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thanx for many good replies. i agree with you. this gal alleges she is an engineer and even writes on profile meeting for coffee is not acceptable but it must be a quality restaurant.

i messaged her asking if she has a list of acceptable places. sirocco was the reply.

next i thought maybe she gets a commission? maybe she wants to get a free expensive meal? maybe she is a very bitter unhappy person and thinks her ego will be healed with expensive food?

maybe golden pussy syndrome?

Or maybe she comes from the upper crust and doesn't want to mess about with guys that can't afford her habits. Thais aren't straightforward about many things, but they usually are when it comes to money.

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Anyone still use the TF site? And if so has it changed that much since? As I said the last time I was there was when the iPhone 4s was new. But I guess to be fair there are gold diggers on all of the dating type sites, pictures of other people is a classic as well. Has anyone ever gone to meet someone to find they have been duped by a picture that was not who you thought? I got that once haha makes for an interesting story.

It's different bc online dating is more spread out. Five years ago I met ten girls a day on that site and was shagging three of em per week. Cute ones too. Now Im lucky if one of em replies per day, and they're rarely lookers.

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1BADDAT said, “Obviously this was probably a different shop than I went to. I can't date a woman that (sic) is that poor at her job. I am not sure who the prize was supposed to be in my sitiuation (sic) since the whole shop was involved in my eye exam.”

I’ve spent several hours in my favorite shop and have seen the staff do the eye tests to fit glasses if the customer had the prescription. So, you may not have even seen the optician, let alone the optometrist—in fact the optometrist at my favorite shop has other shops she services.

If you can't date a woman who is poor at her job; then, I suggest you not date any of the women you saw.

That seems to be basic intelligence, but then many farangs seem to lack the basics where women are concerned. I have seen many farangs married to Thais who complain their wife can't place them ahead of her Thai family, can't embrace his culture, can't live without being in Thailand, can't learn English, can't cook for them, can't eat anything but Thai food, can't stick to a budget, can't be trusted with a credit card, can't handle paying the bills; can't, can't, can’t . . .

Really, then why didn't the farang find-out these things before he married her?

im trying to decipher your rambling and I'm not sure you even know what you are trying to say.

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Anyone still use the TF site? And if so has it changed that much since? As I said the last time I was there was when the iPhone 4s was new. But I guess to be fair there are gold diggers on all of the dating type sites, pictures of other people is a classic as well. Has anyone ever gone to meet someone to find they have been duped by a picture that was not who you thought? I got that once haha makes for an interesting story.

It's different bc online dating is more spread out. Five years ago I met ten girls a day on that site and was shagging three of em per week. Cute ones too. Now Im lucky if one of em replies per day, and they're rarely lookers.

It's an online brothel.

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thanx for many good replies. i agree with you. this gal alleges she is an engineer and even writes on profile meeting for coffee is not acceptable but it must be a quality restaurant.

i messaged her asking if she has a list of acceptable places. sirocco was the reply.

next i thought maybe she gets a commission? maybe she wants to get a free expensive meal? maybe she is a very bitter unhappy person and thinks her ego will be healed with expensive food?

maybe golden pussy syndrome?

Or maybe she comes from the upper crust and doesn't want to mess about with guys that can't afford her habits. Thais aren't straightforward about many things, but they usually are when it comes to money.

screening to see what lucky lad(s) will have the privilege. i have known women that did masters and phd's in america and england with family money and are down to earth and not at all pretentious. we share the bill or i must argue so i can pay on occasion. me thinks some online dating sites are hunting grounds for gold-diggers.

a date at starbucks is not for paupers either but she specified no meeting for coffee.

i see image over substance here. money sort of replaces self esteem via achievement- personal development. somehow getting money is highly associated with self worth. a thai friend told me he once saw a well known highly paid female tv celebrity at a vip floor of a high end massage in bkk.

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thanx for many good replies. i agree with you. this gal alleges she is an engineer and even writes on profile meeting for coffee is not acceptable but it must be a quality restaurant.

i messaged her asking if she has a list of acceptable places. sirocco was the reply.

next i thought maybe she gets a commission? maybe she wants to get a free expensive meal? maybe she is a very bitter unhappy person and thinks her ego will be healed with expensive food?

maybe golden pussy syndrome?

Or maybe she comes from the upper crust and doesn't want to mess about with guys that can't afford her habits. Thais aren't straightforward about many things, but they usually are when it comes to money.

screening to see what lucky lad(s) will have the privilege. i have known women that did masters and phd's in america and england with family money and are down to earth and not at all pretentious. we share the bill or i must argue so i can pay on occasion. me thinks some online dating sites are hunting grounds for gold-diggers.

a date at starbucks is not for paupers either but she specified no meeting for coffee.

i see image over substance here. money sort of replaces self esteem via achievement- personal development. somehow getting money is highly associated with self worth. a thai friend told me he once saw a well known highly paid female tv celebrity at a vip floor of a high end massage in bkk.

