Are You An Alcoholic?

[Neeranam]

52 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Some of us would want to debate that..

What is that supposed to mean?

 

[NoshowJones]

13 minutes ago, Dap said:

After 55 years of drinking and at 71+ (and never had a problem). I mean really, how concerned can one be??

All the heavy drinkers I know, and there are plenty, are all dead, ages from about 50 and into their 70s.

[2 is 1]

[NoshowJones]

15 minutes ago, Dap said:

Well then, I guess the French people are all ok then eh?

Where drink is concerned maybe, but as people, no chance.

[Neeranam]

19 minutes ago, Dap said:

After 55 years of drinking and at 71+ (and never had a problem). I mean really, how concerned can one be??

Do you know what "Dap" means in Thai?

[Chongalulu]

23 hours ago, Neeranam said:

OK. There's also an "I'm too fat forum" why not go there and talk about eating cream pies. 

'eating cream pies'. Type in that search on a porn site and you may get a result you weren’t prepared for...oh ,might that be another addiction? Help! ... ???? 

[Chongalulu]

1 minute ago, Neeranam said:

Do you know what "Dap" means in Thai?

I hear that a lot when the lights suddenly go out...

[Neeranam]

1 minute ago, nchuckle said:

'eating cream pies'. Type in that search on a porn site and you may get a result you weren’t prepared for...oh ,might that be another addiction? Help! ... ???? 

Strangely, there is no help that I know of for sex addiction in Thailand, even Pattaya. I've always wondered why as many expats are in need of help. 

[Neeranam]

1 minute ago, nchuckle said:

I hear that a lot when the lights suddenly go out...

Right.'fai dap/dup' Maybe I should have written it as Dtab, slightly different, meaning 'liver'.

[Chongalulu]

3 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

Strangely, there is no help that I know of for sex addiction in Thailand, even Pattaya. I've always wondered why as many expats are in need of help. 

I think because they can get all the 'help' they might ever need! If they can afford it...

[seancbk]

On 5/15/2020 at 10:57 AM, Neeranam said:

Any "yes" answer indicates you may be at greater risk for alcoholism. More than one "yes" answer may indicate the presence of an alcohol-related problem or alcoholism, and the need for consultation with an alcoholism professional.

 

You only have to look at the fuss people on here make when they have to abstain for one day.   

When alcohol was banned for a week you'd have thought it was the end of the world.

 

[Neeranam]

4 minutes ago, nchuckle said:

I think because they can get all the 'help' they might ever need! If they can afford it...

That's not how it works.

 

It can cause Depression and Low Self-Esteem and moral conflicts. Many I know have a contradiction between their ethical values and their behavior. 

[Sujo]

19 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

That's not how it works.

 

It can cause Depression and Low Self-Esteem and moral conflicts. Many I know have a contradiction between their ethical values and their behavior. 

A few beers fixes that.

[Baht Simpson]

52 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

I am a real alcoholic and not in denial. I answered 'yes' to all the questions.

Neeranam, do you keep a record of your weekly alcohol units?

[Neeranam]

3 minutes ago, Baht Simpson said:

Neeranam, do you keep a record of your weekly alcohol units?

No, I don't drink. I am a recovered alcoholic.

[Baht Simpson]

Just now, Neeranam said:

No, I don't drink. I am a recovered alcoholic.

Oh, okay. Well done!

[wwest5829]

On 5/15/2020 at 12:26 PM, Oldie said:

You must be very worried that you are an alcoholic if you read this long question. Otherwise you would not care. 

Na, just retired and curious in my retirement while currently having my glass of red wine with lunch. Have to admit some affinity for #5 as the month long alcohol sales were drawing down my home supply. 555 One nice thing about being a, “soft touch”, a “weak sister” ... whatever ... I have always had a low tolerance for any type of “relaxant”. Back in the day, I told the girls, one drink and I am a friendly fellow, two glasses and I get amorous, three glasses and they were safe as I was getting sleepy. Hope it brought a smile to your reading.

[bergan]

Yes, I'm an alcoholic. I'm content with that, as it keeps my gambling habits at bay.

[luckyluke]

1 hour ago, possum1931 said:

It's good that you can sometimes be a drunk and never have a problem, but have you ever thought about the state your liver must be in?

No, I haven't see a doctor since one of my kidney was taken away (1975).

And lucky I didn't have to see one, well at least that's what I think. 

Inconveniences come and then go away with me. 

If I go to see a doctor now, pretty sure he will forbid me a lot of things, if not everything I like. 

In no way I will pretend that my approach of things is the only correct one. 

Each of us in particular has to decide what he thinks is best for him. 

It would be nice if some will abstain to tell others what they should do. 

Some are prepare to accept the consequences. 

Government and officers having the authority, can of course require you to do what they want. 

Also here, there are some preparing to take the consequences when not obeying. 

They are however not so many. 

[BritManToo]

9 minutes ago, bergan said:

Yes, I'm an alcoholic. I'm content with that, as it keeps my gambling habits at bay.

 ...... and whoring.

When I'm drunk I lose the urge to take a woman home.

[lee b]

No, but im not goong to lie, I can drink like a fish.

[BTB1977]

26 questions and if you answered yes to one of them you might have a problem. 5555. Seems very judgmental to me . 

[Dap]

1 hour ago, possum1931 said:

Where drink is concerned maybe, but as people, no chance.

Yeah, made me laugh, and thanks for that 

Edited May 16, 2020 by Dap

[Dap]

1 hour ago, Neeranam said:

Do you know what "Dap" means in Thai?

Oh No, After 25+ years, never learned, especially capitalized. Care to enlighten 

Edited May 16, 2020 by Dap

[Neeranam]

1 minute ago, Dap said:

Oh No, never heard, especially capitalized. Care to enlighten 

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[Dap]

Just now, Neeranam said:

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Just now, Neeranam said:

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I am absolutely indebted 

[seancbk]

1 hour ago, Neeranam said:

No, I don't drink. I am a recovered alcoholic.

 

Hope the recovery keeps progressing. 

I consider myself fortunate to have never been an alcoholic, although I was a big spender on alcohol. 

Recently I had a bit of an epiphany concerning how much money I had spent on alcohol and how much time and opportunities I had wasted as a result of hangovers.  So I decided to simply stop drinking. 

 

That was January 1st and I've not touched alcohol nor had any desire to since then.  

I can't get the time or money back but I sure as hell am not going to keep putting 100's of thousands of baht per year into some bar owners pockets again.

 

[Tchooptip]

2 hours ago, Neeranam said:

Do you know what "Dap" means in Thai?

Could mean dead, eliminate, extinguish.

[BobBKK]

On 5/15/2020 at 1:32 PM, Neeranam said:

Thanks for sharing.

 

Do you think you have a problem with the booze??

you seem very self-righteous why are you worried about others drinking?  live and let live brother

[swissman53]

5 hours ago, Neeranam said:

Alcoholics can't manage, or control their drinking. This is a definition of an alcoholic.

 

If you are indeed an alcoholic, can you describe an experience when you had delerium tremens? 

 

Yes i can. And it was the most horrible experience in my life. If I would describe it, some fools here would make jokes about it.

I was two week in IC and happy to be still alive after. That was 39years ago and sins then I didn't have to drink one drop of booze. I could not do this without AA and now I'm happy to help others if they want......