Story of an ex monger

[lovethai123]

 

A friend of mine shared this with me. Over 2 decades ago he used to visit Thailand often for "business".  Like most of us he also had a girl to stay with him during his visits. He was happily married back home. Things happened and he stopped visiting.

 

He had a chance to visit this wonderful country  sometime in 2019 or so. Thailand had changed but he had some good memories. He was into some real james bond stuff and found out that the girl he used to sleep with has a daughter who looked mixed race and worked as a "chiropractor". 

 

So our James bond tracked her down, and saw her wearing revealing outfits and calling men for a "nice chiropractic session" on a hourly basis with extra services. 

 

His words to me-  She has my eyes, nose and skin color. I am 100% sure she is my daughter as this girl was born about 8 months after I left 2 decades ago. 

 

I am thinking are these "Thailand Business trips" really worth it. After 20 years you come to know that you may have fathered a child, and she is working the same job as her mom. You have no courage to meet either the mom or the child.

 

That ex-girlfriend of yours is  living with some 80 year old man and the possible daughter of yours is providing "chiropractic services" in some shady soi. You cannot tell your children that they have a half sister in Thailand. You  cannot tell your wife about this due to fear of divorce and loosing everything you built. You want to support the girl secretly, want her to attend a University in Bangkok but find out she didn't even complete school. 

 

Last you want her to hug you and call you Dad. But when you approached her the first time, she asked if you needed a "chiropractic session with toppings".

 

It's a lot for a 50 year old man to bear. 

 

 

Edited January 19, 2021 by lovethai123

[EricTh]

Sounds like a good story to make a best-selling movie.

 

Add 'DNA testing' to the script.

Edited January 19, 2021 by EricTh

[lovethai123]

9 minutes ago, EricTh said:

Sounds like a good story to make a best-selling movie.

 

Add 'DNA testing' to the script.

 

 

Think as a real man for some time. The virus has given us time to re evaluate our priorities and actions. 

 

I am seriously thinking to not having sex in any of the sleazy places ????????

 

 

Edited January 19, 2021 by lovethai123

[meechai]

17 minutes ago, lovethai123 said:

Like most of us he also had a girl to stay with him during his visits. He was happily married back home.

Ummm sorry NO not like "most of us" thanks

 

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It's a lot for a 50 year old man to bear. 

 

Actually it is reaping exactly what he sowed & as for him bearing it? Puleeze everyone else but him has had to bear it

Too bad daughter didn't do some "real james bond stuff" as you said & had a surprise for him too.

[lovethai123]

33 minutes ago, meechai said:

Ummm sorry NO not like "most of us" thanks

so u are a single man in thailand, good for u

33 minutes ago, meechai said:

Actually it is reaping exactly what he sowed & as for him bearing it? Puleeze everyone else but him has had to bear it

Too bad daughter didn't do some "real james bond stuff" as you said & had a surprise for him too.

 

 

 She is happy being a chiropractor just like the mommy. She wouldnt even care who the daddy was? Thais dnt care. Single moms are accepted in the society. The mommy works in pattaya while granny raises the kid. 

 

Personally I feel sorry for this man. 

 

Edited January 19, 2021 by lovethai123

[meechai]

43 minutes ago, lovethai123 said:

 

Thais dont care.

 

Personally I feel sorry for this man. 

 

 

Yeah keep telling yourself that " Thai's don't care"

 

Of course you feel sorry for him look in the mirror

[RichardColeman]

Darn it, I came here thinking you had mis-spelled 'ex minger '

[lovethai123]

55 minutes ago, meechai said:

 

Yeah keep telling yourself that " Thai's don't care"

 

Of course you feel sorry for him look in the mirror

if thais really cared , they wudnt send daughters to work in pattaya

 

everyone knows , its nt a secret,

 

may be virus has come as a blessing to those girls who have to work in pattaya to fulfill demands of the greedy mom/dad.

 

thais are learning to survive without selling their souls. without giving a rub to a foreigner who is older than her dad. 

 

 

[473geo]

He is  not her father, he has played no part in her life, end of, no point in imagining how different things might have been.

[lovethai123]

20 minutes ago, 473geo said:

He is  not her father, he has played no part in her life, end of, no point in imagining how different things might have been.

He is undergoing online therapy for over a year,

 

I kept myself in his shoes and felt terrible, 

 

 

[FritsSikkink]

3 hours ago, lovethai123 said:

 

It's a lot for a 50 year old man to bear. 

 

Doesn't sound like James Bond to me.

Edited January 19, 2021 by FritsSikkink

[FritsSikkink]

1 hour ago, lovethai123 said:

if thais really cared , they wudnt send daughters to work in pattaya

 

everyone knows , its nt a secret,

 

may be virus has come as a blessing to those girls who have to work in pattaya to fulfill demands of the greedy mom/dad.

 

thais are learning to survive without selling their souls. without giving a rub to a foreigner who is older than her dad. 

 

 

May come as a surprise but not everyone sends his kid to Pattaya. 

[lovethai123]

3 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Doesn't sound like James Bond to me.

he was able to track the women he slept with 20 + yrs ago, and the daughter.  there was no whatsapp back then, i have no idea how he found them , so i said james bond stuff. 

