SoonOh 127 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 In my expat friends cases, it is thai partner wearing pants Link to post Share on other sites
steven100 20434 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 both .... it's is an agreement by both on any issue ... not just one way making orders. Link to post Share on other sites
BobBKK 8719 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 If you marry a Thai, especially many years younger, you have no pants. If you marry one within 10 years she will wear the pants. Link to post Share on other sites
mike787 3593 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 ALWAYS the Thai...No matter what expats think or want to believe...She can have us removed from the Land of smiles with one divorce and a phone call to Immigration, as for all your stuff, you can fight for 50/50 but for an easy way out -just walk away. Link to post Share on other sites
Skallywag 4361 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Up to you, some like bondage, some do not. BDSM: being in control by letting go of control. haha Link to post Share on other sites
transam 50120 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 On occasion I have seen Mrs.Trans wearing my boxers whilst doing housework..... Link to post Share on other sites
colinneil 78582 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Well certainly not me wearing the pants, i have to obey her every command, if i dont she hides my chair. Link to post Share on other sites
CharlieH 30742 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 In this day and age of equality isnt this OP an "old fashioned" view, Why does there have to be a "boss" at all, isnt a relationship all about give n take and compromise, not whose the "boss". Just saying. Link to post Share on other sites
marcusarelus 6898 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Wife wears my boxers too. We discuss all major decisions. I have last word. She is big wheel at work so no need to be a storm trooper at home. I was laying on a stretcher in the ICU hooked up to all sorts of tubes and I remember the doctor asking her, "You guarantee payment? She said yes." Normally she speaks very polite Thai and that gets us a long way. Thais have a word for it Gala Tessa. Ask your wife. Link to post Share on other sites
Thailand 18841 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 I will ask my wife to respond to this question. Link to post Share on other sites
poohy 6513 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 12 minutes ago, CharlieH said: In this day and age of equality isnt this OP an "old fashioned" view, Why does there have to be a "boss" at all, isnt a relationship all about give n take and compromise, not whose the "boss". Just saying. Mrs Poohy is trying to compose a polite response her initial one it appears would not pass the censors! Link to post Share on other sites
Chazar 8650 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Well I haven't worn any since about age 12? Ghastly things, plenty of air circulation. Link to post Share on other sites
bluesofa 42428 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Normally when out running I wear trousers, but the dog just pants. Link to post Share on other sites
Vacuum 14704 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 50 minutes ago, SoonOh said: In my expat friends cases, it is thai partner wearing pants Perhaps they've invested more than then they can comfortably walk away from? Link to post Share on other sites
Centra 62 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 We have one leg each, can tell when one of us has been drinking it is on backwards. Link to post Share on other sites
nauseus 16503 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Pants don't matter. It's the shirt on your back that does. Link to post Share on other sites
FritsSikkink 13240 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 44 minutes ago, mike787 said: ALWAYS the Thai...No matter what expats think or want to believe...She can have us removed from the Land of smiles with one divorce and a phone call to Immigration, as for all your stuff, you can fight for 50/50 but for an easy way out -just walk away. Nonsense, she can't remove me at all. I work here, got a Thai child, could go into retirement Walking away is for people without balls. Link to post Share on other sites
mserror 156 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 My ex-wife wore the pants... Link to post Share on other sites
bluesofa 42428 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 6 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said: Nonsense, she can't remove me at all. I work here, got a Thai child, could go into retirement Walking away is for people without balls. Err, you mean women? Unless you're married to a katoey. Link to post Share on other sites
Justgrazing 20870 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 16 minutes ago, bluesofa said: Normally when out running I wear trousers, but the dog just pants. My mate Dave does the equality thing so has no prob' wearing the other 'alf's kit but said he finds it difficult to run in heels .. Link to post Share on other sites
bluesofa 42428 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 1 minute ago, Justgrazing said: My mate Dave does the equality thing so has no prob' wearing the other 'alf's kit but said he finds it difficult to run in heels .. I was under the assumption if he shouted "Heel", the sheep would put them on? Link to post Share on other sites
Dolmance 123 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 She calls the shots, and I pour 'em. Link to post Share on other sites
sammieuk1 21034 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 That reminds me got to get home and take the Mrs knickers off their killing me Link to post Share on other sites
ratcatcher 29616 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 1 hour ago, transam said: On occasion I have seen Mrs.Trans wearing my boxers whilst doing housework..... This image comes to mind...... Link to post Share on other sites
FritsSikkink 13240 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 24 minutes ago, bluesofa said: Err, you mean women? Unless you're married to a katoey. What part of "she" don't you understand? Link to post Share on other sites
Lacessit 23530 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 I really don't know. While I am the lord and master to be waited on hand and foot, my Thai GF somehow manages to manoeuvre me into doing what she wants. If I could bottle it, I'd sell it for a fortune to marketers. Link to post Share on other sites
Skallywag 4361 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 27 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said: Nonsense, she can't remove me at all. I work here, got a Thai child, could go into retirement Work, child, retirement will make no difference if you are blacklisted or deported. Kothot Khrup Link to post Share on other sites
Orton Rd 16920 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 I know my place! Link to post Share on other sites
Bluespunk 53513 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 We don't wear pants in our house, commando style for the Punks... Link to post Share on other sites
pgrahmm 7494 Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 About every day to day occurrences my wife oversee's & I just cruise along as she does well....If it's a decision we're trying to reach it's generally 50/50 with input from both of us..... If it's a really big issue or decision she likes me to take the lead..... Any Thai family decisions (by extension) she handles about 90% of the time - I don't need to insert or assert myself = unless the family asks; which does happen..... We've never had drama or shouting within our family unit & I don't see it in the extended family either...... Everything is pretty even keeled.... Thai women like strong men, but there's a finely lined threshold there between decision making and an overbearing presence (or bully).... Link to post Share on other sites
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