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2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

+ all legit expenses.

She gets a nice house to live in, car and m/c to drive, children to love her.

And no longer lives the life of an alcoholic 'tweaker' working in a bar.

Her family are over the moon that she now has the facade of a legit housewife.

Even if her 'husband' is an elderly foreigner.

You are all heart 🙂

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So glad he's keeping it classy....

But does she give Head Ache as good as a real deal wife  

10k a month is the usual price for a live-in pretend wife/gf in her 30s. That's what I pay mine. More if you want younger.

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

...... and she can still play with her phone if she wants.

Show her how much you love her, buy her a 'fast charger'!!!

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2 hours ago, sidjameson said:

I think your friend is playing a slight of hand on himself.

If you see women, sex, money and love as a Venn diagram along a spectrum hahaha then paying the bar every night no matter how you slice it, he is a punter and she a sex worker.. If you start from the other end of that spectrum; the wife who shares a life and bank account with her husband then giving an ex bargirl a housekeeping budget that includes money for her can feel like something far closer to a "normal" relationship.

Of course it's delusional on his part, he is paying for company that would never look twice at him if there wasnt financial compensation. But we all get thru life with a few fantasies replacing the harder to swallow reality don't we.

 

Thank you, that is a good explanation.

venn-diagram.jpg

 

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21 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Now he is looking for another girl. He has already one girl in mind. She told him something like: Pay my bar and I will visit you.

But he doesn't want to do that.

He wants a monthly contract with her. He does not want to be one of those guys who pay girls for an hour or a night.

He doesn't get to make the rules.

She will be considering that if it doesn't work out she will want to return to the bar.

He needs to try for a week at daily rates first- sometimes familiarity lets them think they can stop trying. If he wants to make it longer term he'll have to pay to take her out of the bar long time. IMO forget about "contracts". He can't make her do what he wants or stay longer than she wants to. His only option is to ask her to leave if it doesn't work out.

Anyway, still use a condom or risk a pregnancy.

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14 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I'm not sure single women have that happy a life.

No matter how strong or independent they are.

...... and she can still play with her phone if she wants.

Women can survive being solo better than men. They also get better solo sex as it lasts longer than 30 seconds.

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15 hours ago, sidjameson said:

I think your friend is playing a slight of hand on himself.

If you see women, sex, money and love as a Venn diagram along a spectrum hahaha then paying the bar every night no matter how you slice it, he is a punter and she a sex worker.. If you start from the other end of that spectrum; the wife who shares a life and bank account with her husband then giving an ex bargirl a housekeeping budget that includes money for her can feel like something far closer to a "normal" relationship.

Of course it's delusional on his part, he is paying for company that would never look twice at him if there wasnt financial compensation. But we all get thru life with a few fantasies replacing the harder to swallow reality don't we.

 

I was never delusional about it, but the sex was better than with the western woman I loved before.

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17 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

For me it also doesn't make sense.

The amount of money for the bar is not the issue for him. It's the principle. 

He is willing to pay a lot - but only for a monthly (and longer) contract.

I don't see a problem to rent for a day or a week before doing the same for a month. But for him that seems to be a big difference. 

If he can't accept the rules, than he's going to be frustrated. She's no fool.

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The 10k might seem a low amount but if she is living with you long term there are many more expenses. Food, clothes, drink, make up, medical, holidays, phones, motorbikes (maybe) etc etc. These amount to much more than 10k. My arrangement is that i pay her no "salary" at all but pay all these other expenses, as you would for a real wife/gf.

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10 minutes ago, Henryford said:

My arrangement is that i pay her no "salary" at all but pay all these other expenses, as you would for a real wife/gf.

You've had a 'live-in' wife/gf that didn't expect spending money as part of the deal?

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15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Yes, I always found it odd that the sex I paid for was always better than the sex I was given for love.

Did you forget a word?

Yes, I always found it odd that the sex I paid for was always better than the sex I was WITHHELD for love.

Makes it less odd 😛

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