thenervoussurgeon Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 A friend of ours has come to Thailand for the first time ,i have known him for years ,he was married and had kids plus loads of girlfriends ,he came on holiday and all he seems interested in is Ladyboys,now i know some are good looking ,but this is ridiculas he doesnt even look at women ,i have never known anything like it ,anyone else come across this before ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Jingthing Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 Attraction of a straight man to a ladyboy is generally heterosexual. Doesn't make him bisexual. 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post brit1984 Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 Maybe he just likes tall girls with big breasts and doesn't have particularly good eyesight. Sent from iPhone; please forgive any typos or violations of forum rules 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rct99q Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 All depends were you on the receiving or giving end......I mean were the ladyboys.....not judging again...just asking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Is he pitching or catching? and wouldnt this be better in the gay section of TV? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post meatballs Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 I think just dealing with women will make you bisexual if not homosexual! 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post arthurwait Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 Having my <deleted> repeatedly groped by gay men every Song Kran funnily enough hasn't swayed me. Your friends probably just been trying to keep the closet door shut for years. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Jingthing Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 Is he pitching or catching? and wouldnt this be better in the gay section of TV? Ladyboy topics about straight men being into ladyboys are not gay forum topics. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post DP25 Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 He's probably always been interested in chicks with dicks, but wasn't able to pursue them at home do to lack of availability and embarrassment. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaidDown Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 If your friends getting on a bit in years maybe his hearing is failing, mainly the high frequencies. An attraction to lady boys is only due to him being able to understand the lower voices easier. I don't know if that makes him bisexual though. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thenervoussurgeon Posted August 19, 2012 Author Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 All depends were you on the receiving or giving end......I mean were the ladyboys.....not judging again...just asking? Well i dont know which end he was on as i didnt like to ask ,but whatever end he seemed to have had a great time and says he is coming back , as to him being gay i dont think he is ,even i can look at some ladyboys and think they are attractive ,but must admit i have never wanted to go with one as what they have down below i already have myself and the attraction of women was they had what i didnt ,if you get my drift. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Pseudolus Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 I don't think anyone can "turn" bisexual or gay. Being gay is not a black or white type of affair. There are many shades of grey in between. Maybe he was always in a shade of grey all of his life and suddenly felt freedom to explore this side whilst playing with a large set of fake baps on a hot looking woman. Don't really understand the complaint though; more girls for you I would assume. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thenervoussurgeon Posted August 19, 2012 Author Share Posted August 19, 2012 If your friends getting on a bit in years maybe his hearing is failing, mainly the high frequencies. An attraction to lady boys is only due to him being able to understand the lower voices easier. I don't know if that makes him bisexual though. actually he is only in his 40"s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thenervoussurgeon Posted August 19, 2012 Author Share Posted August 19, 2012 I don't think anyone can "turn" bisexual or gay. Being gay is not a black or white type of affair. There are many shades of grey in between. Maybe he was always in a shade of grey all of his life and suddenly felt freedom to explore this side whilst playing with a large set of fake baps on a hot looking woman. Don't really understand the complaint though; more girls for you I would assume. Oh not complaining ,its not up to me what someone does ,just curious if this was something that happens ofton. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tropo Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 He's probably always been interested in chicks with dicks, but wasn't able to pursue them at home do to lack of availability and embarrassment. Good point. Is there any need to classify the attraction as "bisexual", "homosexual" etc? Considering the number of ladyboys plying their trade, he's not alone. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post endure Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 Is he pitching or catching? and wouldnt this be better in the gay section of TV? Noooooooooooooooooooooo! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shot Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Is he pitching or catching? and wouldnt this be better in the gay section of TV? Ladyboy topics about straight men being into ladyboys are not gay forum topics. Into ladyboys? