Popular Post totally thaied up Posted May 5, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted May 5, 2019 6 minutes ago, Pravda said: God, I remember my wife sending me pics of her butt and doing dirty Skyping while we were into each other. Now she acts all proper and any pic that exposes her skin more than 15% will get me a phone inspection and eventual deletion Mine was the same when we first married and is still much the same today. While alone she is very improper. Over time as we get older, I know the flame will die down somewhat and that's to be expected. Yet if my wife was to change that much and proved to me she was not into me (or did not love me), I would just leave. No use in being in a relationship that has no meaning. Life is just too short. 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RJRS1301 Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 4 hours ago, transam said: Go on a diet, get trendy, wear shades and stop eating crisps in the sack, shave your arm pits, try Brut..... ???? Anything but Brut>>>>>>>>> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 10 minutes ago, totally thaied up said: Mine was the same when we first married and is still much the same today. While alone she is very improper. Over time as we get older, I know the flame will die down somewhat and that's to be expected. Yet if my wife was to change that much and proved to me she was not into me (or did not love me), I would just leave. No use in being in a relationship that has no meaning. Life is just too short. You're missing the point. Lots of ThaiVISA posters are looking for a replacement mother, and you don't bang your mom. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 Like a lot of toddlers, love me, love me, love me. Whatever for. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 18 minutes ago, BritManToo said: You're missing the point. Lots of ThaiVISA posters are looking for a replacement mother, and you don't bang your mom. Actually a forum guy whom I once met for a drink spent a lot of time in Korea. He said that Korean men would tell him once you get married you stop having sex with your wife because who would want to f your own family. So they look elsewhere. Anyway as for why I am still in relationship the answer is simple. I'm still not wealthy enough to go solo. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phuketshrew Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 4 hours ago, xylophone said: Talking about sexless relationships....... 555. Mrs. Minger. Who'd have thought it. Priceless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kekalot Posted May 5, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted May 5, 2019 (edited) 53 minutes ago, totally thaied up said: Mine was the same when we first married and is still much the same today. While alone she is very improper. Over time as we get older, I know the flame will die down somewhat and that's to be expected. Yet if my wife was to change that much and proved to me she was not into me (or did not love me), I would just leave. No use in being in a relationship that has no meaning. Life is just too short. I agree with this, you only have one life (more than likely) and wasting it with someone who isn't excited about you (or vice versa) isn't great I always tell my girlfriends that as soon as they are not happy to be with me, or me happy with them that I would leave and expect them to do so also. I would rather have them be happy with someone else (or alone if they wish) than being unhappy with me. Edited May 5, 2019 by kekalot 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xylophone Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 3 hours ago, mike787 said: Perhaps! But they still look good. Don't forget, those aren't the only things to look at???? A set of balls in this case perhaps!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xylophone Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 2 hours ago, Kinnock said: Still have 'movie sex' at least twice a week Is that where you watch someone else at it?? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killerbeez Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 2 hours ago, Destiny1990 said: Often the Thai lady gets a Tom... Often? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bert bloggs Posted May 5, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted May 5, 2019 5 hours ago, killerbeez said: Wow! You really hate your life. This is the saddest nonsense I've seen today! Suddenly my life seems a thing of joy compared to your view of the world! LOL Sorry ,but i think you should have gone to specsavers ,you read my post all wrong ,i am as happy as can be with my lovely wife of over 20 years ,we are best friends , try reading it again , 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post killerbeez Posted May 5, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted May 5, 2019 I have a comfortable rotation of visitors over the course of the year and none of them are aware of each other. Or, if they are, they're smart enough to not mention it. And there are many reasons why I live this way. 1 - I prefer to be alone for most of the time. 2 - I quickly tire of sex with just one partner (as they do too!) 3 - Having hired guests works out cheaper than one fulltime 'employee'! 4 - The times I do see them are much more fulfilling and enjoyable. 5 - I prefer the company of young people and I am old. (Energy factor, mental and physical.) 6- I'm too selfish and busy to be good long-term 'boyfriend material'. 7 - Everything I own is where I last put it! 8 - I have no interest in adopting the friends and family of a long term partner. I could go on... 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted May 5, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted May 5, 2019 7 minutes ago, bert bloggs said: we are best friends , That always means no sex. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killerbeez Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 8 minutes ago, bert bloggs said: try reading it again I did. Same conclusion. Like many posts on this thread (so, not just yours) you come across as having a blinkered and negative view of your surroundings and most other expats living in Thailand. There's nothing wrong with that and I'm not criticizing you for your 'opinion'. Actually, to a certain extent, I can empathize with those views... In a nutshell, you are living a virtuous and rewarding life and people who don't are worthless! Is that about right? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitemouse Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 Sexless relationship is the only way for long term relationship. Nearly always, sex becomes not a thing, but if love remains, then people stay together. Long term relationship, decades long relationship is actually deep friendship, it is love. Sex has nothing to do with it. Unfortunately very few can pull this off, it takes 2 very smart, wise people to pull it off. