Jump to content
BANGKOK
Whip Me Granny

Are you married to a Thai woman – Any Snippets of Advice .

Recommended Posts

Posted (edited)
55 minutes ago, Mavideol said:

been there done that, only one advise Run, Run as fast as you can.. regardless of what many here say (they are/have been happily married for several years and so forth) some might be/are in a miserable relationship and will not tell how much s... they had/still take on a daily basis, not worth the head ache, GF is the easy way, not happy move to next one, no strings attached but I am not saying anything new here, many have already suggested the same.....

Thailand is a dumping ground for men from failed relationships in the West or those who found it impossible to get even a failed relationship.  Nothing new here is right.  And now they are even getting kicked out of Thailand because of currency problems.  Oh me oh my. 

Edited by marcusarelus
  • Sad 1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

20y this year but not married.
I should get an award for this!


Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
1 hour ago, possum1931 said:

Full penetrative sex only on women. Anything else is not cheating.

I arrived for my R&R, a respite from the red mud and rockets and dead dogs.  I had booked a honeymoon suite with private pool overlooking Diamond head in Hawaii.  My wife was not at the airport, not at the hotel, my reservation had been cancelled and she took the money.  I called the only other person I knew in Hawaii a school chum who dodged the draft and got a job as a hotel manager in Honolulu.  My wife was there in his bed.  Now tell me fellow Thai Visa posters what would you have done?  I know what I did.  There was a guy in the bar named Jimmy Buffet writing down everything I said. 

 

 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Breathing exercises every day, especially deep one's......

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
5 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

Not in all cases but another tell tale for bargirls are tattoos.

Do not know if I have ever met one who did not have a tat someplace.

They do exist. When I was on the prowl, enjoyed quite a few. Chiang Mai area.

I remember one I saw at the condo. Slim, beautiful, sexy as all get out. Covered in tatts, almost advertising she was available. Don't know if she was a bargirl.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
2 hours ago, possum1931 said:

Full penetrative sex only on women. Anything else is not cheating.

My second wife decided to raise cheating to a new level.  She had a full blown (pun intended) affair with my boss and business partner.  I said, Betty Jo Thelma Liz, could you have picked a worse person to #$%^& with?  Not only have you ruined my ego, manhood and all that stuff but you've cost me 1.3 million dollars.  Now I ask you Thai Visa posters what would have done.  By the time it was over I was living on my mother's back porch and going to AA meetings. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
5 hours ago, Saltire said:

 

 

After the husband died we decided to build a house (50/50 costs) and live together I asked her what her expectations of me were and what would make her happy. Unsurprisingly she had only one - never hit me.

 

We're happy.  

Just my personal take; however, any male who hits a woman is a moral coward. It's sad that your GF/Wife needed to specify that condition.

  • Thanks 1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Just now, Lacessit said:

however, any male who hits a woman is a moral coward.

They want equality, it's up to us to provide it for them.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Posted (edited)
1 hour ago, canuckamuck said:

I can only give advice regarding my own wife because that's the only one I am married to. And I don't think you need the info. 

Been married 14 years and I would marry her today if I wasn't. All I can say is I married for character and got a gem. She is loved on three continents by friends and family. Never heard a negative word about her. Not every day is a picnic, but we get things done and enjoy each other's company.

 

They're all like that, until they aren't.

I would have claimed exactly the same as you for the first 28 years of my previous 30 year marriage.

Edited by BritManToo

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

They want equality, it's up to us to provide it for them.

Perhaps you could elaborate on that statement.

  • Haha 1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Just now, Lacessit said:

Perhaps you could elaborate on that statement.

Sorry, I'm too cowardly.

  • Haha 1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

There is only one piece of advice I follow and it was given to me by a 70 year old expat over 10 years ago:

 

> "Never be worth more dead than alive. It's not your wife you need to worry about, most of the time. It's her family."

 

In other words; Rent, don't buy. Don't set your wife up with a fat life insurance policy (or at least don't tell her about it). And don't share accounts, ever.

 

 

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Just wait until your wife hits that 'time of life'
Doesn't matter what nationality, standard of education or financial status, at times it will make you feel like running for the hills.
Don't believe all the crap about being understanding and showing patience blah blah.
It's like trying to smile and be nice to five bad tempered gorillas.

My wife is already there after hitting half a century already
Sometimes she gets abit ratty( she does loads for the community)
We flick fingers at each other ,and then we giggle!
Its all good[emoji106]



Sent from my iPad using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    No registered users viewing this page.

×
×
  • Create New...