Not sure how that last line relates to the topic. Rich girl uses VIP room at spa. No surprise there. But yes, Ive also known a few Thais from wealthy families that are very down to Earth. I have to twist their arms or trick them into letting me pay for anything. Still, others are not so liberal and would not waste their time with a guy that cant buy em dinner at a high-end restaurant without batting an eye, as that would likely be the expectation of their family.

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thanx for many good replies. i agree with you. this gal alleges she is an engineer and even writes on profile meeting for coffee is not acceptable but it must be a quality restaurant.

i messaged her asking if she has a list of acceptable places. sirocco was the reply.

next i thought maybe she gets a commission? maybe she wants to get a free expensive meal? maybe she is a very bitter unhappy person and thinks her ego will be healed with expensive food?

maybe golden pussy syndrome?

Or maybe she comes from the upper crust and doesn't want to mess about with guys that can't afford her habits. Thais aren't straightforward about many things, but they usually are when it comes to money.

screening to see what lucky lad(s) will have the privilege. i have known women that did masters and phd's in america and england with family money and are down to earth and not at all pretentious. we share the bill or i must argue so i can pay on occasion. me thinks some online dating sites are hunting grounds for gold-diggers.

a date at starbucks is not for paupers either but she specified no meeting for coffee.

i see image over substance here. money sort of replaces self esteem via achievement- personal development. somehow getting money is highly associated with self worth. a thai friend told me he once saw a well known highly paid female tv celebrity at a vip floor of a high end massage in bkk.

Not sure how that last line relates to the topic. Rich girl uses VIP room at spa. No surprise there. But yes, Ive also known a few Thais from wealthy families that are very down to Earth. I have to twist their arms or trick them into letting me pay for anything. Still, others are not so liberal and would not waste their time with a guy that cant buy em dinner at a high-end restaurant without batting an eye, as that would likely be the expectation of their family.

i refer to VIP floor of a hiso soapie in rachada where the tv celebrity is also available for purchase..last time i checked, thai doctors at government hospitals get 30k / month. unless independently wealthy i doubt they would be foolish enough to blow 1-2 weeks or more salary either. the gal this topic is about wrote "show me your class" related to fine dining. i guess those poor slobs that get 30k/ month after medical school have no class either.

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i refer to VIP floor of a hiso soapie in rachada where the tv celebrity is also available for purchase..last time i checked, thai doctors at government hospitals get 30k / month. unless independently wealthy i doubt they would be foolish enough to blow 1-2 weeks or more salary either. the gal this topic is about wrote "show me your class" related to fine dining. i guess those poor slobs that get 30k/ month after medical school have no class either.

Clearly the girl's a gold digger. Class in this instance is just a... classy way of saying rich. But she's entitled to be that way, especially if she comes from money. (I seem to remember meeting a girl on TF that told me flat out she doesn't date guys that earn less than her. Fair enough.) The part I have a problem with is thinking anyone- wealthy or otherwise- is gonna take a chance and drop 10K on a first date with a girl they've never met in person. Seems kinda audacious considering she might not be who she makes herself out to be. Plus, anyone who has that kind of money wouldn't need to go looking for love on the Internet.

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i refer to VIP floor of a hiso soapie in rachada where the tv celebrity is also available for purchase..last time i checked, thai doctors at government hospitals get 30k / month. unless independently wealthy i doubt they would be foolish enough to blow 1-2 weeks or more salary either. the gal this topic is about wrote "show me your class" related to fine dining. i guess those poor slobs that get 30k/ month after medical school have no class either.

Clearly the girl's a gold digger. Class in this instance is just a... classy way of saying rich. But she's entitled to be that way, especially if she comes from money. (I seem to remember meeting a girl on TF that told me flat out she doesn't date guys that earn less than her. Fair enough.) The part I have a problem with is thinking anyone- wealthy or otherwise- is gonna take a chance and drop 10K on a first date with a girl they've never met in person. Seems kinda audacious considering she might not be who she makes herself out to be. Plus, anyone who has that kind of money wouldn't need to go looking for love on the Internet.

agree with you 100%.

i would consider 10K to attend a charitable dinner with genuine nice wealthy people. i have supported worthy charities and/or donated time/services in the past. i dont consider a TF girl a charity

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My dates usually get treated to a serving of grilled chicken with sticky rice as a test. if it's good enough for me, it ought to be good enough for them, too. If they frown, they are not worth my time, I get rid of them as fast as I can and continue with my happy life - sans potential leech. Luckily, I think with my brain and not my... well, you know.

When I was single and dating I would offer them the choice between somewhere expensive and somewhere cheap, if they didn't want to go to the expensive place because they would feel out of place then I wouldn't bother with them any further.

You can tell a lot about what sort of family they are from by who they feel comfortable around.

And a relationship where your partner doesn't like going to the places you like going, is not going to work, even if you don't mind slumming it sometimes.

