Do you have a gik?

[possum1931 11,409]

On 5/28/2020 at 10:27 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

Think about what might happen if she becomes your gik. And then you have a misunderstanding. She knows your girlfriend and she might use that in a way you don't like.

It's so easy to have sex in Thailand with someone who does not know the wife/gf. Which makes the situation so much easier.

I know what a gik is but what exactly does gik stand for?

[thaibeachlovers 28,518]

56 minutes ago, petermik said:

Some years ago in my early 40,s back in the UK I met a married lady in her mid 50,s...as I was newly divorced at the time and she made it quite plain her hubby was not interested in rumpy pumpy anymore I thought what the hell if I don`t someone else will....what a woman...an absolute "pocket rocket" who could not get enough,3 years of bliss for me and she taught me more than all the others put together.....god bless her 

Lucky you, but as I understand it she wasn't a GIK as you weren't with anyone else. IMO YOU were the GIK.

[BobBKK 7,848]

2 hours ago, kwak250 said:

Think your getting a lot more cheese pizza from all your sideliners .

Imagine it as a cheese dump from thousands of punters .

You missed the point these are not normal working girls they are sideliner's with jobs and careers many of them.

[OneMoreFarang 21,347]

1 hour ago, Nanaplaza666 said:

And now send us pictures of your own encounters not from massage parlor webpages 

I don't take pictures. What's the point of having evidence on your phone - and publishing it here?

[BobBKK 7,848]

2 hours ago, LukKrueng said:

If you pay per transaction I wouldn't call it a gik. 

Well, maybe, I don't want to pay per month as some do and it's academic if I pay per time or per month. One things for sure we ALL pay one way or another.

[OneMoreFarang 21,347]

18 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

I know what a gik is but what exactly does gik stand for?

As far as I remember there was at least one Thai movie about giks a couple of years ago. Since then that word is often used. I don't remember the name of the movie.

[hotandsticky 1,198]

20 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

I know what a gik is but what exactly does gik stand for?

 

 

3.   [noun]
definition	[colloq.] partner for casual sex; <deleted>-buddy

[wwest5829 3,035]

On 5/28/2020 at 10:08 AM, BobBKK said:

No money, no honey. She sees you as generous and wants to extrapolate that generosity. I have several gik's (or sideliners) and simply pay them for each entertainment. If you like her pay her, if you love your GF stay away. Personally I dont have GF's only sideliners - life's easier that way and I don't want Cheese Pizza every night.

I quite understand and I tried it for a time after I first arrived but, I speak only for me, I preferred to have one girl full-time. Ha! I suppose after a lifetime total of five long-term relationships one could observe my MO as serial monogamy.

[hotandsticky 1,198]

1 hour ago, Logosone said:

 

That was not moralising, just an observation.

 

That poor over the hill, economically desperate forty-five year old woman clearly has no economic options and in her desperation decided to offer services for cash to a 78 year old guy, who already admitted he's not a looker.

 

So it's very obvious you're just a walking dollar sign to this mature lady. You are mammon. I did not take any moral position on this whatsoever, whether it was wrong or right. I merely made an observation.

 

However, in terms of viability you could do worse than look at the experiences of Abraham, the first guy with a gik, and how well that worked out with his first lady.

 

In the end this is an obvious dilemma, if the gik is better than your current woman then you'll want the gik and will create untold problems with your current woman.  If the gik is worse than your current woman then there's not much point in the first place to even consider her. Either way you don't take the offer if you have any brains.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You clearly fail to understand the commercial relationship with most gik's.

 

 

Looks don't matter, age doesn't matter ........................... sex and money matters.

[holy cow cm 10,038]

15 hours ago, kenk24 said:

Never really got the 'don't s**t where you live' axiom... we all do and are often grateful for the quick availability of indoor plumbing... 

Sorry to hear that. 

[Logosone 5,845]

1 hour ago, RocketDog said:

Tip: if you don't want to be crtitcized as having a religious bias then don't bring religion into discussions where it's irrelevant. 

 

Worship of gods of any type is an invitation for doubt by others as there has never been any proof that any such fanciful beings exist. They exist only in your imagination so you do best by keeping them there when interacting with rational people. 

 

You are certainly entitled to your opinion but any attempt to buttress it with religious arguments is futile. 

I don't worship gods of any type and I'm not bringing religion where it's irrelevant.

 

Nor am I using religious arguments. 

 

Not everything in the bible is religious. There is plenty of poetry, philosophy and indeed relationship advice.

 

And when they tell you that you can't serve two masters, guess what, they're right. They're not making a religious point. They are making a philosophical point.

 

You can't pursue both material and spiritual well being. Here material would by physical, ie sexual, well-being. The OP can't pursue his sexual well being with the 45 year old gik, and yet hope to enjoy the spiritual comforts of his current relationship.

 

However, he can ruin the latter in pursuit of the former.

 

 

 

 

[Caldera 2,380]

I've always had several giks when in Thailand. I think that's pretty much the main draw, otherwise I would spend more time elsewhere.

[Logosone 5,845]

39 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

 

You clearly fail to understand the commercial relationship with most gik's.

 

 

Looks don't matter, age doesn't matter ........................... sex and money matters.

Yes, it does look like in the case of the OP, since he's considering a 45 year old woman, that looks don't matter, age doesn't matter, for some people.

 

That's not the point however. 

 

His current gf is also in her 40s. So if he were to really like the Gik, this could then jeopardise his current relationship fatally. 

[Jane Dough 3,339]

I used to spend a lot of time in meetings with a Gik. 

 

Khun Khru Gik at my school to be precise.

 

I was guest of honor at her wedding.

 

Rooster.

[taninthai 2,199]

22 hours ago, shy coconut said:

So what you are saying is that, no you don't have a gik, but a rotation of ladies

whose company you pay for.

Not even that ,,he has several prostitutes phone numbers that he can phone when the need arises,,,,,,I suppose it’s one way to save paying the barfine and lady drinks