 

 

[lovethai123]

3 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

May come as a surprise but not everyone sends his kid to Pattaya. 

some send them to bahrain, dubai , even west, some come to my country on a six month TV and work illegally, send the money via backdoor channels 

[AlexRich]

If Donald Trump could tell stories ...

[lovethai123]

46 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

If Donald Trump could tell stories ...

 

so u really feel we haven't accidently impregnated some girl.

I know I haven't, i was a kid back in 90s and 2000s. What about you? 

 

I personally have seen mixed race girls in entertainment business. Few years back it looked fun, fun seeing girls who didn't even know who their daddy is. Fun sleeping with them. Thought many men have left their seeds around Thailand.

 

Now I feel it wasn't the best thing to sleep with those girls. 

[scubascuba3]

1 hour ago, lovethai123 said:

he was able to track the women he slept with 20 + yrs ago, and the daughter.  there was no whatsapp back then, i have no idea how he found them , so i said james bond stuff. 

 

 

There's a good chance she had sex with lots of men around that time, I know guys think they are special but he was probably one of many

[kingdong]

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

There's a good chance she had sex with lots of men around that time, I know guys think they are special but he was probably one of many

She had sex with lots of men? The flooze

[CharlieH]

Depends on the type of person you are and what sh*t baggage you are carrying with you.

Some can just do the business and move on never giving it a second thought and take it for what it is, others get emotionally involved and usually end up getting burned in the process.

 

Sounds like Bond was the latter and has a conscience, which leads me to believe there is probably a bit more to the story than has been revealed. Ultimately though I bet its western principles etc at play in an Asian setting where the thinking and attitudes are totally different in so many aspects. Sad story of regret and what might have been by the sound of it. The white knight syndrome that didnt work out.

[FritsSikkink]

6 hours ago, lovethai123 said:

some send them to bahrain, dubai , even west, some come to my country on a six month TV and work illegally, send the money via backdoor channels 

You got a very limited view of Thai society.

[FritsSikkink]

6 hours ago, lovethai123 said:

he was able to track the women he slept with 20 + yrs ago, and the daughter.  there was no whatsapp back then, i have no idea how he found them , so i said james bond stuff. 

 

 

They did have phones

[Kwasaki]

10 hours ago, lovethai123 said:

found out that the girl he used to sleep with has a daughter

Why don't he ask her.

[lovethai123]

8 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

There's a good chance she had sex with lots of men around that time, I know guys think they are special but he was probably one of many

Dear sir

 

this man i am talking about has kids who dont listen to him, say things like <deleted> off dad. dont respect him at all. there is a gap. 

 

so when he finds that an ex "girlfriend" of his  has a mixed race baby, he assumed it is his child. 

 

also the girl has his noes ,  color,  eyes too, she was born after eight months or something of his last visit to the country. obviously dna test can prove it, but there is no chance he can visit the country anytime sooner and while he is sleeping with his wife, the babygirl of his is sleeping with many many men,

 

this thought is terrible for any 50 year old man,

Edited January 20, 2021 by lovethai123

[lovethai123]

3 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

You got a very limited view of Thai society.

Thailand no 1 

happy?

 

[lovethai123]

2 hours ago, Kwasaki said:

Why don't he ask her.

i dnt know he actually met the woman again or not , bt he told me that the girl called him fr massage and he was filled with shame.

while his 2 children from wife are studying in decent colleges in the west, a biological daughter is working as a chiropractor .

 

[lovethai123]

3 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

They did have phones

yes agree that they had phones, assume how expensive it probably was back then to call overseas, and this guy used to visit LOS for "business". Why would he call some girl he just bangs?

 

I am not implying he fathered a child, i dont have dna evidence, but he wants to support that girl, want her to call him daddy and things like that. but instead at the first instance she asked him for a massage. he is secretly getting therapy online but he still hopes to send her to a university in bangkok

[lovethai123]

6 hours ago, CharlieH said:

Sounds like Bond was the latter and has a conscience, which leads me to believe there is probably a bit more to the story than has been revealed. Ultimately though I bet its western principles etc at play in an Asian setting where the thinking and attitudes are totally different in so many aspects. Sad story of regret and what might have been by the sound of it. The white knight syndrome that didnt work out.

i didnt ask any questions, only listened patiently to anything he said,

 

i was upset too as i have slept with many girls in thailand and the thought of leakage from rubber gave me chills.  

 

this guy is rich, i assume he has 20 times more money than me . he said he wants send her to a university in bangkok. and finally find a rich western white guy like him and get married. 

 

he never said he wants dna evidence. its his baby or another man's. I feel there is some race thing too, his exact words were - "I don't want a white boy's gal work in Pattaya. She should be in school".

 

[Poet]

35 minutes ago, lovethai123 said:

he told me that the girl called him fr massage and he was filled with shame

I bet, though, there was a part of him that thought "Well, that's an experience you don't get offered every day".
 

[lovethai123]

1 minute ago, Poet said:

I bet, though, there was a part of him that thought "Well, that's an experience you don't get offered every day".
 

a sick comment. 

 

 

[Poet]

Just now, lovethai123 said:

a sick comment. 

Only if you consider your own soul to be sick. Human nature is a multitude of contradictions. We each have within us the capacity for great good and great evil.

None of us are saints, none of us have only pure thoughts. It is healthy to acknowledge our minds' fleeting dark responses to reality. Otherwise, how do we guard against them?

I have always considered puritans to be highly suspect.