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Last week my mom left for the the United States to fix her Social Security and Pension money by changing the account number they are deposited in. She had a joint account with dad. I left the house last year because of a big argument between them and now I live on my own but I keep in touch with my mother. Just to cut things short, me and mom have been living with a verbal abuser for 8 years. Dad can get physical sometimes when he is beyond angry, but thats why I won't say it's domestic abuse. My mom just arrived back in Thailand on Monday. When she got back to the house. One of the dogs were dead. Looked liked he died of starvation or overexeration from the heat. We have three dogs, the other 2 are okay. But mostly everything in the house was gone. The house isn't completly finished so dad took, toilets, microwaves, wooden cabinets, washer machine, 1 flatscree TV, safe, refrigerator, etc. Not only that he shut down the electricity, pulled the water pump from out back near the water tank so mom can't use the water and took the sink and made a big hole she said where the water pipes go so no one can use the water, took all the pipes, took all the stoves so mom can't cook or drink water. All he left was a small pink fan(He took 4 big fans), a bottle of water, and half a dog food bag.

 

The car is gone which is in her name. The house and land is in my mom and my names because we are both Thai/american citizens.

 

Anyway, someone said they saw him come back when mom was at the house but he ran back to the car and took off. So he can't be too far. Our family drove up from Bangkok to help her out. They reported him to the police in Khon Kaen. She gave the police a picture of him and car info. My

moms in Bangkok now to do get some paper work for the car. Someone called saying they saw dad in a moving truck. We wondered how could he fit all that stuff in the car, now we know.

 

I don't know how to help her out but to just be there for her. Dads on the run somewhere. He's stealing, he let my dog die. I don't want this man leaving the country, I want him to go to jail. :(

 

Can anyone suggest or help me. I wish his face was all over the news so we could find him faster. He is a danger too he drives crazy. His mind is gone. I'm afraid he'll hit someone or hurt himself.

Should I just wait it out and let the police do there job. I feel like if I do he'll be out of the country.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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You and your mother are Thai citizens. The majority of the members of this forum are not Thai.

 

I don't think there is much advice we can give you.

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You and your mother are Thai citizens. The majority of the members of this forum are not Thai.
 
I don't think there is much advice we can give you.
But I was born in America and I'm not sure how things work in Thailand. I became a Thai citizen at 17.

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What about your mother?

She is Thai. But she's been living in America for over 40 years and is not sure how things work either which is why she has family to help her. We moved to Thailand in 2011.

 

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As I said previously, you and your mother are Thai citizens. In addition, your mother's Thai family are on scene to help her. The matter has been reported to the police.
 
As the majority of the members of this forum are not Thai I don't think there is much further advice we can give you.
Okay.

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So your dad is farang? And behaving like this? Not long before the shit catches up to him I suspect.

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You gotta step up son. If your dad is behaving like an idiot you gotta take him out for your mom. 

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So your dad is farang? And behaving like this? Not long before the shit catches up to him I suspect.
Yes, my dad is a farang.

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You gotta step up son. If your dad is behaving like an idiot you gotta take him out for your mom. 
I'm a girl btw. I live in the u.s now so I can't do anything to help my mom.

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Posted (edited)
44 minutes ago, Taicha said:

I'm a girl btw. I live in the u.s now so I can't do anything to help my mom.

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Sounds like she has some money coming in at least. Not much you can do but let the coppers handle it.

There's 3 sides to every story, your dad is obviously upset about something so offer your mother support within your means but they need to clean their own mess up.

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