robblok Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 4 minutes ago, CaptainNemo said: I tend not to like the sort of Thai people who say "Thai people" all the time when they talk. I was in the supermarket with the kids battling over large water bottles, and some bird came up to me and said "Thai people like Singha water, is cleaner", and I said, "They're all the same to me". It's like when they ask you "Chorp Muang Thai mai?" when they run out things to say, and I find myself saying things like "It's alright, but it's not as good as Cambodia" lol. What we're really talking about is not "Thai people" but subcultures... and Thailand has many who don't have much in common with each other within Thailand itself. There are lots of subdivisions within Thailand, and they often don't mix or don't mix well. As "farang" we are also a minority subculture, and are more likely to identify with similarly peripheralised subcultures than others, but the moment you start saying I don't like X-people, you'll meet one, who is irritatingly nice and ruins your whole stereotype. We all build up rules-of-thumb about various ethnic groups or nationalities based on experiences so far, and they will always be limited by us ourselves and the situations we put ourselves in. Those are just people with nationalistic feelings, its is more prevalent in some countries then others. Its like they get pride from belonging to a country. I see it a lot on Thaivisa too, bashing other countries thinking theirs is perfect. Nationalists are usually not fun people. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4675636b596f75 Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 1 hour ago, Yinn said: They hate “Thai male” the most. This is a very interesting section of this poster's lamentable series of questions, and the one I find most perplexing. Most Thai women will tell you how much they can't stand Thai men. I don't need to go through all the attributes attached to them, but they are mostly not good. So why would this poster be surprised that most foreigners have the same opinion of Thai males? I have to say I have had some decent Taxi drivers recently even though their driving skills suck, but it is the male we come in contact with, who tries to cheat us in Taxis. It is the male who sits in the 7/11 drinking 4 bottles of Chang, then off on his motorbike to kill someone or himself. I have never seen a woman do the same. I could go on and on, but I won't. Open your eyes OP. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainNemo Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 1 minute ago, robblok said: Those are just people with nationalistic feelings, its is more prevalent in some countries then others. Its like they get pride from belonging to a country. I see it a lot on Thaivisa too, bashing other countries thinking theirs is perfect. Nationalists are usually not fun people. I'm an ironic Nationalist - I hate my country, but I don't want anyone foreign living in it either ???? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dimitriv Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 59 minutes ago, Yinn said: Show me where Thai people write this thing about foreigner. Show me one example. I never see it. I read a lot. My girlfriend was very surprised that I do not like beer, and that I am used to work all day. She thought that most foreigners spend all day in a bar drinking beer and never work. Her female friends had the same prejudice. My opinion about Thai people... Usually they are ok. The ones I know are a bit lazy. Things never get finished. I notice that they do not care about the environment. And are often not very capable to do their job right. They usually don't take responsibility if things go wrong. I am not sure, but I think this has to do with culture and a work environment where own initiative and taking responsibility are not appreciated. As a result, things like customer service aren't great either. I really hate that if I have a problem, someone is laughing without doing anything. Oh, and where I come from we say: "Only stupid people laugh without reason." 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainNemo Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 1 minute ago, dimitriv said: My girlfriend was very surprised that I do not like beer, and that I am used to work all day. She thought that most foreigners spend all day in a bar drinking beer and never work. Her female friends had the same prejudice. My opinion about Thai people... Usually they are ok. The ones I know are a bit lazy. Things never get finished. I notice that they do not care about the environment. And are often not very capable to do their job right. They usually don't take responsibility if things go wrong. I am not sure, but I think this has to do with culture and a work environment where own initiative and taking responsibility are not appreciated. As a result, things like customer service aren't great either. I really hate that if I have a problem, someone is laughing without doing anything. Oh, and where I come from we say: "Only stupid people laugh without reason." Spend a bit of time in Jakarta, and you'll think customer service and attitudes to pollution in Bangkok are fantastic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 4675636b596f75 Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 From my experience, Thai people lie more often than not. I'm told it is a way of saving face. Most decent people cannot stand liars. I have been lied to by Thais so often, that I just assume if they are talking, they are lying. That is from experience. The wife lies and then lies about lying, she says, it is the Thai way. Why should I argue this fact? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rumak Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, 4675636b596f75 said: Most Thai women will tell you how much they can't stand Thai men. I don't need to go through all the attributes attached to them, but they are mostly not good. I am pretty sure i know what type of women tell you that line. If I am wrong please tell us which "survey" you are referring to 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 13 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: How many farangs have "many Thai friends"? In my experience very few. OK, how does this equate with your experience? I have more Thai friends than farang friends? 15 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: I didn't read your whole post... Many of your posts are aggressive. And then it seems you expect friendly responses. Maybe, if you did read all the OP's post, you may appreciate that the OP was only paraphrasing what "aggressive" farangs are saying on this forum. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4675636b596f75 Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 1 minute ago, rumak said: I am pretty sure i know what type of women tell you that line. If I am wrong please tell us which "survey" you are referring to You're wrong. Most women, not bar-girls, will happily tell you of their distrust. This goes for professional women as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyezhov Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 11 minutes ago, CaptainNemo said: I tend not to like the sort of Thai people who say "Thai people" all the time when they talk. I was in the supermarket with the kids battling over large water bottles, and some bird came up to me and said "Thai people like Singha water, is cleaner", and I said, "They're all the same to me" Wow and here I am asking the Thai ladies "which one number 1 for Thai" when in the detergent or sauce aisles of a supermarket. I mean, Im not going to ask a Thai what the best cheddar is, but surely they know their Oyster Sauce better than I. I have even had two of them argue over it. Sometimes I even get the concern: "maybe too strong for farang". Thats sweet that they worry. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4675636b596f75 Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 How many Thai children grow up with only Momma, or Grandma? Crunch the numbers. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BobBKK Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 I don't actually like Thai people much but then I don't like people much lol. To be fair there are good and bad everywhere, obviously. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 16 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: Do you like Thai people ? I like Thai people the same way I like most people …. respect is something that is earned, and generally if a Thai person expresses a certain level of respect then I in turn show courtesy and respect to them. I have several Thai friends that I like alot and always appreciate their company when we go have food & drinks. There are good and bad farangs, there are good and bad Thais. There are good and bad farangs in my home country as in most countries. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 (edited) 31 minutes ago, sirineou said: Regardless of what anyone thinks we are all guests here. I have a Australian friend that though I don't agree with his politics, on a personal level I like very much.. He constantly posts critical opinions about The Australian government ,and other Australians on FB, but he is also very proud of his country, If a lot of Thais living in Australia were constantly posting negative opinions about Australia, I am sure he would not like it. Same applies to me , and I am sure to you, so why not to Thai people? Black people can use the N word with each other, I challenge you to go in Harlem and use it yourself. Don't you see my point? I don't tell Thai people what I think of them, I don't speak with them at all, it would never come up. My interactions with the general Thai population is of the, "how much is that?", "I'll have a hot Latte" variety. I also don't believe the OP is anything but an elderly white expat playing a game. Don't get me wrong, I don't much like expats, Viets, Khmer either, I have no use for anyone (except immediate family). I prefer to interact with people on forums, where I can turn them off whenever I feel like. Edited September 18, 2019 by BritManToo 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rumak Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 (edited) 8 minutes ago, 4675636b596f75 said: You're wrong. Most women, not bar-girls, will happily tell you of their distrust. This goes for professional women as well. well, if you're going to throw out such generalizations let's just say that WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD DISTRUST MEN . Think BIG ! Edited September 18, 2019 by rumak 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ThaiWai Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 My soi has no name. Just a house number, moo number and ampur name. I accept that if it makes sense to the people that deliver mail etc to me. I got a call from DHL 5 days ago and was told they had a package for me and could I send my location to the number they were calling from. I complied. 5 hours later...no package. I then see an email from them requesting I share my location via google maps. I comply...next day no package. 4 days later I see they have enter a shipping status at the merchant website that says "Customer requested rescheduling". Seeing this was not going to get resolved, I search for the DHL office near me and take a drive there, the shop is marked with company logos etc. They tell me I am at the wrong location and I should drive to a nearby landmark and look for their associates office at a shop that has no markings. I go to the landmark and search all over asking shop owners in the area if they know where DHL is and no one does. I call the number they gave me at the first office. DHL employee answers and I ask where she is and tell her I believe I am somewhere near her. She says she will step onto the sidewalk so I can see her. It turns out I am literally parked in front of the office which has zero markings of any kind. I relay this story to her and she says "We couldn't find your house". I point to the soi opposite her office and tell her "That's my soi right in front of your office. You could have walked two minutes to my house. I was not angry or even surprised. This type of thing happens every day all day at every business. Their systems don't work, the employees don't care, the corporation doesn't care, the governments local and national don't care, there's no logic or motivation behind anything everything is just a big bowl of random actions followed by repeated failures that are never learned from mixed in with heaping helpings of corruption ,xenophobia, racism and greed that trickle from the top down. I have learned to accept that I live in a country where no one surpasses the brain function of a ten year old and just roll with it. 4 1 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skallywag Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 1 hour ago, Yinn said: When he says “Thais......” they is talking about me, my mum, my dad. Is offensive. He try to make everyone hate thai people same him. Yes, there is a small percentage of angry/racist/ bigoted foreigners on ThaiVisa. My suggestion: just stop reading their <deleted> or "click on your name at the top right hand corner and select "ignored users". It is worse in America i believe In America, where I came from , over 61,000,000 people voted for Trump. A large percentage of those voters only like other white european Americans, are homophobic, racist, etc... America has tens of millions of Latinos, Asians, and Africans citizens, all taking offences from other American citizens. So be glad your Thai neighbors are not making offence to your family as is happening in America As long as Thai people like and respect Thai people you can have a happy life. