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7 hours ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

Interesting that so many men on here allow women to control them. Even more ridiculous considering in most cases of farang-Thai relationship the man has more money and more choice so there's really no reason to allow women to behave like 5 year olds and their tantrums.

 

Women by nature seek to control you, and will control you up to the degree you'll let them. If you don't let them they might throw tantrums and whine or even cry about it - but those are all simply her arsenal of weapons to control you.

 

I made the mistake of allowing my ex-gf to gain more control, and she took it to extreme coming over unannounced and even made a copy of my key without permission. I ended up dumping her, and now a few weeks later she has been reset and comes over only when allowed to, and I've now openly told her I am sleeping with other women. We'll see how this goes from here...

 

Congrats ! Hard to find anyone who grew some in this country...

Mostly, the ones whom I meet who know how to treat women are Thai. And usually women just shut up in front of Thai, knowing how much painful it can be to open their mouth !

 

 

 

 

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she jokes about being 'the boss',  in reality is reasonably even.  

my wife can be very strong willed and difficult to reason with about things

especially 'thai' issues (like how she rides her 'rod motersai' with our young son in the usual deathwish fashion) and can easily lose 30 minutes to 'i am thai lady, i am strong, don't worry, mai pen rai' blah blah trying to rationalise with her 🙄

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I am but she borrow the. A lot! 

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On ‎6‎/‎16‎/‎2019 at 5:31 PM, steven100 said:

both .... it's is an agreement by both on any issue ... not just one way making orders.

Agreed. I didn't get married to be the boss, or the doormat. I got married to be an equal.

If I wanted to be the boss, I'd have stuck with renting.

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19 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I got married to be an equal

I got married to have children.

Almost nobody in the world is my equal, and the few I've met were mostly men.

Did meet a woman who was my equal back at university, the sex was good but the fights for dominance were tiring.

 

Being stupid has it's advantages, there are lots of people to meet who are your equal, and I suspect stupid people live generally happier and more satisfying lives. I often wish I were as stupid as everyone else.

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2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I got married to have children.

Almost nobody in the world is my equal, and the few I've met were mostly men.

Did meet a woman who was my equal back at university, the sex was good but the fights for dominance were tiring.

 

Being stupid has it's advantages, there are lots of people to meet who are your equal, and I suspect stupid people live generally happier and more satisfying lives. I often wish I were as stupid as everyone else.

I decided long ago not to have children. I lived with a woman that had 2 young ones for a while and I had made the absolute right decision. I see absolutely no gain to be made from bringing more mouths into the world to have to support for the rest of my life and that will abandon me to an old folks home when I'm no use to them anymore. 

I'd have had to be barking to actually choose to have some. If I want love, I'll buy a dog.

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6 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I decided long ago not to have children. I lived with a woman that had 2 young ones for a while and I had made the absolute right decision. I see absolutely no gain to be made from bringing more mouths into the world to have to support for the rest of my life and that will abandon me to an old folks home when I'm no use to them anymore. 

I'd have had to be barking to actually choose to have some. If I want love, I'll buy a dog.

Although you're more likely to be arrested for that.

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5 minutes ago, bluesofa said:

Although you're more likely to be arrested for that.

It's OK if it's pretty:-)

I'd never buy a bitch. Don't need the problem of a bitch on heat and all the neighbourhood dogs scratching the door.

Not an issue at the moment anyway. Not allowed to have dogs on the property.

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1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I see absolutely no gain to be made from bringing more mouths into the world to have to support for the rest of my life and that will abandon me to an old folks home when I'm no use to them anymore. 

I'm hoping the two Thai kids will take care of me, I agree with you about the western kids, my four Brit kids were worthless.

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