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 6 minutes ago, whitemouse said: Unfortunately very few can pull this off, it takes 2 very smart, wise people to pull it off. There was me thinking it took one selfish person and one ball-less person. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 18 minutes ago, killerbeez said: I have a comfortable rotation of visitors over the course of the year and none of them are aware of each other. Or, if they are, they're smart enough to not mention it. And there are many reasons why I live this way. 2 - I quickly tire of sex with just one partner (as they do too!) 3 - Having hired guests works out cheaper than one fulltime 'employee'! 2 and 3 simply don't go together. It just doesn't make sense. If they are hired help then how do you know they get tired of sex with just one partner. Fact is you know nothing about these women and your opening paragraph that none are aware of each other also makes no sense because it's most likely that they could care less. I am always willing to learn from old mongeres, but it would be beneficial if you'd insert some objectivity into your posts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killerbeez Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 2 minutes ago, Pravda said: Fact is... Your opinion is valid. Your assumptions aren't. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post killerbeez Posted May 5, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted May 5, 2019 16 minutes ago, whitemouse said: Sex has nothing to do with it. Lay off the soy milk. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitemouse Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 4 minutes ago, BritManToo said: There was me thinking it took one selfish person and one ball-less person. Yep, that's usually how it is, and you can easily see deep unhappiness, resentment, even hate towards the partner. This is the absolute worst way to live, but so many spend their lives doing exactly that. All long lasting relationships that I've observed, not many, admittedly, have set rules early on regarding monogamy. I'm convinced the enforced, strict monogamy is what kills relationship, and is short cut to deep unhappiness. Sexual desire is instinct, it is beyond our control, just like dog salivating near food is beyond its control. Smart woman understands that, and lets it go. Smart man stays with a woman he loves, and gets off outside marriage, never brings it home. Yes, relationship becomes sexless, but these two have much more than sex. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Pravda said: If they are hired help then how do you know they get tired of sex with just one partner. Had a girlfriend (real relationship, I didn't hire her) who managed the working ladies/dancers for a big club. She said about 30% of the girls enjoyed the sex with random strangers, another 30% were in it for the party/drugs/booze, and the rest wanted the easy money for their shopping/husband/kids/family. I believed her, she had no reason to lie to me, and she wanted sex 4-5 times a day. Edited May 5, 2019 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 3 hours ago, totally thaied up said: Mine was the same when we first married and is still much the same today. While alone she is very improper. Over time as we get older, I know the flame will die down somewhat and that's to be expected. Yet if my wife was to change that much and proved to me she was not into me (or did not love me), I would just leave. No use in being in a relationship that has no meaning. Life is just too short. As you know, mine is the same. Butter wouldn't melt in her mouth in public. It's a Thai thing. Behind a bedroom door, completely different story. O my Buddha. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 I read an interesting article about relationships in America, apparently the 12th year is when you stop having sex with each other, well I've been with my missus for 14 years so yes, it's about right. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinnock Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 2 hours ago, xylophone said: Is that where you watch someone else at it?? Nope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 Just now, Kinnock said: Nope. yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 9 hours ago, Orton Rd said: Not really interested in sex any longer, i'd rather do almost anything, a good dump is usually more satisfying. The most over rated human activity IMO. Had the opportunity to play away from home recently, could not be bothered. There’s nothing as over-rated as bad sex, nor as under-rated as a good dump 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quandow Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 9 hours ago, Lacessit said: Cheap Charlie of the week award. Are you serious? Saving money on sex in THAILAND? At what point did I EVER mention money You ever had a soapy? They're probably the MOST expensive sex you can procure. I just can't stand wasting time on pointless, childish conversations. When I was in the Navy, frequenting Subic Bay, we had shirts made that sad "My name is so-and-so, I'm on the U.S.S. Whatever, and no, I will not buy you a drink" cuz that's what EVERY conversation was. No thanks. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bert bloggs Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 2 hours ago, killerbeez said: I did. Same conclusion. Like many posts on this thread (so, not just yours) you come across as having a blinkered and negative view of your surroundings and most other expats living in Thailand. There's nothing wrong with that and I'm not criticizing you for your 'opinion'. Actually, to a certain extent, I can empathize with those views... In a nutshell, you are living a virtuous and rewarding life and people who don't are worthless! Is that about right? no not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 21 minutes ago, quandow said: At what point did I EVER mention money You ever had a soapy? They're probably the MOST expensive sex you can procure. I just can't stand wasting time on pointless, childish conversations. When I was in the Navy, frequenting Subic Bay, we had shirts made that sad "My name is so-and-so, I'm on the U.S.S. Whatever, and no, I will not buy you a drink" cuz that's what EVERY conversation was. No thanks. As I recall, you used the expression "or rub one out myself". If you have an alternative explanation to the inference I believe most posters would make, I'd like to see it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted May 5, 2019 Share Posted May 5, 2019 I always like a conversation starter where I can contribute so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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