Popular Post AlfHuy Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 Hi guys, Is it just me or do you have the same issues? Girlfriend is not able to have a meaningful discussion. Concentration seems to last only 15 min. Trying to explain something is useless. She is extremely short tempered, shouts extremely loud and quite aggressive. I never came across something like this during my relationships with non Asians. Hitting etc.... never seen something like that before. Once the anger has gone, she is lovely again. I don't know if I take this any longer. I told her. Now you behave a bit. I am the breadwinner. I put the money on the table. Or you behave like an adult or you walk. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Oldie Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 If the concentration lasts 15 minutes you have achieved a lot. Normally they don't listen at all. 7 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mavideol Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 (edited) menopause approaching= unbalanced hormones, also known as PMS 555 Edited August 13, 2020 by Mavideol 5 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaLa Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 6 minutes ago, Oldie said: If the concentration lasts 15 minutes you have achieved a lot. Normally they don't listen at all. I think she sounds ok. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlfHuy Posted August 13, 2020 Author Share Posted August 13, 2020 1 minute ago, Mavideol said: menopause approaching= unbalanced hormones ??? 38 and menopause. I had my back in Europe, always changing my cars 555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swiss1960 Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 Good that you told her, so she knows that she has to finish the next argument with a knife to your back or belly... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kingofthemountain Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 12 minutes ago, AlfHuy said: Hi guys, Is it just me or do you have the same issues? Girlfriend is not able to have a meaningful discussion. Concentration seems to last only 15 min. Trying to explain something is useless. She is extremely short tempered, shouts extremely loud and quite aggressive. I never came across something like this during my relationships with non Asians. Hitting etc.... never seen something like that before. Once the anger has gone, she is lovely again. I don't know if I take this any longer. I told her. Now you behave a bit. I am the breadwinner. I put the money on the table. Or you behave like an adult or you walk. Hi no, it's not just you, most have (Or had) the same issues they act like this because they can, with a thai man usualy they are quiet or it's end with a big slap on the face for her (Or worse) i don't recomand to hit the girlfriend (Or any girl) but you need to be very strong and showing at every moment who is the boss, and don;t allow any lack of respect in any way from her. In your case it's too late, the only option is to change the girlfriend they never accept to change back, and the oral threats don't work only the acts counts here, then dump her nowm anyway it should become worse and worse with the time. then the sooner the better Goodluck 7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post petermik Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 Show her the door next time OR you walk away...why make one woman miserable when there are so many you could make happy.... 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 4reaL Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 Low IQ ? common 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post holy cow cm Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 Probably not going to get better with that type of personality. I take it she is from Issan? Find someone you can relate to more easily. Lots of them out there. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post AlfHuy Posted August 13, 2020 Author Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 1 minute ago, holy cow cm said: Probably not going to get better with that type of personality. I take it she is from Issan? Find someone you can relate to more easily. Lots of them out there. Indeed. She is quite smart but extremely jealous and aggressive. I told her, she can be lucky that I have an education and that I was taught not to hit a child or woman. Other men just would knock her down with one hit. She just doesn't care. When she has her 5 minutes, she grabs whatever is close. She knows that farang don't touch Thai women and that Police would never believe a story from a farang man, re domestic abuse. I also mentioned that she would think twice, doing that to a Thai man. I gave her the last warning. Next act like this and I help her doing her luggage and escorting her to the lobby. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post orchis Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 1 minute ago, AlfHuy said: I help her doing her luggage and escorting her to the lobby. this. now. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ezzra Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 try this.. fan yourself with a bunch of 1000 baht banknotes while trying to explain her things and see how's the temper will be than.. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Curt1591 Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 40 minutes ago, AlfHuy said: I told her. Now you behave a bit. I am the breadwinner. I put the money on the table. Or you behave like an adult or you walk Isn't love wonderful ... 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ratcatcher Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 11 minutes ago, holy cow cm said: Probably not going to get better with that type of personality. I take it she is from Issan? Find someone you can relate to more easily. Lots of them out there. Why do you take it she's from Isaan? There's an article in today's forum about a woman driving a Mercedes who drove into people and crashed her car. A former millionaire. Perhaps you were inferring she was a previous resident of Pattaya's entertainment circle? Thai women everywhere are capable of spitting the dummy and throwing their toys out of the pram if they don't get their way. 10 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post richard_smith237 Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 You are dating a child. Choose someone of similar socio-economic-educational status and of similar age.. life becomes much easier rather than trying to educate an emotionally immature juvenile. Or, if you are 60years old and want to date a 25 year old you’ll have to accept it comes at a price, financially and behaviourally. 9 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Matzzon Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 She sounds like the general population. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Saltire Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 A lesson I learned the hard way from my first (non-Thai) wife - don't stay with the wrong person a day longer than neccessary. Don't hesitate to get out of a relationship that is doomed to failure. Pursue happiness. Good luck. 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
