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14 minutes ago, observer90210 said:
45 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 

those type of white skin high value women are also in the money game, don't let their appearances fool you. they cater to and are able to attract wealthy thai guys but usually just for fun or second wife. i live in a 99% affluent thai bkk condo and yes there are girls like the ones you describe but there are also girls white skin, prestigious uni degrees( some from overseas), stable nice families, that are not in the money game.

very true....the only issue is how can one be sure she is not a $-THB-UK£-CHF digger ? Quite a few women are crafty in hiding their true faces until doomsday😂, but true that in that case one cannot trust anybody, anytime. ....

.....maybe the alternative could be never to buy in other's name ?....only rent with full open options to walk away one fine morning, with no house, debt, bank accounts in anybody else's name except oneself ? ? ?.....

 

it is not difficult to "outcraft" those types of women.   i am lucky because ability to speak and read the language filters out a high % of them much in the way wearing a cross keeps vampires at bay.

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15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Then you're back to the problem of no female company unless you pay them.

To get 'a woman who loves you for yourself' you need to dangle the house carrot.

 

normal society women i have dated did not require the house carrot and most of them already had a house(s) nicer than mine.

 

one gal asked me to go live with her in japan, all expenses taken care of by i guess dad

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On 1/25/2020 at 1:48 PM, atyclb said:

 

those type of white skin high value women are also in the money game, don't let their appearances fool you. they cater to and are able to attract wealthy thai guys but usually just for fun or second wife. i live in a 99% affluent thai bkk condo and yes there are girls like the ones you describe but there are also girls white skin, prestigious uni degrees( some from overseas), stable nice families, that are not in the money game.

If you have ever dated one, you can understand why pretty much all the guys like these women!

In Thailand the guys have many options. But these girls have lots of choices too.

They may be out for the same thing, but very different from the average girl you meet.

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On 1/22/2020 at 4:05 PM, CartagenaWarlock said:

I own two condos in Bangkok. I kind of live with her unless I have to use the second condo for purposes without her knowledge. She does not know I own two condos. 

Life gets complicated!

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1 hour ago, onekoolguy said:
On 1/25/2020 at 1:48 PM, atyclb said:

those type of white skin high value women are also in the money game, don't let their appearances fool you. they cater to and are able to attract wealthy thai guys but usually just for fun or second wife. i live in a 99% affluent thai bkk condo and yes there are girls like the ones you describe but there are also girls white skin, prestigious uni degrees( some from overseas), stable nice families, that are not in the money game.

If you have ever dated one, you can understand why pretty much all the guys like these women!

In Thailand the guys have many options. But these girls have lots of choices too.

They may be out for the same thing, but very different from the average girl you meet.

 

maybe so but still quite uninteresting imo

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I have been taking care or the wife for over six years. Now she is working in the local CP complex and I am the house husband.

Time for her to pay me.

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On 4/4/2019 at 6:05 PM, FarangOnTour said:

As the years progress she will become less of an attractive commodity to sex tourists and therefore her fee will naturally have to reduce from 3000bhat per customer in order to attract customers, therefore does the amount she expects from Farang boyfriend also depreciate proportionally?

 

And look there along came a farang on tour  😜

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On 4/7/2019 at 3:45 PM, Yme said:

Don't feed the troll

Only 1 troll?

 

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On 1/25/2020 at 8:37 AM, BritManToo said:

Very hard to 'outcraft' them in the west.

Apparently in Australia, sleep-overs for more than 50% of the nights over a 2 year stretch gives them entitlement to 50% of everything you own.

 

I guess getting a vasectomy and changing gfs every 18 months should fix the problem.

Same in Canada after 1 year.  Crazy.  I avoid those feminazee alpha females at all costs.  Remember though 80% communication is nonverbal.  Just pay attention with the spidey senses.

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On 1/25/2020 at 7:44 AM, atyclb said:

 

 

 

one gal asked me to go live with her in japan, all expenses taken care of by i guess dad

More likely, you take her to Japan and she earns her expenses there and....................thrn pays you back your expenses ?

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I guess everyone’s circumstances are different, but one I’ve learned about  over the past year I find a disgrace...

 

A girl (30s) from a local village gets sent 15k a month from a boyfriend (40s) living in Europe. The guy is a really nice chap but has a slight disability which makes it difficult to get a higher paid job.

 

On top of the salary and being in this relationship, she still works in Pattaya when he’s not over visiting, and has a Thai boyfriend. 
 

She keeps ranting on Facebook about why she’s only given 15k when some of her (younger) friends (with older men) get 20-25k. She’s also now complaining about having to pay insurance and gasoline herself on a car he’s just bought her.

 

She makes a yearly visit to Europe and has already planned to ditch him if he doesn’t agree to marry her this time around, and pay a sinsod of just over 500k + just under 10 baht of gold. I wish I knew the guy better.

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