 5 minutes ago, baansgr said: Ones that stay off the booze, keep away from relationships with the locals and generally keep life focused on their job. Job? Wash your mouth out. Too much to do to work. No, seriously, the Westerners that thrive best in Thailand are the very handsome ones. Trust me, I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanemax Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 10 minutes ago, madmen said: Shit hit the fan has been threatened for decades , always around the corner, coming tomorrow except it actually never does. Maybe it will next month, everybody should have bag packed ready to run ???? With the Visa clampdowns , rising prices , the strong Baht , "social" laws being enforced , one could argue that the fan has been hit already Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 13 minutes ago, madmen said: Shit hit the fan has been threatened for decades , always around the corner, coming tomorrow except it actually never does. Maybe it will next month, everybody should have bag packed ready to run ???? Run? run, you must be joking, most of us too bloody old to run, or cant even walk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spidey Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 3 minutes ago, sanemax said: With the Visa clampdowns , rising prices , the strong Baht , "social" laws being enforced , one could argue that the fan has been hit already One could but none of the above have really affected me. Guess I've just got a lucky fan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brokenbone Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 those that managed to continue being careful with money, and are happy how much they can save compared to home Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puchaiyank Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Try to find pleasure in all that you do...watching a good movie with the misses, counting the number of motorcycles you could have run over if you did not move out of their way, enjoying a good meal with family and friends, a massage, an intimate encounter, watering the veggies and flowers, DQ ice creme, an early morning walk...stopping to feed the fish, and taking a swim to mitigate the heat. Don't sweat the small stuff! ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worgeordie Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 The ones that are not afraid of Gecko's,snakes,and other creepy crawlies, and can put up with the sounds of the wildlife here,dogs barking,cocks crowing, frogs calling in rainy season,and the latest one Cicadas. The ones that can take the heat,without having A/c on 20 C all the time,who are DIY ,as getting anyone to fix anything is so difficult,and the quality of work,you might as well do it yourself,those that can accept they are not in LA,London,or Paris any of those places where common sense is practiced,and can live with lower expectations. regards worgeordie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felt 35 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 What's that saying again....something like equal children play best together.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canthai55 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 The same values which allow you to have a satisfied and fulfilling life anywhere on the planet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lamkyong Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, colinneil said: Run? run, you must be joking, most of us too bloody old to run, or cant even walk. most of us ?? complete exaggeration Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, nausea said: What do you think are the qualities that make a Western guy (or gal) do better here than they would in their home country? Not caring about anything or anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyezhov Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 2 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Not caring about anything or anyone. Except for my rented companion, for 9 minutes or so including showers, payment and a kiss goodbye Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Just now, Nyezhov said: Except for my rented companion, for 9 minutes or so including showers, payment and a kiss goodbye I rent mine by the month, she also works as a babysitter for my boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nausea Posted March 24, 2019 Author Share Posted March 24, 2019 8 minutes ago, Lamkyong said: most of us ?? complete exaggeration Not really, after 10 years here you get sort of ossified. It takes a real effort to pick up the sticks and run, once again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyezhov Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 7 minutes ago, BritManToo said: I rent mine by the month, she also works as a babysitter for my boy. Yes you evidently require a long term multi tasker that can perform more than one daily task. Mine only needs to specialize in one thing other than leaving. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guzzi850m2 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Be positive and keeping an open mind will get you a long way. Try focus on the positive things and not the negative ones. Don't feel superior but tread the locals as your equal, a smile and a polite attitude makes life here much more enjoyable. Don't loose your temper and start shouting, will not get you anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, worgeordie said: The ones that are not afraid of Gecko's,snakes,and other creepy crawlies, and can put up with the sounds of the wildlife here,dogs barking,cocks crowing, frogs calling in rainy season,and the latest one Cicadas. The ones that can take the heat,without having A/c on 20 C all the time,who are DIY ,as getting anyone to fix anything is so difficult,and the quality of work,you might as well do it yourself,those that can accept they are not in LA,London,or Paris any of those places where common sense is practiced,and can live with lower expectations. regards worgeordie Yep being a little hard of hearing does carry certain benefits, raised on a farm where everything except electric was DIY, won't miss London traffic, enjoy the heat - looking good for me ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denim Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Not daffodils for sure. Roses can do well if nurtured. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 I have observed among Thai people around me that my actions, demeanor, and attitude are often reflected back, in my case makes for a very pleasant existence ???? which in turn encourages more of the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 33 minutes ago, Nyezhov said: Except for my rented companion, for 9 minutes or so including showers, payment and a kiss goodbye 9 minutes? I can make mine last for 90. I believe in getting value for money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Keeping 80% of one's assets in their home country does help. Plus jai yenn yenn when dealing with officialdom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyezhov Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 3 minutes ago, Lacessit said: 9 minutes? I can make mine last for 90. I believe in getting value for money. I could make mine last too but I get bored and hungry. So I get rid of her, fire up Netflix and a bowl and eat a pizza. Far more rewarding and less tiring. I mean come on mate, do you reaally want to be bouncy and sweaty for 90 minutes? The fun part is only about 30 seconds, why strain yourself..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happystance Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 4 minutes ago, 473geo said: I have observed among Thai people around me that my actions, demeanor, and attitude are often reflected back... It's amazing how the folks here glow when you engage with a little kindness/respect their way. Most are ready to return a big easy smile and give you their attention. I suspect the westerners having the best time here are the ones who approach life with happiness and let life's stresses roll off them like water off a duck's back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 That was Millwall alright as I recall, going along nicely for 89 minutes then totally f****** it in 30 seconds Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 9 minutes ago, Nyezhov said: I could make mine last too but I get bored and hungry. So I get rid of her, fire up Netflix and a bowl and eat a pizza. Far more rewarding and less tiring. I mean come on mate, do you reaally want to be bouncy and sweaty for 90 minutes? The fun part is only about 30 seconds, why strain yourself..... I'm afraid you have been consorting with the wham-bam-thank you mam crowd. Good lasting sex involves foreplay, ever heard of it? While I'm not up to Japanese standard, who can last several hours, I do enjoy the preliminaries. Doesn't have to result in sweaty on my part. 30 seconds? That's in the ballpark of premature ejaculation. No wonder you prefer pizza. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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