FritsSikkink Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 She is getting 3000, around 100 THB per day to do this. Let her decide and keep out of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seeall Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 On 10/7/2020 at 9:06 PM, saakura said: Yes, i agree, this could be because of the difference between thai and western man thinking. She is an adult, let her sort it out unless she asks for your opinion or help. Perhaps, but as we know it does effect him... and as a couple one would think its normal to work together? one needs be carefull of the thinking that no matter what she does and not get no problem, he can make up for it with all his Farang wealth... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingofthemountain Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 1 hour ago, Seeall said: ... and as a couple one would think its normal to work together? There are not a couple yet at the moment it's just a virtual longdistance sort of relationship nothing really ''normal'' in this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seeall Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 9 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said: There are not a couple yet at the moment it's just a virtual longdistance sort of relationship nothing really ''normal'' in this couple, shaggers, long distace western union relationship whatever.. the point is that he can payup whatever is needed.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teacherclaire Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 On 10/9/2020 at 7:16 AM, tonray said: Then get her some handgun training I'd choose an M 16 for the start. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teacherclaire Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 9 minutes ago, Seeall said: couple, shaggers, long distace western union relationship whatever.. the point is that he can payup whatever is needed.. Not when he's living in a movable house. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post teacherclaire Posted October 10, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted October 10, 2020 18 hours ago, namatjira said: for a Thai person, work is also often their social life... Many enjoy it, they go there to be with their workmates / friends and have this huge support network.........it’s not all about work for money type thinking, that you obviously have. i can clearly understand from your discourse that you have no idea Of Thai culture.....stay out of it.......if you think she’s not earning enough supplement that with an extra hundred baht a day that will make her happy.......you’re so rich what the hell...... If he would be rich, this thread would not exist. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
salsajapan Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 On 10/9/2020 at 4:29 PM, MarkyM3 said: OP definitely comes across as a bit of a control freak. That is not healthy for a relationship, unless you want a partner who is submissive and isn't an equal. I suspect that's really what it's about. No partner will ever be equal, are you crazy ? Some of us have balls ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingofthemountain Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 2 hours ago, salsajapan said: No partner will ever be equal, are you crazy ? Some of us have balls ! It's not about equality, an impossible target since (Fortunately) everyone is different it's more about mutual respect and that has nothing to do with having balls or not 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nout Posted October 10, 2020 Share Posted October 10, 2020 Motor bikes are very safe. I've been using them for 30 years. The drivers are skilled, professional and experienced. The she ditches this laser the better. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
salsajapan Posted October 11, 2020 Share Posted October 11, 2020 15 hours ago, kingofthemountain said: It's not about equality, an impossible target since (Fortunately) everyone is different it's more about mutual respect and that has nothing to do with having balls or not I never had and will never have respect for any woman, and I am proud of it. They are just tools, juste like doctors and immigration officers, just different use. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravip Posted October 11, 2020 Share Posted October 11, 2020 21 minutes ago, salsajapan said: I never had and will never have respect for any woman, and I am proud of it. They are just tools, juste like doctors and immigration officers, just different use. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spidermike007 Posted October 11, 2020 Share Posted October 11, 2020 If she is not in agreement with you, end of story. It is her life too. If she does not like the new arrangement, but is simply too timid to say anything, that is different. Many Thais live in tiny boxes of convention and under the highly oppressive yoke of caring so much about what others think, and the resulting perception of a loss of face. I consider that to be a stunning personal and societal weakness. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted October 11, 2020 Share Posted October 11, 2020 On 10/7/2020 at 10:05 PM, Elkski said: Yes, I feel it would be worth 3,000 baht from me so she has 30 extra hours each month to exercise, study English and eat healthy food. But i also wanted to help prepare her for the real World in America if and when we get our K1 visa. Thai people need to learn to "stand up and take their share!" Tracy chapman "The real world in America" what a laugh. There you can get fired for no reason. You need to learn the value a person is bringing to a company. Asking for a monthly minimum wage raise to open the door will get you nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingofthemountain Posted October 11, 2020 Share Posted October 11, 2020 (edited) 2 hours ago, salsajapan said: I never had and will never have respect for any woman, and I am proud of it. They are just tools, juste like doctors and immigration officers, just different use. I don't want to be too personnal but I am pretty sure your mom would not agree with your statement it's a bit sad to see that after 3000 years of supposed evolution some people are still grasping a cave age mentality Edited October 11, 2020 by kingofthemountain 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
josephbloggs Posted October 11, 2020 Share Posted October 11, 2020 43 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said: I don't want to be too personnal but I am pretty sure your mom would not agree with your statement it's a bit sad to see that after 3000 years of supposed evolution some people are still grasping a cave age mentality And rather than just keeping that to himself he is "proud of it".... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jomtienisgood Posted October 13, 2020 Share Posted October 13, 2020 On 10/7/2020 at 10:05 PM, Elkski said: Yes, I feel it would be worth 3,000 baht from me so she has 30 extra hours each month to exercise, study English and eat healthy food. But i also wanted to help prepare her for the real World in America if and when we get our K1 visa. Thai people need to learn to "stand up and take their share!" Tracy chapman Is America the real world?????? What a joke.... Tracy Chapman was saying this about America... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
putochingon Posted October 14, 2020 Share Posted October 14, 2020 By the way, Utah is a nice place. I've met many missionaries though I've lost faith in that stuff. But I hope you won't lose faith on her. Talk to her, let her decide herself. Goodluck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hellohello123 Posted October 18, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted October 18, 2020 Next post by op "My thai gf demanded a payrise and boss let her go from her 20yr job, is there a lawyer or a work rights group, that can get her job back and $1m in compensation?" 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellohello123 Posted October 18, 2020 Share Posted October 18, 2020 On 10/9/2020 at 3:27 AM, kingofthemountain said: Can i ask you how old are you? You don't seem to have a lot of experience of the life or a deep thinking about complex problems OP is 60, and gf is her 40s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maestro Posted October 18, 2020 Share Posted October 18, 2020 This topic of a foreigner (non-Thai male) frequently and currently living outside Thailand regaling us with his story about his inability to control the behaviour of his friend (Thai female) living in Thailand towards her superior in the company where she works seems to have run its course, but because of its entertainment value I am moving it from the forum "General topics" to the forum "Farang Pub" 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Most Thais don't want to leave Thailand especially if they were going to move to boonies USA. If it ain't NY or San Francisco she's gonna be back in a year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharktooth Posted October 22, 2020 Share Posted October 22, 2020 How much of her working day does she spend fannying about on her phone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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