holy cow cm Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 13 minutes ago, ratcatcher said: Why do you take it she's from Isaan? There's an article in today's forum about a woman driving a Mercedes who drove into people and crashed her car. A former millionaire. Perhaps you were inferring she was a previous resident of Pattaya's entertainment circle? Thai women everywhere are capable of spitting the dummy and throwing their toys out of the pram if they don't get their way. It is more prevalent in Issan gals. My first Thai wife almost 30 years ago had this same tendency as well as her sisters and friends did too. Yes I am well aware of the Thai woman who went a bit berserk. Saw it on the news yesterday. Did not read it here on TV until today. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 Just now, Matzzon said: She sounds like the general population. We have an expert on the topic........ 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Orton Rd Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 My mrs does not have a short fuse, there is not one at all. Trying to reason with many Thai woman is hopeless, they do not respond to logic or reason and often take a disagreement with what they think as an 'attack' on them. I have often said a Thai man would not put up with this nonsense more than a week, tends to shut her up as it's true. Put up with it or leave her, you won't change them. 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oldie Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 7 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said: You are dating a child. Choose someone of similar socio-economic-educational status and of similar age.. life becomes much easier rather than trying to educate an emotionally immature juvenile. Or, if you are 60years old and want to date a 25 year old you’ll have to accept it comes at a price, financially and behaviourally. This is part of the problem. If they meet their friends they can't stop talking. But at your age you are more like her father or even worse. I had a relationship with a Thai about 25 years younger than me. It lasted 10 years and now 10 years later we are still very good friends. Perhaps better than before. It was not always easy. Not for me and for sure not for her too. But you have to accept that she is much younger and has different ideas and does not want to listen to your wisdom. She has to make her own experience. And she might stay with you because she enjoys to have your support. But you might not be the partner of her dreams. And even worse. Whenever you are with her outside others might think that she is a hooker. But she never ever had anything to do with bars or the nightlife or special massage or something similar. She has a university degree and is not a girl from the rice fields without much education. She is simply much younger than me. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatOngo Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 Just tell her, money talks, BS walks and remind her....you've got the money! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlfHuy Posted August 13, 2020 Author Share Posted August 13, 2020 3 minutes ago, Oldie said: This is part of the problem. If they meet their friends they can't stop talking. But at your age you are more like her father or even worse. I had a relationship with a Thai about 25 years younger than me. It lasted 10 years and now 10 years later we are still very good friends. Perhaps better than before. It was not always easy. Not for me and for sure not for her too. But you have to accept that she is much younger and has different ideas and does not want to listen to your wisdom. She has to make her own experience. And she might stay with you because she enjoys to have your support. But you might not be the partner of her dreams. And even worse. Whenever you are with her outside others might think that she is a hooker. But she never ever had anything to do with bars or the nightlife or special massage or something similar. She has a university degree and is not a girl from the rice fields without much education. She is simply much younger than me. I'm 55. Not so much a difference but still 17 years. What disturbs me the most is the aggresivity. Never seen something like that before. On top, she is extremely jealous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 1 hour ago, Oldie said: If the concentration lasts 15 minutes you have achieved a lot. Normally they don't listen at all. Don't know where you pick up these girls. I know loads who do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 Sounds like a mental disorder. Get her evaluated and some meds. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 2 minutes ago, AlfHuy said: I'm 55. Not so much a difference but still 17 years. What disturbs me the most is the aggresivity. Never seen something like that before. On top, she is extremely jealous. On top jealousy, wow, that must be interesting. ????..................???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post PatOngo Posted August 13, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted August 13, 2020 6 minutes ago, AlfHuy said: I'm 55. Not so much a difference but still 17 years. What disturbs me the most is the aggresivity. Never seen something like that before. On top, she is extremely jealous. There are so many eligible females in Thailand, you don't need to waste your time and money on fools! Shop around! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatOngo Posted August 13, 2020 Share Posted August 13, 2020 5 minutes ago, bkk6060 said: Get her evaluated and some meds. Just get rid of her! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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