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1BADDAT said, “Obviously this was probably a different shop than I went to. I can't date a woman that (sic) is that poor at her job. I am not sure who the prize was supposed to be in my sitiuation (sic) since the whole shop was involved in my eye exam.”

I’ve spent several hours in my favorite shop and have seen the staff do the eye tests to fit glasses if the customer had the prescription. So, you may not have even seen the optician, let alone the optometrist—in fact the optometrist at my favorite shop has other shops she services.

If you can't date a woman who is poor at her job; then, I suggest you not date any of the women you saw.

That seems to be basic intelligence, but then many farangs seem to lack the basics where women are concerned. I have seen many farangs married to Thais who complain their wife can't place them ahead of her Thai family, can't embrace his culture, can't live without being in Thailand, can't learn English, can't cook for them, can't eat anything but Thai food, can't stick to a budget, can't be trusted with a credit card, can't handle paying the bills; can't, can't, can’t . . .

Really, then why didn't the farang find-out these things before he married her?

im trying to decipher your rambling and I'm not sure you even know what you are trying to say.

Me say, if you no likey girl, then no marry girl.

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My dates usually get treated to a serving of grilled chicken with sticky rice as a test. if it's good enough for me, it ought to be good enough for them, too. If they frown, they are not worth my time, I get rid of them as fast as I can and continue with my happy life - sans potential leech. Luckily, I think with my brain and not my... well, you know.

When I was single and dating I would offer them the choice between somewhere expensive and somewhere cheap, if they didn't want to go to the expensive place because they would feel out of place then I wouldn't bother with them any further.

You can tell a lot about what sort of family they are from by who they feel comfortable around.

And a relationship where your partner doesn't like going to the places you like going, is not going to work, even if you don't mind slumming it sometimes.

Assuming you were dating in Thailand when you were single, it sounds as though you have a very clear understanding of the emotional needs of the Thai female and are truly an empathetic person.

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My dates usually get treated to a serving of grilled chicken with sticky rice as a test. if it's good enough for me, it ought to be good enough for them, too. If they frown, they are not worth my time, I get rid of them as fast as I can and continue with my happy life - sans potential leech. Luckily, I think with my brain and not my... well, you know.

When I was single and dating I would offer them the choice between somewhere expensive and somewhere cheap, if they didn't want to go to the expensive place because they would feel out of place then I wouldn't bother with them any further.

You can tell a lot about what sort of family they are from by who they feel comfortable around.

And a relationship where your partner doesn't like going to the places you like going, is not going to work, even if you don't mind slumming it sometimes.

interesting perspective. would you not place value on a girls humility and feeling uncomfortable with you spending 10- 20,000 baht for dinner on a date?

if she is educated, progressive and worldly she will likely know restaurants that have value for nice food and affordability. theres tons of such restaurants in bangkok.

me personally, if a good (wealthy) good friend invited me to sirocco or equivalent i'd flat out refuse. would not be comfortable at all. that is a good friend. a near stranger and its an even easier decision.

fyi, i have traveled extensively throught europe and believe i know good food and value. very nice food in france and italy.

in the past i was involved academically at one of the highly esteemed medical schools in bkk. sometime a group of senior female physicians took me to dinner. you know what, the places they knew had great food and not even snobby arrogant or overpriced. we also ate street food; papaya salad, bbq chicken, sticky rice and "loving it"

i also know a thai gal at management level for a japanese company that can only eat limited thai food. does not feel comfortable in any such high end restaurant.

just out of curiousity it sure seems Bocuse restaurant in America is a much better(lower priced) deal than sirocco. paul bocuse is a reasonable solid name in fine dining.

http://www.bocuserestaurant.com/menus/

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Just make a time and appointment to go there. Follow it up with a SMS about 10 minutes before you're about to meet up saying traffic is bad you will be 20 minutes late. 25 minutes after than send another saying bad taxi took you to the wrong place. Please wait and order a drink while you get a new taxi. Then 30 minutes later say sorry your mom is sick you need to pai hospital.

I have seen this before I am not sure if its so much for the food or for the selfie at the restaurant so post for all their friends to see they are eating HiSo. Once prior to my getting married I had a TF girl want to meet me at Central World for Sushi. That was fine and the meal was not bad but the conversation revolved around her needing a new phone. An iPhone 4s (newest at the time) none the less. I shrugged it off and said you will have to save to be able to afford it. Her reply was yes unless you buy it for me!! So I said sure lets go. Went up to the apple shop and had her pick out the one she liked, she was excitedly talking to the sales guy. I excused my self with a quick " Katote krup bap numg, pourt tong mak pai hong man na " She smiled and said OK hurry na. I had quite the smirk on my face getting into the taxi going home whilst blocking her number.

Som Nam Na

Or you could just say 'no'

Where's the fun in that!

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I just sent this little hottie a message on TF telling her how beautiful she was and i wanted to get to know her.

She responded. Sure, if you can take care of me with money.

I responded back. Sure, I can take care of you with money if you can take care of me with sex.

Suffice it to say she didn't respond back.

Well at least i still have my money.

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