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Divorce in Isaan

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What is wrong with some guys. Dont they understand the saying "you can take a girl from the bar but can never take the bar from the girl". If a lady is prepared to sell her soul and hole for the elusive baht then dont you think she is capable of anything? Leave the bar girls where they belong. In a bar. Sorry but no sympathy. Use the primary brain not the secondary brain. Bar girls (prostitutes) belong in bars or brothels. They do not belong in the kitchen cooking dinner waiting faithfully for their loving husband to come home and eat after a hard days work. Tigers belong in the jungle not playing in your backyard.

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Always Buriram, Sisaket or Udon Thani. What is it about these provinces?

You forgot Surin

+ Korat, Khon Kaen and probably Roi et

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And, by the way, I didn't go to Pattaya...I stay in a quiet place somewhere in Rayong...

No problem going to pattaya... Have the time of your life with the money you 'think' you should be giving her (for being a slimy dirty ho and leaving you for a cripple??)... Actually, I feel bad for you, just don't marry the next slimy dirty ho that says she loves you...

... And please read "The Book" (Private Dancer)

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Obviously its the new Farang ATM who is footing the legal fees.

The OP is being stitched up and sadly I can`t see any ways out of this for him, except that he tries to get out of this as economically as possible.

He could make an offer of 50/50 split on the house and argue that as the new guy has admitted in writing that he is paying each month a fee for the services of the OP`s wife (that`s prostitution in theory) and therefore she is now financially the boyfriend`s responsibility. The OP made a critical error in his life by marrying a prostitute and it`s going to cost him. How much? Depends on the case he presents.

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Since New Year my wife started having an affair with another farang. Of course she never told me...I took care of her and her 2 children since 8 years and this year I also paid for the University of the daughter. In June, the (disabled) new boy friend feared that she would come back to me. He phoned to me saying that he was having "a sexual relationship" with her for which he paid her 15.000.- Thb/month and also gave her presents (clothes, gold etc...). My wife deinied everything but more and more people in Prakhon Chai were talking about her. I asked the boy-friend to write me a declaration about this affair...and he did. Than I went to the Court in Buriram in order to obtain a divorce. My wife also came with a Lawyer and demanded the (almost new) house + 10.000.000.-Thb. (She is not Hi-So, she came from a bar in Pattaya). After 3 hrs of discussion her demand went down to 800.000.-Thb +house.

I told heer that she could keep the house ( costed me 1,8 mio) but I didn't see any reason to pay her.

The (female) Judge and the lawyer insisted that I had to "do something" and even threatened me saying that if I didn't, I could be sentenced at the next hearing (Feb 2016). So I offered to give 300.000.-Thb for the daughter's studies. My wife refused and I will have to go back to Court again...

Even having the written prove...they don't take this in consideration.

Hi of what I have been told if married to a thai you get 50% of the home if you can sell , hide your money send it home you say she goes has sex with some head who can't fine a thai lady in thai I for one not understand how a man from the west go's after a mans wife gets me not as if no thai lady's in thailand but now it is problem not yours so get out go get a new one and let him have the wit not you and you will not get in trouble if you not pay her out someone is bullshiting to you best of luck and get a new one lots around and good ones to .

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And, by the way, I didn't go to Pattaya...I stay in a quiet place somewhere in Rayong...

No problem going to pattaya... Have the time of your life with the money you 'think' you should be giving her (for being a slimy dirty ho and leaving you for a cripple??)... Actually, I feel bad for you, just don't marry the next slimy dirty ho that says she loves you...

... And please read "The Book" (Private Dancer)

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Posters should back off on the moralizing and preaching latterly the high ground. The topic is not supposed to be a cathartic release for posters, reconstructing their own errors into an ideal life for the OP.

Some ugly hypocrisy running around here.

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A leopard never changes its spots.

But, there is always an exception to the rule.

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Posters should back off on the moralizing and preaching latterly the high ground. The topic is not supposed to be a cathartic release for posters, reconstructing their own errors into an ideal life for the OP.

Some ugly hypocrisy running around here.

you should be more specific if you're gonna accuse...

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No hypocrisy here. I did not marry a prostitute. For the love of me I cannot fathom the words bar girl. Is it to make others feel good instead of using the real name for the girls. I am not having a go at the girls just calling a spade a spade. They are there for short term rental. Not for meaningful relations.

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I believe Thai law allows you to sue any man who knowingly had relations with your wife for finacial damages.

Talk to a good lawyer and take legal action to prevent further loss and the best result.

I would go after both of them.

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Hello all, i am being Divorced by mutual agreement in Khon Kan in December from Thai wife, can any one tell me if its true that i need some papers translated into Thai and if it is true where do i get it done

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In Thailand assets are divided 50/50 even if they fight it. I know I went through it. Court is very fair. Get a new lawyer.

Agreed, as per my divorce. Stupid demands were made by her before the hearing, as OP's wife, but once my lawyer put her in her place it was 50/50.

Let's say OP's house value is 1.8 + 1.2 in other assets, (cash in bank, car, motorbike etc) = 3.0, divide that by 2 = 1.5 each.

Give her the house at 1.8, job done, exactly as my divorce settlement went, painful but walked away a much happier man.

Just make sure you get a lawyer, a good lawyer, and quick who will put her in her place with regard to these stupid settlement demands.

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In Thailand assets are divided 50/50 even if they fight it. I know I went through it. Court is very fair. Get a new lawyer.

Agreed, as per my divorce. Stupid demands were made by her before the hearing, as OP's wife, but once my lawyer put her in her place it was 50/50.

Let's say OP's house value is 1.8 + 1.2 in other assets, (cash in bank, car, motorbike etc) = 3.0, divide that by 2 = 1.5 each.

Give her the house at 1.8, job done, exactly as my divorce settlement went, painful but walked away a much happier man.

Just make sure you get a lawyer, a good lawyer, and quick who will put her in her place with regard to these stupid settlement demands.

Good advice as the old poem goes

Have you ever been insolvent?

Have you ever been in debt?

with creditors pursuing by the score

If you've had that sort of strife

Than I can bet my life

That you'll have to seek the service of the law

Have you ever wooed a woman

of whose age you were not sure?

It turns out she's seventeen not 24

If you have that sort of strife

than I would bett my life

Youd better seek the services of law

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Go and beat the crap out of the other guy as well. Dont give you money but a lot of satisfaction

im incline to agree with you BUT 1, she's not worth it, after all she's only a bar girl and the last thing any of us should do is fight over a women in Thailand there's thousand of good women here 2. ull end up either in hospital or the police station paying out. in a word move on

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