Popular Post shootrrdave Posted November 10, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted November 10, 2020 So I've finally gotten back over here from America and through the quarantine process. Last visit was January. My daughter is 15 months now. During all this time it seems like half the village has helped take care of her. I would like to show my appreciation. What would be something I could buy a bunch of and walk around handing out to the (mostly older) ladies and a few of the men. Should I get something different for ladies vs men? I would also appreciate advice for something more significant for my mother-in-law. She has really stepped up and helped out the most (wife works full time). Thanks in advance for any input. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted November 10, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted November 10, 2020 How about a party? Get lots of seafood and other favorites. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishtank Posted November 10, 2020 Share Posted November 10, 2020 Whisky is all they seem to appreciate apart from money. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 1FinickyOne Posted November 11, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted November 11, 2020 The above suggestions are spot on - - food and whiskey always work here... I know my family loves a Suki/BBQ - let your wife and mother inl aw take charge and you finance it... Good for you to show appreciation - - very kind and it will not be forgotten... 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootrrdave Posted November 11, 2020 Author Share Posted November 11, 2020 Food I'm good with but my wife is strongly against alcohol. ???? Might wait a week or so. Had a huge wedding in our front yard/common area this last weekend. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 1 hour ago, shootrrdave said: Food I'm good with but my wife is strongly against alcohol. ???? Might wait a week or so. Had a huge wedding in our front yard/common area this last weekend. I never buy alcohol either... I am not a drinker and the family has occasional beer which they can buy themselves... sure, wait a bit... was it your wedding? That might be enough... or how about an outing somewhere if not too many of them... a hot spring or beach or whatever is nearby... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 6 hours ago, shootrrdave said: Food I'm good with but my wife is strongly against alcohol. ???? Might wait a week or so. Had a huge wedding in our front yard/common area this last weekend. You could organize a party in a local restaurant, sit a the head of the table that'll signal your footing the bill and will help with your local economy too, earning you more brownie points in your local community. If people want to drink then they can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunPer Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 Why don't you ask your wife, she must know both Thai traditions, habits and the villagers that helped. I always ask my Thai girlfriend's advice about things like that. Apart from asking your wife, the best gifts in Thailand, next after selected foods like Durian, or a basket with selected items – your wife will know what should be in – are gold and money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootrrdave Posted November 12, 2020 Author Share Posted November 12, 2020 21 hours ago, kenk24 said: I never buy alcohol either... I am not a drinker and the family has occasional beer which they can buy themselves... sure, wait a bit... was it your wedding? That might be enough... or how about an outing somewhere if not too many of them... a hot spring or beach or whatever is nearby... Not my wedding and there are too many for an outing even if I knew somewhere nice to go. Our exciting days are the hour drive into Roi Et...555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootrrdave Posted November 12, 2020 Author Share Posted November 12, 2020 16 hours ago, brianthainess said: You could organize a party in a local restaurant, sit a the head of the table that'll signal your footing the bill and will help with your local economy too, earning you more brownie points in your local community. If people want to drink then they can. No restaurants in the little village. Maybe somewhere in At Samat (10km) but logistics would be difficult. Probably around 20 people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootrrdave Posted November 12, 2020 Author Share Posted November 12, 2020 (edited) 16 hours ago, khunPer said: Why don't you ask your wife, she must know both Thai traditions, habits and the villagers that helped. I always ask my Thai girlfriend's advice about things like that. Apart from asking your wife, the best gifts in Thailand, next after selected foods like Durian, or a basket with selected items – your wife will know what should be in – are gold and money. Wife gave me the classic "up to you". ???? Edited November 12, 2020 by shootrrdave Brain fart. Didn't write anything. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted November 12, 2020 Share Posted November 12, 2020 On 11/10/2020 at 5:49 PM, OneMoreFarang said: How about a party? Get lots of seafood and other favorites. Plus give each person cash in an envelope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted November 12, 2020 Share Posted November 12, 2020 1 hour ago, scorecard said: Plus give each person cash in an envelope. The problem with that is obviously: How much? And all the same of different amounts for several reasons? And then there are probably some people who think "why not more?" or why does he get this and I get that. All possible trouble spots. Personally I would avoid cash because of above reasons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColeBOzbourne Posted November 12, 2020 Share Posted November 12, 2020 5 hours ago, shootrrdave said: Wife gave me the classic "up to you". I get that occasionally as well. I generally follow up with, "I know, but I'm asking because I would like your opinion too". And with that I usually get a pretty thoughtful reply. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trujillo Posted November 12, 2020 Share Posted November 12, 2020 (edited) An large assortment of magnifying eyeglasses. Edited November 12, 2020 by Trujillo Really, I'm not kidding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootrrdave Posted November 12, 2020 Author Share Posted November 12, 2020 4 hours ago, ColeBOzbourne said: I get that occasionally as well. I generally follow up with, "I know, but I'm asking because I would like your opinion too". And with that I usually get a pretty thoughtful reply. I think in this case it's that she doesn't feel it's necessary to do anything more than verbally thank everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootrrdave Posted November 12, 2020 Author Share Posted November 12, 2020 3 hours ago, Trujillo said: An large assortment of magnifying eyeglasses. I can understand your reasoning. Most of these folks are older. I've been trying to come up with something useful (rather than cash with its possible issues) and the best I've thought of is rechargeable flashlights. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColeBOzbourne Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 15 hours ago, shootrrdave said: I think in this case it's that she doesn't feel it's necessary to do anything more than verbally thank everyone. I was thinking the same thing and, if that is the case, I think she is probably right. Tell everyone thanks and how much it's appreciated. Then if they are ever in need of help, be sure to reciprocate. That's what good neighbors are for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootrrdave Posted November 13, 2020 Author Share Posted November 13, 2020 2 hours ago, ColeBOzbourne said: I was thinking the same thing and, if that is the case, I think she is probably right. Tell everyone thanks and how much it's appreciated. Then if they are ever in need of help, be sure to reciprocate. That's what good neighbors are for. I think you (and my wife of course) are probably right and I will certainly make my gratitude known but I think I will also buy a big bbq dinner for everyone that we can eat at the house. Did it last time I was here and everyone seemed happy. Thanks everyone for your input. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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