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jingthing Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Is he pitching or catching? and wouldnt this be better in the gay section of TV? Ladyboy topics about straight men being into ladyboys are not gay forum topics. Into ladyboys? That's how it usually works. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post McMagus Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 Jeez, what an interesting question ...'Can coming to Thailand make you bisexual'... I put this in the same basket as .... 'Can coming to Africa make you a negro'. 20 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Is he pitching or catching? and wouldnt this be better in the gay section of TV? Ladyboy topics about straight men being into ladyboys are not gay forum topics. Gee it comes close though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Your friend definately was curious beforehand. 100% curious. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jingthing Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Is he pitching or catching? and wouldnt this be better in the gay section of TV? Ladyboy topics about straight men being into ladyboys are not gay forum topics. Gee it comes close though. Close but no cigar. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travelmann Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 all in the mind, why stick to one species ask him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Payboy Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 It's made a lot of men ambidextrous though. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thenervoussurgeon Posted August 19, 2012 Author Share Posted August 19, 2012 Jeez, what an interesting question ...'Can coming to Thailand make you bisexual'... I put this in the same basket as .... 'Can coming to Africa make you a negro'. No thats a stupid analogy,how can you turn black by going to Africa ? read the question ,i never knew him to be attracted to anyone but women in 20 odd years and i doubt if he had even seen a transexuall ,but after seeing them has he become bisexual? i never saw him take any interest in the gay men here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jingthing Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 (edited) Jeez, what an interesting question ...'Can coming to Thailand make you bisexual'... I put this in the same basket as .... 'Can coming to Africa make you a negro'. No thats a stupid analogy,how can you turn black by going to Africa ? read the question ,i never knew him to be attracted to anyone but women in 20 odd years and i doubt if he had even seen a transexuall ,but after seeing them has he become bisexual? i never saw him take any interest in the gay men here. He's still interested in females. Ladyboys are females with an extra feature or not if they've been cut. Case closed. Edited August 19, 2012 by Jingthing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thenervoussurgeon Posted August 19, 2012 Author Share Posted August 19, 2012 While not caring one way or the other and having nothing whatsoever against ladyboys ,they are not women ,biologically they are still men ,unless they have a womb and can have children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturatica Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Many people have desires or fantasies that they may have not had the chance to fulfill. To be fair, I have found ladyboys in Thailand to be a hell of a lot more attractive than the ones I've seen in the UK, but that's just my opinion. (I'm not into ladyboys by the way, just my opinion on their looks) Thailand has a much bigger market for lady boys so maybe he took the chance to try it. He was probably always intrigued by them though. I wouldn't say it was ridiculous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tropo Posted August 19, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted August 19, 2012 (edited) While not caring one way or the other and having nothing whatsoever against ladyboys ,they are not women ,biologically they are still men ,unless they have a womb and can have children. Visually they are females. Jingthing is trying to educate you, but you've closed your mind. Allow me to elaborate. A bisexual is a person attracted to men and women. Your friend is not attracted to men therefor he cannot be bisexual. There is no way a ladyboy can be considered a man. Some of them are so feminine that the keenest eye can not tell them apart from a normal female. Even the Thais understand this and when they are mentioned in the media they often referred to as a 3rd gender. There's another point you probably haven't considered. Your friend may be into anal intercourse and oral sex - something ladyboys excel at - and there's no risk of pregnancy. Edited August 19, 2012 by tropo 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokie36 Posted August 19, 2012 Share Posted August 19, 2012 Jeez, what an interesting question ...'Can coming to Thailand make you bisexual'... I put this in the same basket as .... 'Can coming to Africa make you a negro'. No thats a stupid analogy,how can you turn black by going to Africa ? read the question ,i never knew him to be attracted to anyone but women in 20 odd years and i doubt if he had even seen a transexuall ,but after seeing them has he become bisexual? i never saw him take any interest in the gay men here. He's still interested in females. Ladyboys are females with an extra feature or not if they've been cut. Case closed. Oh come on JT....I'm breaking into a bit of Carpenters here...“Its only just begun....“ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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