wolf5370 Posted September 11, 2013 Share Posted September 11, 2013 Well to be fair he did not specifically state he was NOT after a prostitute - his OP did kind of infer that perhaps he was - it was only later he said otherwise. It seems an odd question if not after one for gratification, as the answer would be no different from "Where do I find Sagittarians in Chiang Mai?" as a percentage of the population - all around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muchogra Posted September 11, 2013 Share Posted September 11, 2013 I was followed by a ladyboy on a motorcycle to my hotel when I first came up here looking for a house to buy. Prior to that happening, my real estate agent and I had a few drinks at a restaurant somewhere across Loh Kroh. I told my agent that they could do their thing and I would watch. The ladyboy left. Boy, do they have sharp eyes! I surely hope the ladyboys here are not as notorious as those in Pattaya. Just be careful! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elektrified Posted September 11, 2013 Share Posted September 11, 2013 Indeed you should be careful OP as they are usually jacked up on yaabaa and are known thieves. Many of them are HIV+. Maybe find a different hobby to spend your time in Chiang Mai. I find them to be vile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiengmaijoe Posted September 11, 2013 Share Posted September 11, 2013 (edited) Indeed you should be careful OP as they are usually jacked up on yaabaa and are known thieves. Many of them are HIV+. Maybe find a different hobby to spend your time in Chiang Mai. I find them to be vile. The op very clearly stated in his second post that he wasn't interested in meeting ladyboy prostitutes. Did you, and almost everyone else, miss that? If not, are you really suggesting that most ladyboys are as you described? Edited September 11, 2013 by Chiengmaijoe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesquite Posted September 11, 2013 Share Posted September 11, 2013 Enlightened bunch we are, here. Did I end up on Alabama-Visa.com by mistake? Are you insinuating people from Alabama are not enlightened? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikey88 Posted September 12, 2013 Share Posted September 12, 2013 Hi there....lot of good natured hetero sass mouths on this site so don't be put off. Depends what you are interested in pursuing I would think. If you are here for a while and interested in 'serious' dating with a view to meeting someone as a partner.....then put a profile on 'planetromeo' and talk about who you are and what you want. It seems to me that being honest and straight foreward is the best way. Say you are not interested in paying anything but are interested in developing a relationship etc etc...(that's if you are of course) If you want sex then just say that. And if you don't want to pay anything just say that..... Though with the wage disparity between foreigners and locals I think it's inevitable that you end up with some kind of subsidy arrangement. The dating sites are much better than the bars in my humble experience. And I have met good genuine people on them. O.M. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lobo4819 Posted September 12, 2013 Share Posted September 12, 2013 Do you think the rough ones don't use the internet sites? 2 ways of meeting 2 types of ladyboys in Chiang Mai. If you`re interested in the ladyboys of ill repute, try hanging around the Loi Kroh road and the Tapae Gate areas after dark. Although this could involve some danger and I do not advise this method of meeting them. If you are seriously interested in meeting a ladyboy for a proper relationship, or even just as friends, than try the online dating sites or social networking sites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elektrified Posted September 12, 2013 Share Posted September 12, 2013 Hi there....lot of good natured hetero sass mouths on this site so don't be put off. Depends what you are interested in pursuing I would think. If you are here for a while and interested in 'serious' dating with a view to meeting someone as a partner.....then put a profile on 'planetromeo' and talk about who you are and what you want. It seems to me that being honest and straight foreward is the best way. Say you are not interested in paying anything but are interested in developing a relationship etc etc...(that's if you are of course) If you want sex then just say that. And if you don't want to pay anything just say that..... Though with the wage disparity between foreigners and locals I think it's inevitable that you end up with some kind of subsidy arrangement. The dating sites are much better than the bars in my humble experience. And I have met good genuine people on them. O.M. Hope the "88" doesn't mean you are 88 years old....and still chasing transvestites... LOL No offense intended...to each their own and all that... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
circusman Posted September 12, 2013 Share Posted September 12, 2013 Indeed you should be careful OP as they are usually jacked up on yaabaa and are known thieves. Many of them are HIV+. Maybe find a different hobby to spend your time in Chiang Mai. I find them to be vile. Does anyone care what you find them to be? NO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapguy Posted September 12, 2013 Share Posted September 12, 2013 Other than generally in the population, there are some "respectable" bars where you can meet and greet lady boys for research or friendship. These tend to be gay hangouts, as well, I think. Not all are sordid dives. I leave it to others to make recommendations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikey88 Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 Some contributor here actually said ..."I think there are a few bars in town for gays only." How stupid and how insulting.... It's hard to believe but there you have it. This is probably the most gay country I've ever been in the entire world... