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40 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

I enjoy being with women along with men and I don't fancy paying for a girlfriend or friend. Pay for sex why not but if you care for someone that's different. Guys just need to "keep it real" paying a girlfriend and thinking that she genuinely likes you is gullible.

In my experience if you don't marry them or make a commitment (let them move in) your "girlfriend" will not stay around.  If you are boyfriend to a woman who is financially independent, doesn't want marriage, doesn't want kids, only wants a boyfriend and willing to pay their own way, you have an ideal relationship for sure.   

I wish you the best,

Peace  

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1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Good for you,

If there was no money involved, no woman would like me, I'm essentially unlikable to females.

 LOL, why are you unlikeable by females

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3 hours ago, Skallywag said:
3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

I don't give money to girls even when the pleading starts, many reasons but usually the money is just wasted and i would have to end the friendship after a while. As I don't give any money it's good when we see each other. I'm glad others do give money though.

 

As for paying a girlfriend, they are then just employees and the more you pay the more they dislike you. How do you know if they like you if you pay them? the answer is you won't and it's likely without the money they would go elsewhere

Say you live here on pension of 60,000 baht a month.  Your "girlfriend" works 7 days a week, 8-10 hours a day and makes 25,000 baht a month.  

Why do you feel giving some money is treating her as an "employee"?  She has to eat and pay rent and likely take care of a mother or son or daughter as well.  You on the other hand likely toke care of no-one but yourself. 

And you say "the money is wasted" by her?  Think you have that backwards. 555   Peace

 

if the gf lives in the guys condo rent free and food free and no utilities to pay she will gain significantly and her regular job salary will go a lot farther

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5 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 LOL, why are you unlikeable by females

I don't want to buy them a house.

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1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Good for you,

If there was no money involved, no woman would like me, I'm essentially unlikable to females.

 

I've got a Brit pal, great looking guy, athletic, intelligent, charming ,witty, works hard, earns lots.

The perfect man, apart from one small oddity, he's never wanted to own his own house.

We were chatting one day and he moaned about never being able to keep a girlfriend his entire life, he'd dated some real beauties back in London, but they always wandered off after a while.

 

I said to him, "did they leave before of after they discovered your attitude towards housing?"

A month of so later he got back to me and replied, "I never thought about that before, but it was always shortly after"

Your brit pal probably gave off signals he didn't like committment, not having a house is just one. Girls are getting fatter and fatter in the UK so who would commit to that

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Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Your brit pal probably gave off signals he didn't like committment, not having a house is just one. Girls are getting fatter and fatter in the UK so who would commit to that

Tell your gf you aren't going to ever buy a house (in her or in your name).

See how long she stays around.

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1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Tell your gf you aren't going to ever buy a house (in her or in your name).

See how long she stays around.

Probably true. You could actually make a good case for having a dog rather than a girlfriend. Personally I don't need or want a girlfriend

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33 minutes ago, BritManToo said:
39 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 LOL, why are you unlikeable by females

I don't want to buy them a house.

 

 

ROFLMAO

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22 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Your brit pal probably gave off signals he didn't like committment, not having a house is just one. Girls are getting fatter and fatter in the UK so who would commit to that

 

 

obviously you havn't ridden on the mrt or bts lately or visited gogo bars or beer bars that resemble obesity clinics

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Issan.....you met a girl from Issan.....and she wants 50.000 a month to be your GF.  555555! Either you having us on for a laugh or you really are green between the ears.  I am not saying all girls from Issan would be hard pressed to have a daily value of 300 baht, but it would be close.  Same for a lot of other girls.   

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28 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 

those type of white skin high value women are also in the money game, don't let their appearances fool you. they cater to and are able to attract wealthy thai guys but usually just for fun or second wife. i live in a 99% affluent thai bkk condo and yes there are girls like the ones you describe but there are also girls white skin, prestigious uni degrees( some from overseas), stable nice families, that are not in the money game.

very true....the only issue is how can one be sure she is not a $-THB-UK£-CHF digger ? Quite a few women are crafty in hiding their true faces until doomsday😂, but true that in that case one cannot trust anybody, anytime. ....

.....maybe the alternative could be never to buy in other's name ?....only rent with full open options to walk away one fine morning, with no house, debt, bank accounts in anybody else's name except oneself ? ? ?.....

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18 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 

 

obviously you havn't ridden on the mrt or bts lately or visited gogo bars or beer bars that resemble obesity clinics

fat people are invisible to me

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8 minutes ago, observer90210 said:

.....maybe the alternative could be never to buy in other's name ?....only rent with full open options to walk away one fine morning, with no house, debt, bank accounts in anybody else's name except oneself ? ? ?.....

Then you're back to the problem of no female company unless you pay them.

To get 'a woman who loves you for yourself' you need to dangle the house carrot.

 

On a side note, ever wondered why guys that live with mom and dad are universally despised by women?

The obvious answer is there's no house to be leveraged out of them, no court will give a woman your mom and dads house when it all goes wrong, she can't phone the police and get you out of the house by making any claims of violence.

 

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6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Then you're back to the problem of no female company unless you pay them.

To get 'a woman who loves you for yourself' you need to dangle the house carrot.

I do not agree. Not with my European girlfriend anyhow....but maybe you have a point...I do pay her lunch and dinner here and there.....but make sure next time she does🤣....and the only carrot I dangle to keep the Missus happy,  is mine...not me house carrot:cheesy:

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