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Why young Isaan ladies marry old farangs?

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I am 67yo - wife is 36yo. We have been together for 11 years. She has no Chinese blood.

When you was 36 did you want to bonk a 67 year old woman ? No its disgusting. When you was 25 did you want to bonk a 56 year old hag ? Disgusting

never knew any old hags

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Well a thai paper did a survey a few years back, they asked 8 to 10 years old Isaan school girls what they wanted to do after they finished school

99% said that they wanted to marry a "farang",as farangs would take better care of them that a thai husband would

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The real fools are sponsors! They send money to the girl while they are not even here and the girlis doing everyone and anyone! At least the ones that buy a house or live here, the girl is

with him all the time!

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Who cares if they are happy and if not its none of our business.

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Whilst I would never debate the issue of farang parenting skills & general contribution to the Thai community, my initial post referred to AGE DISPARITY.

ie young chicks & old farts

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Posts 4 & 5. Thank you for your input.

Are you relating your personal experience or is it bartalk?

Personal experience of 10 yrs here (mid 20's to mid-30's) 2 years of which were in Isaan as a single-man.

what they get up to when ol' fella is at home you wouldn't believe.

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Many take actual pride in it, bringing over bottles of Black Label boasting that the ATM paid for it, the new scooter, car, whatever.

Just speaking the truth.

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Young Issarn ladies are in most cases poorly educated and respect elderly western gentlemen for their wisdom and knowledge....................thumbsup.gif

And especially their familiarity with astronomy, marine biology, physics, and world history.

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Young Issarn ladies are in most cases poorly educated and respect elderly western gentlemen for their wisdom and knowledge....................thumbsup.gif

cheesy.gif funniest post of the month !!!

"Me go topside you...won hundred dolla. (As she rubs your hairless skull)

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Wise up "MyThaiMyKe"

At least the ones that buy a house or live here, the girl is
with him all the time!

Personal experience of 10 yrs here (mid 20's to mid-30's) 2 years of which were in Isaan as a single-man.

what they get up to when ol' fella is at home you wouldn't believe.

coffee1.gif

Many take actual pride in it, bringing over bottles of Black Label boasting that the ATM paid for it, the new scooter, car, whatever.

Just speaking the truth.

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40 years difference is insane and pathetic .....and a everyone in that kind of marriage needs urgent counseling...but I know many couples with 25 years difference in age that REALLY are in very successful and loving marriages...with one detail. They live in the US, are very active couples, and the Thai girl becomes very "American", learning and enjoying very much the language, the customs, and the culture..

Without a very good communication and understanding, any marriage is just an exchange of convenience, with or without big difference in age, and in any country. The questions is...Why to get married with your housekeeper or your sexual partner.....getting worry with dishonesty, cheating, money, other people's relatives, intrigues, etc, etc, and losing the freedom of a single man life?

Doesn't make sense to me. .

Only LOVE... will make the needs to chose. Being in a marriage without real love.... it is a lot worst than to being alone, at any age. But....feeling alone in Thailand? ....How?... Why?

Here... it is not easy to find the right lifetime companion, but....you can have the best of the 2 worlds while looking...and being alone may be not so bad... not bad at all. My opinion.....

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Wife was a marriage broker until I put a stop to what is not far away from pimping. We get stopped every week by ladies that want a 'Farang' by which they mean money. They generally can't speak English. One has three houses, a few million in the bank and is continuing her career of capturing old Farangs and presumably poisoning them. The only guys that get my respect are the ones that have a wife/girlfriend that is more or less his age. (There may be exceptions of course- I occasionally see a youngish Farang in town with his much older wife, they seem to be happy). We know one that is HIV positive... so many unpleasant stories, I count my lucky stars to be where I am now.

No more money? No more love. That is the same everywhere.

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40 years difference is insane and pathetic .....and a everyone in that kind of marriage needs urgent counseling...but I know many couples with 25 years difference in age that REALLY are in very successful and loving marriages...with one detail. They live in the US, are very active couples, and the Thai girl becomes very "American", learning and enjoying very much the language, the customs, and the culture..

Without a very good communication and understanding, any marriage is just an exchange of convenience, with or without big difference in age, and in any country. The questions is...Why to get married with your housekeeper or your sexual partner.....getting worry with dishonesty, cheating, money, other people's relatives, intrigues, etc, etc, and losing the freedom of a single man life?

Doesn't make sense to me. .

Only LOVE... will make the needs to chose. Being in a marriage without real love.... it is a lot worst than to being alone, at any age. But....feeling alone in Thailand? ....How?... Why?

Here... it is not easy to find the right lifetime companion, but....you can have the best of the 2 worlds while looking...and being alone may be not so bad... not bad at all. My opinion.....

And you are entitled to your opinion.

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This is not a troll thread. The best that the members can come up with is $$$.
I see nothing wrong with this.
I would much prefer to live a life surrounded with material toys. Economic security is a natural desire the world over.

Maybe I should have headed the thread along the lines of -

:"Ingredients for a lasting, mutually rewarding relationship?"

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Okay, young girls marry older men for security. It is not just old farangs there are many young women who marry older Thai men, sometimes it was arranged by the family. Also many younger Thai women marry older farangs, because, I hate to say it, but look around, how many young Thai guys are around that you would want your daughter to marry. You may not like them marrying someone the same age as you, but at least you know they will be looked after and have a good life. There are not too many young Thai men around, who I can st the same thing about. The young Thai girls would love to marry young farang men, but not too many of them around. There is 14 years between my wife and I, not too much, but I think it would be difficult if there were much more, unless I was 80 and she 50.

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Maybe it's because the typical farang in Isaan (the ones I meet anyway) is NOT:

ill-educated

boring

prone to blind falling-down drunken bouts on a regular basis

a freguent yaba user

work shy (job or around the house)

secretive about where he goes at night

mysoginist when it comes to women's place in the world

lacking in any motivation for his own and his family's lives

Give me a 60 year old farang over a 35 year old Isaan male any day of the week

Stand up and be proudly counted you Isaan farangsthumbsup.gif

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