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sustento Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 Some contributor here actually said ..."I think there are a few bars in town for gays only." There are a few bars in Chiang Mai that are for gays only. This being Thailand they won't stop you going in if you're straight but they hold little appeal for straight folks. Nor do they have any ladyboys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 I love hanging out with ladyboys as i hung out with gays back home, as i where i worked as a chef i was the only straight guy in the dept....as for the gays at home, great fun to go out with..they say whatever the hell they want to... Anyhoo, i have LB friends in CMai as i much prefer to hang with them then i do with thai girls, whom i do NOT trust one bit. Of course there are bad LB as there are good ones, just like everything else in the world..I ve been cheated by some and have been close friends with others..and yes, i will even admit to kissing a few, with the help of good ole Sang som--- My thinking is if they want to live like a "LADY" i will treat them like one--if i EVER see the "boy" im getting up and leaving. It boils down to respect to me..you nice to me--im nice to you..i admire their confidence to do live life on thier terms knowing full well that the thais are making all kinds of comments BEHIND their backs, ohhh those gossipy thais--ugh So when i go out, i go hang with the lady boys..one friend of mine owns a bar and lets me bring in my SS bottle and just buy mixers..no one bothers me and they are friendly..i often take the chinese girl backpackers there to meet them-pics Also the are thai dating sites..one in particular comes to mind(caveat emptor) and i have met a few good one--note "FEW" The LB show down by night bazaar is good fun and i know most of them by name--there are indeed a few hotties there!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCC1701A Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 (edited) go to Thai Friendly dot com and set the search function to "male, female or ladyboy" and "chiang mai" good luck telling them apart from the women on that site. a few look a a little "off" but most look just like women. anybody know where I can meet a bar girl in Chiang Mai? Have been doing some research and find some of them to be quite interesting. Edited September 15, 2013 by NCC1701A Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapguy Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 This is an amazingly persistent thread! I'll be post #145 !! Why is that about ?! OP "research"? I think not. OP newbie with certain sexual preferences? Maybe. Curiosity by some follow-up posters? Maybe. But I vote for trolling. And I do not understand why this thread continues! Some of it seems simply to be "hookup" instructions! I am not a school marm, but this thread strikes me as more than a bit bizarre. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elektrified Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 I love hanging out with ladyboys as i hung out with gays back home, as i where i worked as a chef i was the only straight guy in the dept....as for the gays at home, great fun to go out with..they say whatever the hell they want to... Anyhoo, i have LB friends in CMai as i much prefer to hang with them then i do with thai girls, whom i do NOT trust one bit. Of course there are bad LB as there are good ones, just like everything else in the world..I ve been cheated by some and have been close friends with others..and yes, i will even admit to kissing a few, with the help of good ole Sang som--- My thinking is if they want to live like a "LADY" i will treat them like one--if i EVER see the "boy" im getting up and leaving. It boils down to respect to me..you nice to me--im nice to you..i admire their confidence to do live life on thier terms knowing full well that the thais are making all kinds of comments BEHIND their backs, ohhh those gossipy thais--ugh So when i go out, i go hang with the lady boys..one friend of mine owns a bar and lets me bring in my SS bottle and just buy mixers..no one bothers me and they are friendly..i often take the chinese girl backpackers there to meet them-pics Also the are thai dating sites..one in particular comes to mind(caveat emptor) and i have met a few good one--note "FEW" The LB show down by night bazaar is good fun and i know most of them by name--there are indeed a few hotties there!! weird! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiengmaijoe Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 (edited) This is an amazingly persistent thread! I'll be post #145 !! Why is that about ?! OP "research"? I think not. OP newbie with certain sexual preferences? Maybe. Curiosity by some follow-up posters? Maybe. But I vote for trolling. And I do not understand why this thread continues! Some of it seems simply to be "hookup" instructions! I am not a school marm, but this thread strikes me as more than a bit bizarre.Post #45, more like. Since you read it and took the time to post, maybe you're just like us, curious. Nothing wrong with that. If you hadn't posted, it'd still be 45,but now it's 47. if you reply, it'll be 48, but still a long way short of 145, but we'll get there.... Edited September 15, 2013 by Chiengmaijoe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapguy Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 If you are personally curious, get out and get about! Or are you in a "cyber closet" ? Otherwise, there are some considered studies of prostitution and and its varieties in the literature. Check the bookstores! But, otherwise, get out and do your own field research! Don't be a voyeur on TV Chiang Mai. Is TV Chiang Mai a guidebook for various sexual practices in Chiang Mai ?! I hope not! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottishjohn Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 This is an amazingly persistent thread! I'll be post #145 !! Why is that about ?! OP "research"? I think not. OP newbie with certain sexual preferences? Maybe. Curiosity by some follow-up posters? Maybe. But I vote for trolling. And I do not understand why this thread continues! Some of it seems simply to be "hookup" instructions! I am not a school marm, but this thread strikes me as more than a bit bizarre. Please explain why this thread is 'bizarre' and why you felt a need to both look at the subject and then make the reply you have made. The OP's Title was obvious was it not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapguy Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 Maybe this thread remains just for amusement! