Why do Foreigners marry a Thai Nationals?

[metempsychotic 1,953]

5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You beat me to it. After my ill fated partnership with a western woman ( my excuse is that I hadn't discovered Thailand at that time ) I swore never to get involved with any western woman ever again. Thai women, on the other hand, held the promise of an actual sex life.

How did that work out for you, I seem to remeber you moaning about wife number 2 at grest length. 

[EVENKEEL 2,344]

Unless you're pretty rich what kind of woman would an average smoo in his 60's have a chance at in the west, exactly.....

 

Unless you plan on having kids here in Thailand I don't understand the need for marriage.....whyfe. ahahaa

[bkk6060 7,843]

5 hours ago, BritManToo said:

But I guess we all do it in the hopes of getting unlimited access to that product we all want.

So you are talking about monogamy?

That has to be one of the most unnatural fantasies ever created.

[BritManToo 29,942]

4 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

So you are talking about monogamy?

That has to be one of the most unnatural fantasies ever created.

No, I'm talking about getting unlimited access to that product we all want in the west.

I tried marriage, but that didn't work (and cost me a fortune).

I tried becoming a millionaire (unfortunately I had tried marriage first)

The only sensible answer I've found, is to move to a country that doesn't pay welfare to single moms.

Edited January 17 by BritManToo

[Berkshire 13,288]

Wow, the OP barely says two words and he/she gets 6 pages and counting.  The OP hasn't even bothered to reply at all.  Must be a new record for a troll thread. 

[WalkingOrders 2,536]

I married her because I like being daddy warbucks to a hot little hottie half my age who looks good in the morning and good at night. She spends my money well. She takes care of me like no other woman ever has, and she sees me as her personal ATM, and I keep her wallet full. She is funny and makes me laugh. She trims my nose and ear hairs, and massages my feet. Cooks me breakfast everyday. Shops. Cooks me lunch. Orders online. Shops. Cleans the house meticulously. Cooks me dinner. Shops some more. Only understands half of what I say, and could care less about the other half. I get to be king of my castle. As long as I treat her like a queen. It's cool.

[ChaiyaTH 382]

On 1/10/2020 at 7:38 AM, Tayaout said:

Because my Thai wife act like a woman. She take care of our son and the house without complaining. I take care of finance and the garden. All my previous western girlfriends gave me headache and it felt like a constant fight. 

I feel like that with my Thai one too so not sure that is always the case hehe.

 

Seems you got a good one.

 

Only reason I married was due to parents here and visa purpose. Would never marry anyone otherwise, nonsense / waste of money.

Edited January 17 by ChaiyaTH

[canuckamuck 29,779]

3 hours ago, metempsychotic said:

It is not stuck up at all, I too cannot imagine marrying someone who is on an intellectual par with me.

 

I really dont understand why anyone who does is suprised when it all goes to hell.

I wanted to marry my intellectual equal but that group wasn't exactly overflowing with comely wenches.

[tgw 790]

nice troll post, OP

[dallen52 1,496]

On 1/10/2020 at 5:56 AM, fishtank said:

Have you seen Western Women?

 

[jayboy 6,818]

On 1/10/2020 at 6:43 AM, Mitkof Island said:

Ever tried dating a creature from back home? The attitude alone ain,t worth it.

Maybe you could post a full frame picture of yourself so we could understand what sort of "creature" you are. Your attitude is clear from your post so we don't need to consider that.

[ChaiyaTH 382]

I doubt Thai girls their attitude would remain desirable if they didn't need a foreigner to boost their financial situation.
Just a matter of time if you ask me, they already start to get fat here too.

[SiSePuede419 1,414]

On 1/10/2020 at 6:24 AM, ThailandRyan said:

The clear answer is that a person marries their partner for life regardless of race, color, creed or nationality...….all else is ridiculous to assume

 

Big fat nope on that one.  You know how ignorant the average person is?  Well almost half of all people are even more stupid, ignorant and unenlightened.

 

I wish everyone was as "awoken" as you claim....

 

The sad truth is that people are attracted to attractive people because their brains subconsciously tell them an attractive person is healthier, i.e. more fit for reproduction. 

 

They have no control over their unconscious shallow, superficial "intuition" any more than you have control over your heart beating or desire to breathe after holding your breath for three minutes.

 

Most Asians have attractive bodies, but their faces tend to be unattractive. 

 

Guys looking for short term relationships prefer women with hot bodies. 

 

Guys like attractive faces for long term relationships.

 

In the West, most women have unattractive bodies, but more attractive faces than the average Asian. 

 

This is why attractive Western women with hot bodies tend to be more attractive than even the most beautiful Asian women. 

 

And it also explains why attractive Asian women get surgery to "westernize" their faces to increase their attractiveness levels.

 

Hope this helps.

 

Evolutionary Psychology, I've read a book or two.

Edited January 18 by SiSePuede419

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@SiSePuede419

 

However I see 1000 reasons and combinations of reasons, but you are right in most. 

 

However, destiny meets destiny for good and bad

[iLuvThai 41]

On 1/10/2020 at 6:43 AM, Mitkof Island said:

Ever tried dating a creature from back home? The attitude alone ain,t worth it.

After my divorce in 2016 I started looking for someone to travel with. I spoke with many women from 3 different dating sites (in North America) and once the truths started coming out, there was so much baggage I said to myself I'm traveling alone and whatever happens I will see where it goes. I met Nuch in Chiang Rai. And she checked off the most important boxes I had in mind. Close to my age so I wouldn't have to worry about her wanting babies. Kids old enough to be on there own. She had a 26 year old with a life of her own. And she was free to tour Asia. I can't believe how well she treats me. Good chance we'll be married this year. Are all Thai ladies free from baggage? No but it's up to you what you'll put up with. 

 

I get a kick out of people saying Thai women only want you for your money/resources. I haven't dated a woman from Canada that within the first hour didn't want to know what I did for a living. Valid question of course but also code for is his earning potential good or great. Every woman wants security. I don't care but I look at there spending habits and how they talk about money. That speaks volumes of you know what to listen for.