GreenerGrass Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 I would agree with Gecko123 make sure you research who her husband/lover is, a man who has never had a speeding ticket in his life, a complete law abiding citizen, will suddenly change and become a murderer with little or no remorse for his actions when a relationship breaks down especially if a third party is involved. Possibly he has moved onto a new relationship himself, which would then give you the all clear for now. This is not something specific to Thailand, the world over, the prime motive for murder is relationships, however I think Thailand you run a greater risk for two reasons. 1. "Loss of face" which is extremely difficult for Thai men to deal with. 2. The consequences range from a year or two in the nic, five hundred baht fine to get off the with a wai, depending on who he is? Just be very careful. I couldn't believe I was so lucky. I think it is too beautiful to be true... Maybe sometimes dreams come true. Dreams do come true, but nightmares are also, very real! Be careful Tony, I wish you all the best with good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emdog Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 "She was not a bargirl or working in the sex industry but after 2 months I understood that she was only a gold digger." Son, you need to wake up and smell the coffee: just because she didn't work in bar doesn't make her outside of "sex industry". I do hope this is just a writing exercise on OP's part. Pity anyone this stupid that gets involved with Thailand. If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingstonkid Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 OP You sound like you have a winner just relax and be careful but enjoy it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allanos Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Clearly, this one is different . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 4 hours ago, TonyFromItaly said: Mmmm . I don't know... I think there isn't any logic in this. She earns more than me, so... Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Accounting manager earns about a million baht a year in Bangkok. Just how poor are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnx355 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Good luck to you ! The most difficult for her will be to deal with the husband and family. She will have let them know. There will not be a "official divorce" as you said only "religious marriage". Did she mention later that marriage was registered at the district office ? This need an official divorce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sawadee1947 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sounds like a fairy tale story, Antonio. She is not young, she is not poor. And she found amore. What else you are looking for? Enjoy the time with her as long it will last. Best luck to you both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natway09 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Watch out for the jealous ex, You could become shotgun material Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 ''She even offers to pay me for the ticket and accommodations the next time I will go there'' PMSL....at this point i stopped reading.Wombat, you can laugh but She already paid 3 nights of hotel the first time we met, and many dinner.So.. It's a reality.TonySent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 I would agree with Gecko123 make sure you research who her husband/lover is, a man who has never had a speeding ticket in his life, a complete law abiding citizen, will suddenly change and become a murderer with little or no remorse for his actions when a relationship breaks down especially if a third party is involved. Possibly he has moved onto a new relationship himself, which would then give you the all clear for now. This is not something specific to Thailand, the world over, the prime motive for murder is relationships, however I think Thailand you run a greater risk for two reasons. 1. "Loss of face" which is extremely difficult for Thai men to deal with. 2. The consequences range from a year or two in the nic, five hundred baht fine to get off the with a wai, depending on who he is? Just be very careful. I couldn't believe I was so lucky. I think it is too beautiful to be true... Maybe sometimes dreams come true. Dreams do come true, but nightmares are also, very real! Be careful Tony, I wish you all the best with good luck! "Possibly he has moved onto a new relationship himself,..."She thinks too..I will be very careful though. I'll wait she will fix with him and only after I will go to live with her... Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 Accounting manager earns about a million baht a year in Bangkok. Just how poor are you?Hi Pravda, I earn less. Here in Europe I earn less than her, and I have 2 sons to take care of. But I own my apartment.. TonySent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 Good luck to you ! The most difficult for her will be to deal with the husband and family. She will have let them know. There will not be a "official divorce" as you said only "religious marriage". Did she mention later that marriage was registered at the district office ? This need an official divorce.She said the marriage was never registered.Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sounds like a fairy tale story, Antonio. She is not young, she is not poor. And she found amore. What else you are looking for? Enjoy the time with her as long it will last. Best luck to you both. [emoji16] Thank you sawadee1947.Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 Watch out for the jealous ex, You could become shotgun materialI will be Very careful.TonySent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupoloco69 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Tony you are a complete <deleted>. The husband surely got a young mianoi, so you are feasting with his leftovers. Use the time and this wonderful country for catch emotions and not for the retirement, DUMBASS!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike787 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 You have a unicorn!! Good luck mate!! I have freelancers and bar girls...that works for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 29 minutes ago, TonyFromItaly said: Hi Pravda, I earn less. Here in Europe I earn less than her, and I have 2 sons to take care of. But I own my apartment.. Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Does she have kids Antonio? Btw, your situation is not unusual, I've been trying to explain this to stubborns here. My wife doesn't make as much, but pretty close with bonuses and pension so she has her own house that I've been living in for the past 5 years. Thanks to these living arrangements I was able to save quite a bit of money in Thailand and frankly she did too. She did spoil me before we got married, but she got smarter and stingier over time. One thing about Thai women tho is no matter how many times they claim that they don't care about stuff they have hundreds of family and friends they have to show off. You will eventually have to up your game....and I mean money wise because right now she sounds like a typical insecure housewife in search for some excitement. That won't last long....trust me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 Does she have kids Antonio? Btw, your situation is not unusual, I've been trying to explain this to stubborns here. My wife doesn't make as much, but pretty close with bonuses and pension so she has her own house that I've been living in for the past 5 years. Thanks to these living arrangements I was able to save quite a bit of money in Thailand and frankly she did too. She did spoil me before we got married, but she got smarter and stingier over time. One thing about Thai women tho is no matter how many times they claim that they don't care about stuff they have hundreds of family and friends they have to show off. You will eventually have to up your game....and I mean money wise because right now she sounds like a typical insecure housewife in search for some excitement. That won't last long....trust me.She doesn't have children.You say it won't last long..But I'm pretty sure that it isn't only a puppy love. She is really in love with me. I recognize love when I see.I'm not in love yet and this give me an advantage because I am more rational.And believe me I'm a very cautious man, maybe too much sometimes.For that reason I still doubting for a so big luck happened to me...TonySent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 To good to be true. Sorry for my skepticism, but this story is quite unbelievable.I hardly believe too...Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony125 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 19 hours ago, TonyFromItaly said: ... And if you think he will kill me... I'm careful. I will go only when everything will be settled Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app If they had a village wedding/blessing (not registered officially at Amphur) there is no need for a divorce she would simply walk away or tell him get out. It will not go down well with him and you need to pray he's not a Thai cop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 If they had a village wedding/blessing (not registered officially at Amphur) there is no need for a divorce she would simply walk away or tell him get out. It will not go down well with him and you need to pray he's not a Thai cop.Yes true.I will be careful mate.TonySent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 13 minutes ago, TonyFromItaly said: She doesn't have children. You say it won't last long.. But I'm pretty sure that it isn't only a puppy love. She is really in love with me. I recognize love when I see. I'm not in love yet and this give me an advantage because I am more rational. And believe me I'm a very cautious man, maybe too much sometimes. For that reason I still doubting for a so big luck happened to me... Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app You obviously didn't understand anything I wrote.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaxxper Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Contrary to popular word on the street , there are good girls out there. Play it careful and try to let the relationship develop. No divorce needed for just the Buddha marriage. Previous advice about watching for her ex I would say is sound. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 You obviously didn't understand anything I wrote....Pravda, I understand what you mean. Save face and so on..But she lives in Bangkok not in a lost village.. And her family is not big. A very old mother and 2 sister.And told her to all that I'm not rich, so she knows what she is going to get..I'm clear with her. If she wants me she knows about me in advance. No expectations..Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyFromItaly Posted April 19, 2019 Author Share Posted April 19, 2019 Contrary to popular word on the street , there are good girls out there. Play it careful and try to let the relationship develop. No divorce needed for just the Buddha marriage. Previous advice about watching for her ex I would say is sound. Good luck. I'm agree with you. There are, even though very difficult to find..Tony Sent from my ASUS_Z012S using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thingamabob Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sounds very improbable to me. Hope I'm wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gecko123 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 49 minutes ago, Pravda said: Does she have kids Antonio? Pleaza..call me Tony. Welcome to my humble home. You like a glass of grappa? I got some pecorino in the 'frigerator if you hungry. TonyfromItaly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 2 minutes ago, Gecko123 said: Pleaza..call me Tony. Welcome to my humble home. You like a glass of grappa? I got some pecorino in the 'frigerator if you hungry. Are you talking to me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Formaleins Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Do you know if she eventually managed to "Let" her husband? If she did can you tell us the term, the deposit and the monthly rent thanks. I have a wife to let so the advice will be useful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Descending and of little further value. CLOSED. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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