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Hi there,

 

Need some advices, maybe some have one or two. I try to keep the story short :

 

9 years ago i had a GF back home. Before her i really didnt have problems in bed, everything was fine. But through her behaviour (have dinner or cinema with her ex bf,  grouch about anything etc) i suffered suddenly from premature ejaculation when have sex with her. Of course the relationship went broken, but i stayed too long with her anyway. Wasnt the best person i realised later..

 

I started traveling here some years ago, every year for a few months. As i was fed up with relationships at home, i met girls here. One night stands and friends with benefits only, i was fine with that. As im in holiday, some beers are included when go out, not drunk but relaxed and with condom i had some good sex here, cant complain at all. Now i met a nice lady wich i think could lead to a relationship, but this lady is not amused too much about beers 🙂 so i started again to think back about my old problem my ex gf at home gave me (thank you b****).. she drink sometimes, and last friday we went out, got drunk and had sex after. Good for her she did come, i didnt because too much beer and the condom and she didnt want to suck it, wich I was fine with, for the moment now 🙂

 

So i write this because i would like to know if someone had the same "problems" and how did you solve it ?

 

I went to an urologist in bkk 4 years ago because that <deleted> happened again with one of my friends as we had sober sex. After 20 min of talking to the doctor he looked at me interrogative and asked me why I came to him. He told me i have no problem and he cant help me, i should improve he said. I told him about the same that i wrote here.

 

And i got diagnosed a week ago with panic attacks wich i can control with CBD Oil, just as information.

 

So if this with this lady now is going well i would like that not the same <deleted> happens like with my ex back home..any advices, experiences are very welcome ! And please, keep the comments that just make fun of me for yourself thanks 😉 sorry for the long text !

 

Greetings

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19 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Taking Viagra, Kamagra and those type of drugs often delay ejaculation.

Great advise actually.

They do seem to have a slight numbing effect and can delay release.

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1 minute ago, bkk6060 said:

Great advise actually.

They do seem to have a slight numbing effect and can delay release.

funny enough it's the only thing not listed as potential side effects

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4 minutes ago, sanuk711 said:

Your lucky pada, you have  managed to stumble onto the right forum to give you some great advice..................................wheres the popcorn.........:coffee1:

Yeah i thought that 😁 but wanted to give it a try anyway 😊

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28 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

You need to not let this stuff get in your head, dwelling on it doesn't help, best to play it down and not make a big deal of it. If you are having premature ejaculation you are very lucky, many guys have the opposite problem. Taking Viagra, Kamagra and those type of drugs often delay ejaculation, so maybe consider that.

 

Drink, condoms and a girl that doesn't do stuff that turns you on (like oral), all contribute to not cumming

No she was pretty good fun in bed 😄 i didnt mind about oral or not at that time..maybe later but that we'll see then 👍 and ya, before that happened with my ex, i had more problems to finish than come to early..i try to find a way back to "the old me"..thats what im looking for. That situation with my ex "triggered" something in my brain and i want to find a way to "reboot"..

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36 minutes ago, JimmyTheMook said:

Anal beads are your friend.

 

Holy <deleted> no 😄

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12 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

Great advise actually.

They do seem to have a slight numbing effect and can delay release.

I read about that, yes. Would be my last option i think, but thank you 👍

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14 minutes ago, Pada said:

Yeah i thought that 😁 but wanted to give it a try anyway 😊

well done for giving it a go Pada------I worked in the Oz sex industry many years ago-- the over priced stuff they sold for this which was suppose to decentralize your organ --(have to be careful writing on Thai-V) is Novocaine ....... the easiest way to get Novocaine cheap is to buy Sunburn spray. It will deaden any nerve area.  

But as some have already mentioned to you, a lot of this  seems to be more to do with between the ears then the legs. Go with lots of P.P. Girls.....until you relax more..there should be no problems from them

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13 minutes ago, User name taken said:

Dude,

    Grow some balls.. literally

Lol i have..otherwise I wouldn't post that here, right ? Sometimes <deleted> get in your head and its not that easy to bring it out again

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58 minutes ago, sanuk711 said:

Your lucky pada, you have  managed to stumble onto the right forum to give you some great advice..................................wheres the popcorn.........:coffee1:

 

      This topic should be pinned, interesting reading, at last..

 

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