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39 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Please define cheating.

 

I guess we can agree if a married guy sees regular another women and he goes out with her and has regular sex with her that is cheating.

 

How about a guy who goes in a BJ bar, gets his intensive care treatment for 10 minutes and then he walks out again to his loving wife. No kisses, no hugs, and likely he never knew her name or if she told him he forgot it the moment he was done. Is that cheating? Or just fun or pressure relieve?

 

Or how about buying one or more girls a drink or two or three. For some people that's cheating.

Whatever it is people engage in, just think how you would feel if the role was reversed and you found your wife doing it, how would you feel, there is your answer ( in most cases).

 

Personally, cheating is engaging in any sexual act outside of the marriage.

Anything else would be just flirting, and that may also be frowned upon in some relationships.

Ultimately, its whatever works for the two in that relationship.

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4 minutes ago, Yinn said:

EXACTLY what I try to say. EXACTLY 

Read his quote, he say he not like Thai, hate us, but he married to thai, live in Thailand. 

I am only ask why?

 

Thankyou villagefarang for understanding. I though it obvious, but my English is poor, so the people can not understand me. 

They just want kill the witch.

you quote one person, who obviously is a complete <deleted> and than assume that most of the farang are the same. 

if you want to ask why that particular person hates thais and lives here, why do you have to imply that everyone else does the same?
 

 

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I'm not married but have been in a close defacto relationship for the past seven years with a Thai woman. I've never cheated on her with another woman since starting this relationship. We love each other and trust each other and I have no desire to spoil this very special relationship we have together.

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2 hours ago, Yinn said:

Hmmmm

No answer.

I thank you for yet another thread.  There is a famous saying about familiarity .  The more you post the more familiar it all gets...................

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13 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

Whatever it is people engage in, just think how you would feel if the role was reversed and you found your wife doing it, how would you feel, there is your answer ( in most cases).

 

Personally, cheating is engaging in any sexual act outside of the marriage.

Anything else would be just flirting, and that may also be frowned upon in some relationships.

Ultimately, its whatever works for the two in that relationship.

Personally I think cheating happens in the head.

If a married guy walks hand in hand with another girl and he is in love with her then I think that is cheating.

 

If a guy is happily married but he really likes those porn movie BJs and his wife doesn't want to perform like that or he does not dare to ask her and gets this somewhere from a professional that is IMHO almost like getting a foot massage from a professional. You want that the job is done well and you know you will feel better after it. I think it has nothing to do with romance or cheating - but I wouldn't want to explain that to my wife.

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I never cheated on my Brit wife, in the UK I was faithful for 30 years, she cheated on me though.

My Thai wife encouraged me to have sex with other women, she also had the odd fling.

My Thai BiLs always invited me to go whoring with them, they were all married too.

I do cheat on my Thai gf with my former Thai wife.

Know loads of married Thai guys with gfs and mia noi's, seems entirely normal here.

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1 hour ago, ravip said:

On the same note, I wonder how many of the 'cheaters' are confident that their wives/gf's aren't reciprocating their generous 'favors'...

I also wonder how many of the "cheaters" would be happy for their wives or girlfriends to cheat too. Surely what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. However, methinks that many of those "cheaters" would be unable to accept their other halves doing the same, and would certainly get their collective knickers in a twist if it were to happen. Hypocrites, perhaps? 

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2 hours ago, CharlieH said:

To add to that, trawling through a posters history could also be viewed as stalking ! and is not advisable.

thats it !   Tomorrows thread from Yinn :   How many of you spend hours going through posters' histories looking for quotes ?

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I will answer yesterday's question and today's question in the one reply to to save time.

1. Do you like Thai people?

A. Yes, sometimes for a short time.

2. Do you cheat on your wife?

A. Yes, sometimes for a short time.

 

When you ask the next distasteful question I will give the same reply.

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the thing about the ole white farts bitching about

thai men is that they picked it up from the numerous

thai hookers.

 

when there is no realistic flattery the hookers can come up with, that can have a realistic odds of calling to the decaying man, theres only two flattery tricks left:

 

1: i like ole farts

2: thai man no good (implying that, even tho he has absolutely nothing going for him, at least he isnt one of those 'thai man no good')

 

the first flattery, 'i like ole farts, is susceptible to

backfire. while a certain level of delusion is required for this flattery to strike home, chances are he is so delusional that he doesnt even recognize he's an ole fart,

alas the 2nd flattery tactics is preferable.

the downside is he, just like the hookers that got him into it,

keep repeating it ad naseum, and what is worse, on tvf

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I can only talk of my Thai culture experiences. In the past especially, it was acceptable for some to have giks and mare noi's !

 

I feel lucky my wife looks at a short time interlude as a males right to have fun!

She has no interest to  reciprocate nor feel threaten when I gaze upon a beautiful women  !

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