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Handicapped foreigner conned out of ten million baht by sweet talking Thai woman

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1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

What can one even say? Many of us tend to use a great deal of discrimination when it comes to lending money to our close friends. Not sure how to even respond to the idea of lending money to someone you have never even met. Desperation knows no bounds. 

 

Do real men do something like this? I think a real man would call for patience. And face to face meetings. Get to know someone. Take your time. Get ahold of your anxiety. Let it unfold in a rather organic fashion. There is nothing natural about meeting anyone online, and you know virtually nothing about them, until you have spent some real time together. Months, even years. 

 

For some of us, who are not millennials, the whole concept of striking up a relationship online, then chatting and spending dozens or hundreds of hours getting to know someone online, and texting to death, without ever meeting them, just reeks of desperation, and isolation. The few times I ever engaged in online dating, my rule was two emails or chats, then a Skype type video call, then an actual meeting of 20 minutes for a cup of coffee. Lets see where it goes from there. You do not want to meet so quickly? OK. Find another pen pal please. Homey don't play that game.

 

The biggest part of the problem here, is the extreme emasculation that is taking place in the West. Most men, in the US, Europe, and Oz, are no longer real men, when it comes to dealing with their women. Their women have made their lives so difficult, and alot of women have gotten so far away from their innate femininity, and have become dominant, and super controlling, and men just go along with it. Most men have become so hungry for love, or emotionally desperate for some kindness, and TLC. And most are so desirous of being around a real woman, who knows how to act like a woman, and manifest the dignity, within femininity. So, it is easy for the con artists, like this worm Jariyaporn, to take advantage of emotionally wounded men, who seem to be willing to do anything to regain a semblance of normality in their lives, with a decent woman. 

 

When my friends ask, I tell them, always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better. If there are problems, they will reveal themselves over time. Take your time getting to know a woman here, or anywhere. Time is your ally. It is rarely their ally. They are usually trying to step up the timetable. We need to push back. We need to assert control. An environment like this allows us to do so. Take advantage of that. Be a man. Step up. Pay tribute to the gender. Refuse to lay down anymore. Refuse to be a doormat. Refuse to check your cajones at the door. Start making the decisions! I have so many friends, who come here, and from the very start, make the same mistakes they made back in the West. Except here, they do not need to make those mistakes. The environment does not dictate that they behave like lambs. Many do not know, or realize that, or they succumb to "force of habit". Every ship needs a captain. If the man is not willing to be the captain of the ship, the woman will take over, here in Thailand. Most women here seem to want a strong man. But, if they end up with a wimp, they will take if she is a big baby, who only looks like a real woman, but in reality is a 13 year old, or if she is a con artist, if she is only in it for the money, those realizations will manifest themselves over time. Time allows clarity. Never, ever move too quickly. That is the undoing of most of these guys. Man up. Do yourself proud. 

 

 

All good advice ... However I am curious as to what you mean by this :

 

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Real men ? Implying that he is not a 'real man' but what ?

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4 minutes ago, Bob A Kneale said:

No double standards.  They need to be arrested and charged first, just as happens with the Nigerians.

Sorry, my mistake. The RTP are squeaky clean and corruption free!

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11 minutes ago, PatOngo said:
17 minutes ago, Bob A Kneale said:

No double standards.  They need to be arrested and charged first, just as happens with the Nigerians.

Sorry, my mistake. The RTP are squeaky clean and corruption free!

I didn't suggest that they were.  I did suggest that the RTP do not do what you claimed ("Where is the vinyl board and the six Thai cops for the photo op or is that only for Nigerians??? Very sad double standards!") without arresting and charging those involved first. 

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6 minutes ago, rvaviator said:

All good advice ... However I am curious as to what you mean by this :

 

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Real men ? Implying that he is not a 'real man' but what ?

Yes. I am implying a "real man" has self esteem, is able to recognize his emotional vulnerability and proceed with caution, and is capable of pushing back against an artificially stepped up timetable. Essentially, he is able to say NO! We are doing this my way or not at all. He realizes just how many choices he has, and behaves accordingly. He is always ready to show her the door or walk away, and is ready and willing to verbalize that.  That is real power. 

 

He does everything in his power to take his time to get to know a gal, and avoids deep feelings until they are deserved and warranted. That could mean spending months and years with her and not chatting incessantly online and assuming " he now knows her". 

 

Otherwise he is a weak sort of half man, half boy. It is all about self esteem and a realization that some women just do not warrant the attention and devotion. It takes time to figure out exactly who she is, what she is made of, whether or not she has a really good family, whether or not she is sincere and not a con, etc. We owe it to ourselves to follow a judicious, conscious, and thoughtful path in life. Right?

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And only a desperate man who is not only physically handicapped but also mentally handicapped for a situation that we do not know and that we cannot judge, but the human scum is to be condemned, who cleansed him of any financial resources that he needs to take care of himself.

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Amy sounds about par for the course..

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2 hours ago, thequietman said:

That is exactly right.

 

I am not proud to say, but I did the same with wifey. Told her that I had no more money and I needed to go home. Immediately, she asked for a waffle machine, 1200 baht, and then proceeded to do the markets. Told me to stay, and she would take care of us.

 

It was at that moment, that I knew I had gotten a good one, and to this day, she tries to save us money every time, and will always opt for the cheaper option. I love her for it, but have learnt by now, that spending a little more, gets you better quality products.

 

Wouldn't change her for the world. 🙂

Ever heard of  the long con?

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People should pass an IQ test (and an EQ test) to be issued a passport. 

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He never read Private Dancer.

Now it's time for a hitman to hire. Such a bitch

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25 minutes ago, condobrit001 said:

Ever heard of  the long con?

17 years together now - now that really is a long con, if that's her plan. 🙂

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38 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Yes. I am implying a "real man" has self esteem, is able to recognize his emotional vulnerability and proceed with caution, and is capable of pushing back against an artificially stepped up timetable. Essentially, he is able to say NO! We are doing this my way or not at all. He realizes just how many choices he has, and behaves accordingly. He is always ready to show her the door or walk away, and is ready and willing to verbalize that.  That is real power. 

 

He does everything in his power to take his time to get to know a gal, and avoids deep feelings until they are deserved and warranted. That could mean spending months and years with her and not chatting incessantly online and assuming " he now knows her". 

 

Otherwise he is a weak sort of half man, half boy. It is all about self esteem and a realization that some women just do not warrant the attention and devotion. It takes time to figure out exactly who she is, what she is made of, whether or not she has a really good family, whether or not she is sincere and not a con, etc. We owe it to ourselves to follow a judicious, conscious, and thoughtful path in life. Right?

Ok he has to learn to say no, on that we are agreed

 

He then has to learn when it is wise not to say no, and prudent to say 'maybe later'

 

If he is not smart enough to evaluate the needs of a potential partner, along with his own, then failure is surely a major possibility

 

'Man up' be 'forceful' 'take control' 'captain the ship' may sound like good advice, but if you captain a row boat, and have not removed the expectation of a yacht, disappointment is most probably on the way

 

There are lessons one can learn regarding Thai 'love' but I am not convinced 'manning up' 'pushing back' and saying 'no' do anything more than scratch the surface, and could be aggravating, when looking towards a deep relationship that must surely be based on mutual trust, commitment, the ability to put your lady first on occasion, acceptance that the Thai ways are different and being able to adapt, finding common ground and aims, inspiring confidence, and above all mutual respect.

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Why do Western European handicapped people always have tons of cash? Our welfare systems sure are generous.

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