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Apart from the very obvious financial reasons, just what is it that Thai women would find most attractive in Western men.

Their looks, tall, short, dark, blonde, their personality, physique etc?

Also, what do you think would turn off Thai women most about Western men?

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Depends on the background of the Thais that the Westerner comes into contact with.

If they are professionals/hi-so then they are more likely to adopt what we would regard as western standards in terms of 'attractiveness'.

In most other cases it is financial. Either short-term gain from maximising what the Farang is prepared to throw at them - or, slowly, slowly catch a monkey for long-term security.

I believe that in the majority of cases the Thai lady is seeking financial security - and a better life. Many have had poor experiences with Thai partners and look to Westerners to provide something better. In these situations I think that looks, age and even body odour may come second to being taken care of and respected.

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I just know some bitter old timer is going to say 'money'... that all Thai Women are only after your money...

Of course the question itself is flawed... Thai's like people of the rest of the world are individual and impossible to generalise.

It may be a better question to ask "what do you think your woman was looking for?"... In response to that... I think humour and confidence.

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I think skin colour is actually a factor too. Am I allowed to say that?

If she has some lao/cam blood or for whatever reason is darker than average, mix with a white falang so the kids look more like most thais.

This one took me a while to figure out

Personally, I prefer the darker skin colour.

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Not sure. However, I am certain it has nothing to do with the number of posts you have on TV.

Not sure. However, I am certain it has nothing to do with the number of posts you have on TV.

Do you mean any poster, or me personally?

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Cleanliness. Take a cake of soap to your body and brush your teeth before trying to impress.

Is cleanliness ok if you are fat, tattooed, facial haired?

These are the three main turn offs as far as looks are concerned for Thai women IMO.

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if she is a normal Thai lady ,then love , ,mind you when i was young it tended to be big tits in a woman ,rather than love biggrin.png

Personally, I think that really big tits are a turn off in any woman.

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I just know some bitter old timer is going to say 'money'... that all Thai Women are only after your money...

Of course the question itself is flawed... Thai's like people of the rest of the world are individual and impossible to generalise.

It may be a better question to ask "what do you think your woman was looking for?"... In response to that... I think humour and confidence.

Do you honestly believe that it is possible that the fat, tattooed, facial haired guy with the really attractive young Thai woman

has the genuine love of that really attractive young Thai woman?

that all Thai Women are only after your money... That is definitely not the case.

Thai's like people of the rest of the world are individual and impossible to generalise. That definitely is the case.

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Cleanliness. Take a cake of soap to your body and brush your teeth before trying to impress.

Is cleanliness ok if you are fat, tattooed, facial haired?

These are the three main turn offs as far as looks are concerned for Thai women IMO.

Ok, so now we try to stack the odds.

Take a shower, brush your teeth, have a shave, cover your tats, wear loose fitting clothing..

And don't behave like an ass..

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thai women look - like women all over the world - for security, comfort, pleasure. taking care of their needs is no. 1.

you identify their needs and you will never loose them.

BUT: unlike western women, who appear to have an in - built sense of entitlement, thai women are willing AND able to re - pay in many ways.

i am happy to financially support my thai gf in return for: a clean house, good food, buying me beer, keeping my glass full, doing all the immigration stuff, stay sober when i am not, good sex - any which way i want, being young, looking good all the time, staying slim, putting up with me not knowing thai language, taking care of the kids, not maxing out her phone allowance, traveling to bangkok 3 times to get one visa....

i could add a few more.

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Cleanliness. Take a cake of soap to your body and brush your teeth before trying to impress.

Is cleanliness ok if you are fat, tattooed, facial haired?

These are the three main turn offs as far as looks are concerned for Thai women IMO.

Ok, so now we try to stack the odds.

Take a shower, brush your teeth, have a shave, cover your tats, wear loose fitting clothing..

And don't behave like an ass..

There comes a point where loose fitting clothing just can't hide the fact that those folds of flab are lurking under the rent-tent gear. Nothing - absolutely nothing - is going to persuade me that an attractive young Thai woman is going to be genuinely attracted to a 40 / 50 / 60 year old lardass. On that basis, it has to be a case of some idiot flashing too much cash has attracted a gold digger. It should come as no surprise to the poor sod when he wakes up to reality and a drained wallet, but hey, live in denial, why not?

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I am not sure any two people want the same thing or will tolerate the same things. It depends on how desperate they are. It is often hard to imagine what two people see in each other and I suspect people often don’t have any idea what they are getting, due to their inability to read cross-culturally or communicate in any meaningful way.