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 12 minutes ago, 4675636b596f75 said: From my experience, Thai people lie more often than not. I'm told it is a way of saving face. Most decent people cannot stand liars. I have been lied to by Thais so often, that I just assume if they are talking, they are lying. That is from experience. The wife lies and then lies about lying, she says, it is the Thai way. Why should I argue this fact? I agree 100% …. some thais don't think nothing about cheating and lying to your face which shows zero respect. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 10 minutes ago, 4675636b596f75 said: You're wrong. Most women, not bar-girls, will happily tell you of their distrust. This goes for professional women as well. And most women, any woman the world over, are quite adept at telling the fragile male ego, any male ego the world over, exactly what she thinks he wants to hear. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 5 minutes ago, ThaiWai said: My soi has no name............ Epic rant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rumak Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 (edited) 7 minutes ago, BritManToo said: where I can turn them off whenever I feel like. definitely a sign of ageing. used to be my thoughts were about how I could turn someone on. Now I am more in the "turn them off" camp ....???? Edited September 18, 2019 by rumak 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ThaiWai Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 10 minutes ago, 4675636b596f75 said: How many Thai children grow up with only Momma, or Grandma? Crunch the numbers. So true. FInding a single Thai girl without kids is like trying to find a single Thai girl without burns and other random scar tissue all over their legs and arms etc. You know Thailand..."Safety Last and Condoms After That". 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 1 minute ago, NanLaew said: And most women, any woman the world over, are quite adept at telling the fragile male ego, any male ego the world over, exactly what she thinks he wants to hear. ..... except my former Brit wife who could only tell me things I didn't want to hear. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 (edited) 21 minutes ago, 4675636b596f75 said: How many Thai children grow up with only Momma, or Grandma? Crunch the numbers. Only the ones that have a mother working bars and an errant father (old stereotype) Only the ones that have both parents working to keep up with the cost of living (new stereotype) Edited September 18, 2019 by NanLaew sp 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skallywag Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 2 minutes ago, steven100 said: I agree 100% …. some thais don't think nothing about cheating and lying to your face which shows zero respect. And yet 61,000,000 people in America voted for a guy who cheated and lied his whole life and he became President of the United States hahahaha Respect and 30 baht will get you a cup of coffee 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4675636b596f75 Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 12 minutes ago, NanLaew said: Really? Where are you finding these Thai women? Thanks for skipping over the Thai male attributes BTW. No need to answer that first question but you could have married up though, no? Why did you assume otherwise? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JonnyF Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 I think foreigners are generally more openly critical of many things, whereas Thais tend to stay quiet and pretend it doesn't bother them (even though it does). We are raised to be more open about our feelings, discuss things etc. So when Thai people hear us complain about Thailand or Thai people, they are very offended and they don't realize that we often complain even more about our own countries and countrymen. That doesn't mean we don't like Thai people, we just feel it's OK to talk openly about their negative side. For example. I might discuss that in the last 12 months... 1. My Thai girlfriend had her life threatened by a neighbor for measuring her land correctly after they were stealing it from her by pushing the border with their tractor. 2. Her dog was run over by a neighbour who then did not stop and simply left it in agony on the side of the road with a broken leg and huge flesh wounds. The neighbour later admitted she knew she had hit it but was "too busy" to inform us. 3. Another dog was poisoned less than 12 hours after a neighbour had threatened to kill it for chasing her chickens which had roamed onto our land. These are just factual things that happened. Stating them openly does not mean I do not like Thai people, some are awesome and some are nasty. I tend not to discuss it with Thai people though, as they take it very personally if you suggest that Thai people are not all fantastic, Thailand No. 1 etc. I do see that changing though, I have Thai friends where I work in Bangkok who now holiday in Japan, Korea, Singapore etc. and are more open to criticizing elements of Thailand or Thai people which do not compare favourably to their Asian counterparts (road manners, governance, public transport, air quality etc.) 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4675636b596f75 Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 10 minutes ago, rumak said: well, if you're going to throw out such generalizations let's just say that WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD DISTRUST MEN . Think BIG ! Let's not. Good attempt at obfuscation of the issue at hand. I'll give you some credit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NanLaew Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, BritManToo said: ..... except my former Brit wife who could only tell me things I didn't want to hear. Let her go BMT... she's renting far too much space in your head... along with her misbegotten spawn (of your loins). 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 4675636b596f75 Posted September 18, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, NanLaew said: Only the ones that have a mother working bars and an errant father (old stereotype) Only the ones that have both parents working to keep up with the cost of living (new sterotype) Neat little boxes. The Thai man who abandons his family is not relegated to just low-income women or bar girls. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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