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BANGKOK 19 April 2019 00:14
BananaBandit

girlfriend wants family with me, but i can't have my own biological kids...what to do?

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My Isan GF wants me to marry her and have a baby. I ain't much the romantic type, but I will admit she's probably my favorite gal I've met anywhere.

 

The thing is: my DNA no good... Most of the people genetically closest to me (along with myself) have contended with serious medical conditions (I prefer not to specify).

 

Because I didn't want to risk consigning another person to a similar fate, I never had kids and also got a vasectomy five years ago – at an age which many would consider young for such a procedure.

 

GF wants a half-farang baby. So I can't just tell her to go seduce a tuk-tuk driver or something.

 

I know I'll have to disclose the deal about myself pretty soon... But, if she still wants me as her life companion, what are our options ? Are there Thai clinics where one can get a "batch" of semi-desirable farlang DNA ? If so, how much does that cost ?

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17 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

For 500 baht, the denizens of Thai Visa

Hey, I'll do it for free.

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"I know I'll have to disclose the deal about myself pretty soon... But, if she still wants me as her life companion..." Uh, well duh. Seems like this ought to be covered early on in relationship. Do you want kids? or is this just to keep her happy?

Do you want her? "... she's probably my favorite gal I've met anywhere". In my book, that wouldn't be enough, rather lukewarm at best.

I'd suggest a sit down serious talk with yourself about just what you want in life.

 

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Posted (edited)

you must noah bloke that'l have it in for you.

troll bars looking for farang that are up for threesomes....the possibilities are endless really

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On 3/25/2019 at 11:30 PM, kekalot said:

I got a vasectomy too and had two or three gals that wanted me to get them pregnant..

 

both of them actually offered to pay for vasectomy reversal etc just to get them pregnant but i told them i went through some  risks the first time (some people get permanent pain down there or worse) and that I wasn't going to risk it two more times.

 

I also told both of them that they could have a kid with practically any farang they wanted and it wouldn't make much difference but that wasn't going anywhere..

they like me because I am tall and fit.. even if i told them they could just walk to any handsome farang they wanted and get sex (just like most girls could) they were having none of that too.

 

I love kids but I lost my son years ago when ex decided to cheat so I said, no more of that.. if i want to take care of kids i'll just date a single mom. haha

 

in Thailand, getting pregnant = insurance to get money out of you for life

 

2nd baby maybe, the golden child, she can truly love

 

seen it around my snake family

 

mia noi of father-in-law did it

 

one of her daughters

 

it runs in the dna .... 

 

1st <deleted> = insurance

2nd maybe love

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1 hour ago, madmen said:

No way dont do it. I had my son when I was 20 and we are best mates.

I had my son when I was 32, 43, 45, 56.

I spend hours on the xbox 360 playing gears of war 3 Horde co-op with the 7-year-old.

Never pushed any prams, I ain't that soft.

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On 3/25/2019 at 11:05 PM, Happy Grumpy said:

Hey, I'll do it for free.

that makes 2 of us  but would welcome a full body photo 555

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