John1010 Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 Am i 26 years old, I first came to Thailand 2 years ago where I met a Thai girl for the first year i was in and out of Thailand visiting other countries and when returned always meeting back up with her. For the last year since early 2018 we have been renting a small house together, needless to say we was having unprotected sex on a regular basis. I very often asked her about birth control things. One time she told me she had one of those insects on the inside of her arm, another time she told me she had taken a pill which lasted six months. In the back of my mind I always thought really? Because I hadn't actually seeing her take or buy any pills. The past few months and weeks i asked her a few more times, each time she seemed more and more like she didn't want to answer or talk about that subject. On Monday she had stomach pains she wanted to go to the hospital, I thought she was just over exaggerating and said we can go tomorrow if you're still not better. Throughout the day she was speaking to her friends a lot more than normal on the phone in the end I took her to the hospital to stop her moaning about what I though was a bit of stomach ache. When got to the hospital she went off in wheelchair I was waiting around for no more than one hour, when some Thai hospital worker came explaining to me in very little English baby boy, baby boy. I just didn't understand she did not look pregnant not one bit. Basically we went to the hospital for stomach aches one hour later I was told that she's not only pregnant but had given birth. Now I am thinking a lot of different things, I'm thinking there's been times we've been apart for a couple of days such reasons like she visit family in Bangkok or I go on little two day visa runs, things like that. I'm not 100% sure it could be mine more like 70%. Even if the kid is mine did she know about this and if she did why would she not tell me. When you speak no Thai language sometimes it's hard to 100% trust your girlfriend, especially when there always talking on the phone two friends. Has anybody got any advice and information on how I could find out DNA wise if the baby is mine. Advice and information greatly appreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mauGR1 Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 No, you can't. Never. Ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J Town Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 You can't trust her. Get a DNA test then man up if the occasion calls for it, run like hell if not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
White Christmas13 Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 Always the first time poster who post crap like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John1010 Posted April 20, 2019 Author Share Posted April 20, 2019 Do you know anywhere I can get a good DNA test I'm I want English speakers I don't want her to do the talking, man up to the occasion!! <deleted> she tricked me now I'm suckin Thailand for 18 years <deleted> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
White Christmas13 Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 so you are 26 years old but you have been in Thailand 18 years get real Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John1010 Posted April 20, 2019 Author Share Posted April 20, 2019 13 minutes ago, White Christmas13 said: so you are 29 years old but you have been in Thailand 18 years get real Good calculation??? Am 26 now been Thailand since i was 24................29?!?!! White Christmas if you can't read or help plz <deleted>...thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 @John1010 I believe you are my biological father. You need to "man up" and give me some cash to pay for stuff. That's all for now. Don't forget the money. Dad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
White Christmas13 Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 10 minutes ago, John1010 said: Good calculation??? Am 26 now been Thailand since i was 24................29?!?!! White Christmas if you can't read or help plz <deleted>...thanks I can read alright maybe you should learn how to spell first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 John1010, you never heard of condoms? You can buy them almost anywhere, even at supermarket check outs. Bit late now to start moaning, you should have taken precautions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 27 minutes ago, John1010 said: needless to say we was having unprotected sex on a regular basis Well are you not able to use the internet as well as condoms. 2 secs google. https://www.google.com/search?ei=T7K6XN3wLYzevgSL3rX4Ag&q=where+can+you+get+a+dna+test+done+thailand&oq=where+can+you+get+a+dna+test+done+thailand&gs_l=psy-ab.12...0.0..1317...0.0..0.0.0.......0......gws-wiz.dh5A4rOt_do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 18 minutes ago, John1010 said: Do you know anywhere I can get a good DNA test I'm I want English speakers I don't want her to do the talking, man up to the occasion!! <deleted> she tricked me now I'm suckin Thailand for 18 years <deleted> You wrote that there had been previous 'discussions' about birth control with no satisfactory answers, but you proceeded anyway. You father children you take care of them! Dont, never, ever, make the child / children suffer because of your lack of proper checking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCC1701A Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 34 minutes ago, John1010 said: One time she told me she had one of those insects on the inside of her arm, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vacuum Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 28 minutes ago, John1010 said: she tricked me now I'm suckin Thailand for 18 years Leave the country. As you said: she tricked you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ratcatcher Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 22 minutes ago, colinneil said: John1010, you never heard of condoms? You can buy them almost anywhere, even at supermarket check outs. Bit late now to start moaning, you should have taken precautions. Looks like little Johnny never read rule #1. "Bag it before you shag it." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluesofa Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 58 minutes ago, John1010 said: One time she told me she had one of those insects on the inside of her arm, Probably a maeng da. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puchaiyank Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 Of course you can trust her...this is Thailand...???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LomSak27 Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 25 minutes ago, John1010 said: Do you know anywhere I can get a good DNA test I'm I want English speakers I don't want her to do the talking, man up to the occasion!! <deleted> she tricked me now I'm suckin Thailand for 18 years <deleted> No you are not "suckin Thailand" Leave the country. Don't say a word to her just do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 22 minutes ago, NCC1701A said: yes but somehow i am branded as a troll when telling a true story about my circumstance. Well, when you claim to have shagged every bar girl in Pattaya, you have to realise people who don't know you personally might get a bit sceptical. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike787 Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 18 minutes ago, Vacuum said: Leave the country. As you said: she tricked you. start running...and learn common senes..improve your decision making. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aussieroaming Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 Old enough to have more sense. Work it out for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 Sure, absolutely! All Thai girls always tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Ask them and they will confirm that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 Off topic/flame posts removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vacuum Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 1 hour ago, John1010 said: I just didn't understand she did not look pregnant not one bit. Basically we went to the hospital for stomach aches one hour later I was told that she's not only pregnant but had given birth. Is her name Mary? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John1010 Posted April 20, 2019 Author Share Posted April 20, 2019 30 minutes ago, ratcatcher said: Looks like little Johnny never read rule #1. "Bag it before you shag it." If you've been in a 2-year relationship and still put one everytime you shag, then fairplay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 That may have been her goal since day 1, a "leukrung" is prized amongst Thais, and it joins her to you. You can get a DNA test if you wish, but you need to decide where you want this to go, what is your end game if the dna result is positive. Answer that honestly first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John1010 Posted April 20, 2019 Author Share Posted April 20, 2019 3 minutes ago, CharlieH said: That may have been her goal since day 1, a "leukrung" is prized amongst Thais, and it joins her to you. You can get a DNA test if you wish, but you need to decide where you want this to go, what is your end game if the dna result is positive. Answer that honestly first. Thanks for the genuine advice, still very unsure what my endgame is, I have no idea when it come to kids, and when it coms to her family am just the farang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 1 hour ago, Briggsy said: @John1010 I believe you are my biological father. You need to "man up" and give me some cash to pay for stuff. That's all for now. Don't forget the money. Dad. And some daily love and care please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 4 minutes ago, John1010 said: Thanks for the genuine advice, still very unsure what my endgame is, I have no idea when it come to kids, and when it coms to her family am just the farang Get the correct focus, think about and focus on the welfare, love, and support of the child (if it's yours). If her parents are less than enthusiastic about you, then please do some work to try to fix it, for the sake of your child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Small Joke Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 There should be a website dedicated to farang who fall for the pak waan nonsense of the smiley girls. IF you're a codger get a Vasectomy, if you're a youngster, rent it. You don't don't pay them for sex, you pay them to LEAVE. So what you gonna name junior? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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