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BANGKOK 16 July 2019 13:31

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I'm guessing that since he married her in thailand she's also his wife in the UK.  What happens if he just dumps her in thailand and he never goes back there?  Can she run up debt and mangle his assets from abroad?  Leaving her stranded in thailand is easy.  But what about him?

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On 5/11/2019 at 6:02 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

You should have made it clear a long time ago that you are the boss. You make the rules and she has to follow then. If not she can <delete> off. That is what Thai women are used to.

But obviously that's not what you did. You were not the boss so she is clearly the boss. And she does what she wants and you jump when she tells you to jump.

Now it's too late to change your established pattern.

good post, well summed up. id like to add, in many ways one gets what one deserve for going down this compulsory road for marriage, why dont people look before they leap, or maybe they do but just enjoy the jumping. 

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On 5/22/2019 at 7:14 AM, Tomahawk21 said:

why dont people look before they leap, or maybe they do but just enjoy the jumping. 

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On 5/9/2019 at 7:45 PM, Glorfindal said:

We have never had any form of intimacy ... 

If you have never consummated your marriage and you can prove it divorce will be soooooooo easy

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On 5/29/2019 at 8:10 PM, Janner1 said:

If you have never consummated your marriage and you can prove it divorce will be soooooooo easy

Its soo easy anyway in Thailand if both party's agree,

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On ‎5‎/‎11‎/‎2019 at 10:42 PM, scubascuba3 said:

Always a risk taking one back to farangland, there is a good chance they will find someone younger and better

More like they will realise the legal system favours them to the extreme, and when things go wrong they will avail themselves of that legal system.

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On ‎5‎/‎30‎/‎2019 at 7:10 AM, Janner1 said:

If you have never consummated your marriage and you can prove it divorce will be soooooooo easy

How on earth would one prove that, these days? The only sure fire way would be if her hymen was intact, and that would be a rarity now.

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More like they will realise the legal system favours them to the extreme, and when things go wrong they will avail themselves of that legal system.
Yes but a fair proportion of them will just have better opportunities and more choice

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Posted (edited)

Take more surveillance video and audio of the abuse she gave you. Make her sort of angry to spill out her plans to threaten you. Once is out, report police, hired a better lawyer. Sue her instead. 

I'm laying out simple plans for you.
- Buy lots of hidden camera for surveillance

- Taunt her in order for you to record her worst behavior  
- Hired the best lawyer you can afford (Consult them immediately)

- Hired a PI (Probably she got a bf in your country) Since she doesn't even let you touch.
- Contact Police
- Prepare all your experience, compound them nicely and give it to the press, mass-media.  
- Shame her, I will gladly help you personally summit to SANNOK news channel and similar. 
- Make sure you can win, don't give up or be soft on her

Edited by damen

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On ‎6‎/‎7‎/‎2019 at 4:27 PM, damen said:

Take more surveillance video and audio of the abuse she gave you. Make her sort of angry to spill out her plans to threaten you. Once is out, report police, hired a better lawyer. Sue her instead. 

I'm laying out simple plans for you.
- Buy lots of hidden camera for surveillance

- Taunt her in order for you to record her worst behavior  
- Hired the best lawyer you can afford (Consult them immediately)

- Hired a PI (Probably she got a bf in your country) Since she doesn't even let you touch.
- Contact Police
- Prepare all your experience, compound them nicely and give it to the press, mass-media.  
- Shame her, I will gladly help you personally summit to SANNOK news channel and similar. 
- Make sure you can win, don't give up or be soft on her

I doubt "taunting" would go down well in court.

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On 5/30/2019 at 2:10 AM, Janner1 said:

If you have never consummated your marriage and you can prove it divorce will be soooooooo easy

and just how can he prove that ? it would be his word against hers

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On 5/11/2019 at 8:21 AM, BritManToo said:

No fault divorce = the behaviour of either party (good or bad) will not affect the division of assets.

You clearly have no understanding of UK 'no fault divorce' law, or you wouldn't have typed what you just did.

I have very limited patience for fools.

was foolish for getting married in the first place.

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On 5/11/2019 at 8:07 AM, SenorJorge said:

The worst part of it is that so many thai women you think aren't from the bar culture were previously.  They got older and stopped getting customers so it was back to the factories and offices with them.  So it's very hard to tell what kind of woman you are really dating.  And English ability isn't always a litmus test -lots of good Thai women speak good English from working in bangkok offices.  Lots of bar girls just didn't care to learn more than "you buy drink me?" And "3000 long time you honey". I love my wife but I wonder sometimes myself.  The harsh reality is if women in the west don't see you as a good catch then women here don't really either.  They're after something else about you - usually money or immigration.  I've been fooled once and divorced already.

you are not a very good judge of women then are you ?

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24 minutes ago, Tomahawk21 said:

was foolish for getting married in the first place.

geoffbezoz .........................your married arnt you :cheesy:

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Posted (edited)

if i could do it all over again, i would not stay a second or spend a single baht on a relation that doesnt have passion, the longer you wait the more it cost in all possible ways

Edited by brokenbone

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