cyril sneer Posted September 20, 2019 Share Posted September 20, 2019 I hear this time and time again, but usually from people married to ex-bar girls. How does one go about it without looking creepy? I’ve recently discovered a huge mall next to a university campus full of students. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bendejo Posted September 20, 2019 Share Posted September 20, 2019 Can you really hook up with Thai girls in shopping malls? No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishtank Posted September 20, 2019 Share Posted September 20, 2019 Of course you can. Why not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creasy Posted September 20, 2019 Share Posted September 20, 2019 If you have got a head like a smashed crab. Are obese. Wear a Singha singlet and have poor personal hygiene . Then no chance. Same as the country you came from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandy Freckle Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 If I was back in my 20's or 30's again..., Id give it a crack...., but it would one situation where subtlety would 'not' be overrated..., if you catch my drift ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookondee Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Of course! Just walk around pretending to accidentily drop 100baht notes. They will be following you around like the pied piper! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peterw42 Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 58 minutes ago, cyril sneer said: I hear this time and time again, but usually from people married to ex-bar girls. How does one go about it without looking creepy? I’ve recently discovered a huge mall next to a university campus full of students. Depends what you mean by hook up ? Guys that marry bargirls tend to think every Thai girl is for sale. No reason you cant ask for directions, where can you buy phone credit etc, introduce yourself to the next table at a coffee shop, can you ask a couple of questions about Thailand etc. Keep in mind, your average Thai girl thats not in the entertainment industry or trying to sell you something will be very conservative, shy, has probably never spoken to westerners or had a boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChipButty Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Put your wallet on your head, if you've got one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tgw Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 "hook up" is a bit crude, but if we can translate this into "making opposite sex acquaintances that have a future potential of turning into a romantic interest", then certainly yes. Just be friendly and polite and if you think she likes you, then ask for her line ID, then if she really likes you she will give it to you and later per line agree to meet for lunch or a drink in a venue with a good reputation. If single & interested, she will meet you - maybe accompanied by a chaperone the first time. It's astonishing how many Thai girls are single, even many good looking ones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4MyEgo Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 I would say if your good looking, dress well, look confident, know how to talk the talk, you shouldn't have any trouble chatting to any of the girls, anywhere, if you ask me, girls like being approached, especially if you have good one liners, such as, oh excuse me please, can you help me, I was looking to have lunch with a pretty lady, but I have been having trouble finding one until now, would you care to join me, just for lunch, please, now most blokes will laugh, but persistence works most times, ok, how about dessert, or coffee, I won't bite you, I'm here by myself and just want someone to join me, especially some one so pretty like you. Sounds cornish, but without bait, you have slim chances of catching fish, regardless of them being Thai or not, females love compliments, they love the chase, used to do this back home with my mates to see who would score first, not about sex, the kill, but you have to have balls, because you will get rejections, and that's normal, some are shyer than others, some married, have boyfriends, and might not speak the language, or may think your a stalker, so know when to back off and be respectful at all times. If you have the above, your in with a 50% chance, now as for getting to the next base, can't answer that one, because all women are not alike, some are keen, others not, but it's all about the numbers game, me, personally at my age 59, prefer to walk up to one in a bar, have a few drinks, play a couple of games of pool, secure her for the short time, and be done and dusted, and then home to the wife . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenCurryorDie Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 I put a thousand baht note under each arm and just stroll around. Have to chase them away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grumbleweed Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Quote Can you really hook up with Thai girls in shopping malls? Sure you can. Hookers go shopping too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4MyEgo Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 33 minutes ago, Peterw42 said: Guys that marry bargirls tend to think every Thai girl is for sale. I married a bargirl, but that is beside the point, every female has her price, they are not angels, they are out there for the taking, think what you want, like I said, every female has her price, and that doesn't necessarily mean she wants money if you can follow what I mean with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 I find Thai people friendly and engaging near everywhere I go... I am not really looking to pick anyone up but ppretty sure it would happen easily... though I would expect it to be age appropriate... Thai easily make eye contact - - and speaking Thai will surely matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 36 minutes ago, tgw said: "hook up" is a bit crude, but if we can translate this into "making opposite sex acquaintances that have a future potential of turning into a romantic interest", then certainly yes. Just be friendly and polite and if you think she likes you, then ask for her line ID, then if she really likes you she will give it to you and later per line agree to meet for lunch or a drink in a venue with a good reputation. If single & interested, she will meet you - maybe accompanied by a chaperone the first time. It's astonishing how many Thai girls are single, even many good looking ones. Somewhat less astonishing is the amount that remain single and uninterested after your lame entreaties, especially the many good looking ones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 1 hour ago, cyril sneer said: I hear this time and time again, but usually from people married to ex-bar girls. How does one go about it without looking creepy? I’ve recently discovered a huge mall next to a university campus full of students. The OP should post a picture here in his most disarming, mall-trawling best and the TV membership will give their honest, open and unvarnished opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denim Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 If the OP is thinking of giving this a try then it is probably well worth becoming bisexual. That way the odds of successfully hooking up with something would be doubled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cornishcarlos Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 1 minute ago, Denim said: If the OP is thinking of giving this a try then it is probably well worth becoming bisexual. That way the odds of successfully hooking up with something would be doubled. The odds would be much more than doubled... There seems to be much more promiscuity in the gay scene !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tgw Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 45 minutes ago, NanLaew said: Somewhat less astonishing is the amount that remain single and uninterested after your lame entreaties, especially the many good looking ones. lol, speak for yourself ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sammieuk1 Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Wear some Velcro pants bound to hook up with something or other???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 If a person is totally lame..No. In my 60ś I cannot even count how many girls I have met at Central mall in Pattaya. Go in the afternoon around 4 pm cute girls walking all around the place. Up and down the escalators walk around you will get smiles and start a conversation if you know how to do that. Too many to count very very easy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bendejo Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 1 hour ago, pookondee said: Of course! Just walk around pretending to accidentily drop 100baht notes. They will be following you around like the pied piper! Buy ping pong balls much? ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pilotman Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 20 minutes ago, bkk6060 said: If a person is totally lame..No. In my 60ś I cannot even count how many girls I have met at Central mall in Pattaya. Go in the afternoon around 4 pm cute girls walking all around the place. Up and down the escalators walk around you will get smiles and start a conversation if you know how to do that. Too many to count very very easy. that should have started out: "once upon a time". And ended with "and the Munchkin lived happily ever after". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyezhov Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 1 hour ago, ChipButty said: Put your wallet on your head, if you've got one Exactly. Thats the classier way. In bars, I just tape a 1000bahter to my forehead. But I have a date upcoming with a mid 20s hottie I met at M Quartier Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 just go to a bar at nana and flash a few 1000 baht notes around and I guarantee you will get a bang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tagged Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Girls often come and want to practice their english with me while Im waiting for my gf shopping, but dissapear quick when my gf coming with a grumphy face. What they really want, not sure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotpoom Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Some of.. "us" ....can....and some of... "you"... can't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phantomfiddler Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 I have seen ladies that were "workers" from Nana Plaza walking around Pantip Plaza in business suits carrying briefcases, probably trying to pick up some farang who thought that they were straight respectable working ladies ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 2 hours ago, fishtank said: Of course you can. Why not? If you have to ask: "How does one go about it without looking creepy?", you probably can't. Doubt they are in his age group too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 A friend who visited Thailand on a lengthy bases before my first visit knew I was shopping Thai dating sites. He told me, "no need to do that, just get out and about". He was right. While with my gf in Thailand, I've had multiple occasions where another Thai gal attempted to get my attention. Fair to say, despite their innocent looks, they no doubt know the game and have an aim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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