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2 hours ago, Henryford said:

The 10k might seem a low amount but if she is living with you long term there are many more expenses. Food, clothes, drink, make up, medical, holidays, phones, motorbikes (maybe) etc etc. These amount to much more than 10k. My arrangement is that i pay her no "salary" at all but pay all these other expenses, as you would for a real wife/gf.

I did the same when I met my gf. But at that time I was still relative young. Now, many years later, I am older and she is older and we are still together and I pay "only" the cost of life.

But I am pretty sure if I would be single again and if I would look again for a pretty young gf then likely my charm won't be enough to convince her to stay with me. But I think that is fair and not uncommon around the world. Only in Thailand that company is a lot cheaper then in many other countries.

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So glad he's keeping it classy....

But does she give Head Ache as good as a real deal wife  

10k a month is the usual price for a live-in pretend wife/gf in her 30s. That's what I pay mine. More if you want younger.

7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I did the same when I met my gf. But at that time I was still relative young. Now, many years later, I am older and she is older and we are still together and I pay "only" the cost of life.

 

I was quite curious if, or when, these agreements morphed into a traditional relationship.

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5 minutes ago, Dart12 said:

I was quite curious if, or when, these agreements morphed into a traditional relationship.

Is there a real difference?

If money would be the main part then there wouldn't be so many dramas when the relationship, or should I say business deal, ends. And there wouldn't be any drama if the guy who pays also decides to pay somewhere else for an hour or two.

It seem there are many dramas, just like so called normal relationships.

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I don't paint the picture bad or good.  Whatever makes people happy.  And if both parties are happy....well thats a huge success. 

I'm just fascinated by an outside the box arrangement by western standards.

I would expect though at at like 2 years or so feelings happen and it becomes more traditional if still in agreement, or leads towards marriage and kids?

 

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Also sounds much simpler to begin these types of 'arranged relationships' than the tedious game back in the states.

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13 minutes ago, Dart12 said:

Also sounds much simpler to begin these types of 'arranged relationships' than the tedious game back in the states.

Many of these girlfriends will have secret Thai boyfriends, well that's what the girls tell me

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15 minutes ago, Dart12 said:

Also sounds much simpler to begin these types of 'arranged relationships' than the tedious game back in the states.

"I want you, let's go."

Yes, I like the simplicity.

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On 10/19/2020 at 11:02 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

In this specific case the guy has more than enough money. He wants a pretty young (and legal) girl who takes care of him and makes him happy. It almost doesn't matter how much she charges for her company.

He is happy with bargirls. But he does not want to pay per day. He wants a friend who he pays per month?!

maybe someone has already asked......... but i don't understand.     By the month means she is a live in ?   that would be my interpretation.      More than a few guys have various arrangements where they live with someone and pay a "salary".

From what i understand 10k is a pretty good deal , but then BM2 is a hansum old man.   Or, lets say the more "charm" and better

appearance (withstanding age) and language skills one has.... the better the prospects .

sorry, off base a bit... but again,  he wants a "full time" ?   not too many want that as they like their freedom, ya know

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22 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

BF seem pretty inexpensive to me strange he has an issue with it.

You can usually buy a girl out of a bar for a month or any extended period.  

Most will give a reduced price for longer periods.  My friend in Pattaya recently took a girl for a month just to see if she was the girl for him.  She was not but at least he found out rather then making an even longer commitment.

 

Buying the girl out of the bar is a scam. No such thing. She can stop working anytime she likes for free.

 

The deal is not clear, is she expected to be available 24/7 or just hang out when she is not working? It all seems weird to me.

 

There are plenty of more suitable candidates outside of the bar industry, that would actually care about him.

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1 hour ago, blackcab said:

Having a permanent live in girlfriend can be rationalised as a 'normal' relationship. The money he gives her each month could be viewed as a similar type of deal that his parents might have had; the man gives the woman money to keep the house, etc.

My misses Thai brother hands his entire wage packet over to his Thai wife (unopened) every month.

If he's been a good boy, she will open it and give him 500bht.

Nobody ever questions their relationship.

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41 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Many of these girlfriends will have secret Thai boyfriends, well that's what the girls tell me

It's never worried me.

As long as she's home by dark, and there to get my kid ready for school and drop him off in the morning, I'm not bothered where she is or what she's doing in the day. In fact it's nice to have my house to myself most of the day.

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The girls are keeping the safety net of the bar, friends, who may well have helped them when times were tough, and from others experience no doubt expect to be discarded

 

If the guy cannot accept bar girls will at least for a while maintain links to what they know, he is not very bright. why would 'rentals' not keep an escape route open by have the guy pay a small amount to the bar. Which in turn may well assist in keeping their friends in employment.

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59 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Many of these girlfriends will have secret Thai boyfriends, well that's what the girls tell me

Even corporate slaves get time outside work to have fun, part of life, trick is to move past the employer/employee status, not everybody has the skills and ability required to achieve that 😃

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