luckyluke Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 The oldest son ( 14 ) of my Thai wife is lazy and a good-for-nothing, but his mama don't want or is afraid of chide him. I tried to motivated him but without results, fundamentally I am "only" a Falang. Are there army or police schools which we can send him to, at his age, in order to, at least, learn him some discipline, by preference in the Chonburi or Isan area Many thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mark45y Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 Practically speaking it is too late (14 years). Military schools in the west serve the same function and are rarely effective in changing motivation. My only suggestion is finding something he likes to do. For example I had a stepson who liked to shoot pool. That’s all. Shoot pool, drink and mess with loose women. I bought him a small pool hall. I told him if he could make some money with it he could spend it on booze and broads. It was working well and he was on his way to being an pool entrepreneur but some personal problems intervened (drugs, pregnancy, jail, you name it, it happened). Too bad. But, like I said in the beginning 14 is too late to do much behavior change. What a child is going to be like is pretty much set in stone at 5 years of age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otherstuff1957 Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 You're in an impossible situation. Anything you do will be undermined by your wife & his other relatives. The only thing to do now is to protect your assets. If your house is in your wife's name, make sure that you get an usufruct, so that he can't kick you out if your wife predeceases you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Friend Same Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 you got a problem and it is your problem. too bad but thats the way it is. enjoy life. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 I am going to make a reminder, but just once. If you want to get a warning and suspension, go ahead and be off-topic, trollish or flaming. The OP asked about military or police schools (academies) in Thailand. Does anybody know. By the way, I've known tons of 14 year olds who were unmotivated, lazy and worthless who turned out just fine--some even better than fine. I've also known a few who were motivated, bright with opportunities galore, who went down the tubes. Don't count him out until the games done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slapout Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 I thought all 14 year old were this way. (joking) Have to agree with Scott, there is hope for the little <deleted> even through we wonder at times. I do not know of any military type schools but there are some boarding schools who some parents have resorted to for similar problems. A school mate (female) of our daughter was recently sent to a school on Puket. Some TV member down there may know about it. Some of the remote temples are also known for their tough love handling for problem kids. A couple of friends have gone thru this and its to say its discouraging is a understatement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TerryLH Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 The police and military schools are in high demand and difficult to get into for the average Joe. There are tutor places that prepare kids for the tests to get into the schools. I think I remember that they don't want kids with problems, bad grades or behavior. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackArtemis Posted April 7, 2010 Share Posted April 7, 2010 Cadet schools only take the best. As Terry mentioned they are in high demand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luckyluke Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thanks to the ones with the positive reactions, it seems we will need good luck and hoping "Times They Are A-Changing". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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