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapguy Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 (edited) This is an amazingly persistent thread! I'll be post #145 !! Why is that about ?! OP "research"? I think not. OP newbie with certain sexual preferences? Maybe. Curiosity by some follow-up posters? Maybe. But I vote for trolling. And I do not understand why this thread continues! Some of it seems simply to be "hookup" instructions! I am not a school marm, but this thread strikes me as more than a bit bizarre. Please explain why this thread is 'bizarre' and why you felt a need to both look at the subject and then make the reply you have made. Ok. The OP's Title was obvious, was it not? Also very silly! Bizarre thread? Look at what such a naive question has produced! Heavens! Reference to Thai Visa Chiang Mai (or to other internet sources ) on such matters is sucking life through a bent straw? Edited September 16, 2013 by onthedarkside corrected Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maestro Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 Removed an off-topic post about bestiality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 I love hanging out with ladyboys as i hung out with gays back home, as i where i worked as a chef i was the only straight guy in the dept....as for the gays at home, great fun to go out with..they say whatever the hell they want to... Anyhoo, i have LB friends in CMai as i much prefer to hang with them then i do with thai girls, whom i do NOT trust one bit. Of course there are bad LB as there are good ones, just like everything else in the world..I ve been cheated by some and have been close friends with others..and yes, i will even admit to kissing a few, with the help of good ole Sang som--- My thinking is if they want to live like a "LADY" i will treat them like one--if i EVER see the "boy" im getting up and leaving. It boils down to respect to me..you nice to me--im nice to you..i admire their confidence to do live life on thier terms knowing full well that the thais are making all kinds of comments BEHIND their backs, ohhh those gossipy thais--ugh So when i go out, i go hang with the lady boys..one friend of mine owns a bar and lets me bring in my SS bottle and just buy mixers..no one bothers me and they are friendly..i often take the chinese girl backpackers there to meet them-pics Also the are thai dating sites..one in particular comes to mind(caveat emptor) and i have met a few good one--note "FEW" The LB show down by night bazaar is good fun and i know most of them by name--there are indeed a few hotties there!! weird! just being honest and im a open-minded guy---i admire their courage and as long as they are nice to me.. i dont care about color or religion or lifestyle...just be a decent person and i can get along with anyone... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmficc Posted September 18, 2013 Share Posted September 18, 2013 Indeed you should be careful OP as they are usually jacked up on yaabaa and are known thieves. Many of them are HIV+. Maybe find a different hobby to spend your time in Chiang Mai. I find them to be vile. I have not walked in your shoes as you have not walked in theirs. However, even the Thai Army in rejecting inductees has come into the age of tolerance and kindness and classify such folks as having "gender identity disorder. A giant step from the previous "permanently insane". 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terminatorchiangmai Posted September 25, 2013 Share Posted September 25, 2013 Try ying yang massage at Loi Kroh rd. You would not think it but they all are lady boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huli Posted September 25, 2013 Share Posted September 25, 2013 Try ying yang massage at Loi Kroh rd. You would not think it but they all are lady boys. Bars with ladyboys on Loi Kroh yes Massage shops with ladyyboys on Loi Kroh I've never seen one, and I've been to both of the Yin Yangs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackr Posted September 25, 2013 Share Posted September 25, 2013 This is an amazingly persistent thread! I'll be post #145 !! Why is that about ?! OP "research"? I think not. OP newbie with certain sexual preferences? Maybe. Curiosity by some follow-up posters? Maybe. But I vote for trolling. And I do not understand why this thread continues! Some of it seems simply to be "hookup" instructions! I am not a school marm, but this thread strikes me as more than a bit bizarre. Please explain why this thread is 'bizarre' and why you felt a need to both look at the subject and then make the reply you have made. Ok. The OP's Title was obvious, was it not? Also very silly! Bizarre thread? Look at what such a naive question has produced! Heavens! Reference to Thai Visa Chiang Mai (or to other internet sources ) on such matters is sucking life through a bent straw? What's quite interesting is why you're getting a bit bent out of shape over this. Are you feeling alight? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puukao Posted September 25, 2013 Share Posted September 25, 2013 It's funny, people get mad when people back home say "Oh, going to Thailand. You like ladyboys." Based on this thread, there appears to be significant interest. I would not be surprised if this thread reaches 1 billion views. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sustento Posted September 25, 2013 Share Posted September 25, 2013 What's also significant is where the 'professional' ladyboys hang out on Loi Kroh which isn't the Chiang Mai hotbed of gay sex. They go where the customers are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terminatorchiangmai Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 Try ying yang massage at Loi Kroh rd. You would not think it but they all are lady boys. Bars with ladyboys on Loi Kroh yes Massage shops with ladyyboys on Loi Kroh I've never seen one, and I've been to both of the Yin Yangs this means you liked the big hands massage ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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