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BANGKOK 16 June 2019 15:41

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my 2 cents worth... 'never had any form of intimacy' and 'utter mad person' and threatening to lie to police so you are potentially thrown in jail.

 

dear OP, this is nuts. step back and read what you wrote. it ain't normal, it's a psychotic and dangerous situation.

 

if the UK has this 'no fault style divorce law' and her friends/acquaintances may be advising her of such, you are in the deep end. loosing it all in court could happen and possibly being accused of physical abuse could land you in jail too.

 

why play nice and proper in getting out of the situation? She isn't and would have less than zero respect for you if you did try to be nice and amicable. start thinking of ways to get her back into tland permanently. "let's go for on a long walk (on a short pier)"..... or something like that.   good luck

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"Under the current law in England and Wales, unless people can prove their marriage has broken down due to adultery, unreasonable behaviour or desertion, the only way to obtain a divorce without a spouse's consent is to live apart for five years." https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-45452146

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Posted (edited)
18 minutes ago, Skallywag said:

Am confused (as per usual) Everyone talking about getting a divorce or lawyer in the UK. 

Would you not only need to get a Thai lawyer and get a divorce in Thailand?   

Regards, S

If she's living in the UK, you have to divorce her in the UK.

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Posted (edited)
4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

If she's living in the UK, you have to divorce her in the UK.

They were married in Thailand and unless the marriage was registered in the UK, they can not be divorced in the UK, even though a Thai marriage is recognised by the UK authorities for official purposes.

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17 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Happens to everyone, some guys can't admit it, some guys haven't reached that stage in the relationship yet, if you're really lucky you will die (or she will die) before it happens.

 

PS.

It didn't ruin my life, but sure as hell added a big helping of disappointment to it.

And on the positive side, it gave me the opportunity to bang a hell of a lot of much younger women.

Because your ex mrs could only be satisfied by the gardener that translates as 'happens to everyone' ? Perhaps she tired of your attitude to women ?

 

Counselling may help you one day get over it ?

 

 

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The type you are describing with cut off your penis whilst you sleep, or In colloquial terms, 'feed the ducks.'

Get good legal advice, avoid any arguments, then get out of Dodge.

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Tell her that you love her. Tell her you want to take her on a beautiful vacation. Book a 5 star resort in Thailand. Complete with spa. Then destroy her passport, and gi back to the UK.

Temporary solution, I know. But it will give your lawyers time to compile the evidence you have on her and begin a solid defense.

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Posted (edited)
5 hours ago, yogi100 said:

You're getting a lot of support and advice here.

 

The courts are not as stupid as you may have been led to believe they are. But in the meantime gather up all the evidence that you possibly can.

 

In a round about way let the court know you married a Thai prostitute who is trying to take you for a ride and see what transpires. They deal with these cases on a regular basis. 

 

Often it's Polish or Romanian tarts marrying Pakistanis for citizenship and benefits.

 

Support Brexit.

UK courts are under enormous pressure to hike up the rape/domestic assault/abuse statistics - if his Mrs has half a brain, and a little imagination she would trample all over him in a UK court - stop talking tripe !

 

Unless he has evidence she was a prostitute you've just added slander to his chances - great advice.

 

Supposing for just a second that this isn't another clickbait newbie anti thai fishing trip to feed the haters that have been dumped previously, court action would be a ridiculous way to get this resolved, statistically or financially - he, as many have said, would just need to sit it out.

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On ‎5‎/‎10‎/‎2019 at 2:14 AM, Glorfindal said:

Thanks for replying ... she is from South Thailand, and actually from a very well to do family. Seriously nice people. She is very much the black sheep of the family.

The worst hot heads I have experienced in Thailand are from the south. 

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Let this bitch go before it's too late for you!

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16 hours ago, Odysseus123 said:

Well..every Thai I ever met certainly knew the "art of the deal" and practiced it assiduously.

They make westerners look like ponderous pachyderms..

Stay out of girlie bars then and meet real people

 

 

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On 5/10/2019 at 6:08 AM, faraday said:

1. See a lawyer.

 

2. Talk to the Police.

 

3. Prepare your extrication plan.

 

And, good luck.

Talk to the police about what exactly??

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