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Cleanliness. Take a cake of soap to your body and brush your teeth before trying to impress.

Is cleanliness ok if you are fat, tattooed, facial haired?

These are the three main turn offs as far as looks are concerned for Thai women IMO.

Ok, so now we try to stack the odds.

Take a shower, brush your teeth, have a shave, cover your tats, wear loose fitting clothing..

And don't behave like an ass..

There comes a point where loose fitting clothing just can't hide the fact that those folds of flab are lurking under the rent-tent gear. Nothing - absolutely nothing - is going to persuade me that an attractive young Thai woman is going to be genuinely attracted to a 40 / 50 / 60 year old lardass. On that basis, it has to be a case of some idiot flashing too much cash has attracted a gold digger. It should come as no surprise to the poor sod when he wakes up to reality and a drained wallet, but hey, live in denial, why not?

no, i don't share your view. is that fat blob you? the one you are talking about? not all older guys are 'lardasses'. are you? perhaps dealing with your own shortcomings would do wonders to your perception of 'what thai women look most for in western men'.

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Cleanliness. Take a cake of soap to your body and brush your teeth before trying to impress.

Is cleanliness ok if you are fat, tattooed, facial haired?

These are the three main turn offs as far as looks are concerned for Thai women IMO.

Ok, so now we try to stack the odds.

Take a shower, brush your teeth, have a shave, cover your tats, wear loose fitting clothing..

And don't behave like an ass..

You cannot hide being overweight, which I believe is more unpopular with Thai girls than the tattoos, facial hair.

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if she is a normal Thai lady ,then love , ,mind you when i was young it tended to be big tits in a woman ,rather than love biggrin.png

Personally, I think that really big tits are a turn off in any woman.

They look quite good on khatoeys!! biggrin.png

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thai women look - like women all over the world - for security, comfort, pleasure. taking care of their needs is no. 1.

you identify their needs and you will never loose them.

BUT: unlike western women, who appear to have an in - built sense of entitlement, thai women are willing AND able to re - pay in many ways.

i am happy to financially support my thai gf in return for: a clean house, good food, buying me beer, keeping my glass full, doing all the immigration stuff, stay sober when i am not, good sex - any which way i want, being young, looking good all the time, staying slim, putting up with me not knowing thai language, taking care of the kids, not maxing out her phone allowance, traveling to bangkok 3 times to get one visa....

i could add a few more.

Nailed it in one.

If anyone seriously believes that "money" (by that I mean providing security etc) is not a factor then they are either deluding themselves or have a partner with more money than them.

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if she is a normal Thai lady ,then love , ,mind you when i was young it tended to be big tits in a woman ,rather than love biggrin.png

Personally, I think that really big tits are a turn off in any woman.

They look quite good on khatoeys!! biggrin.png

Do they? well maybe it is the case that you are that way inclined.cheesy.gifcheesy.gif

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Cleanliness. Take a cake of soap to your body and brush your teeth before trying to impress.

Is cleanliness ok if you are fat, tattooed, facial haired?

These are the three main turn offs as far as looks are concerned for Thai women IMO.

Ok, so now we try to stack the odds.

Take a shower, brush your teeth, have a shave, cover your tats, wear loose fitting clothing..

And don't behave like an ass..

There comes a point where loose fitting clothing just can't hide the fact that those folds of flab are lurking under the rent-tent gear. Nothing - absolutely nothing - is going to persuade me that an attractive young Thai woman is going to be genuinely attracted to a 40 / 50 / 60 year old lardass. On that basis, it has to be a case of some idiot flashing too much cash has attracted a gold digger. It should come as no surprise to the poor sod when he wakes up to reality and a drained wallet, but hey, live in denial, why not?

Speaking as a lard ar5e I have no problem 'attracting' attractive women half my age.

All that is accomplished without flashing more cash than the going rate.

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and just what is the going rate, 2000Bt S/T or 8000Bt L/T?

Even the ugliest, fattest, most tattooed, longest bearded guy on the planet could get that.

That would vary on location and, to a degree, quality.

I have never paid more than 1,000 Baht (I have rarely paid less) plus tip.

As I understand it that rate has always been for lard ar5es and non-lard ar5es

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They seem to like the doors it opens for em culturally, socially, etc. They also seem to like the way foreigners treat em. Mainly, we let em speak their mind.

I imagine the main turn off is the way we don't let things go easily and tend to hold people accountable to our standard of truth.

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